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I too think a Viva cream freebie would be great too, or a sample for any order over $25.00.

Powerful Sparkling Vibrating Egg I was thrilled to get this bullet as my last one died on me, and I was looking for one that had two batteries. More power! We were having some great sex the other day, and hubby came pretty hard since it was a couple days since we had sex, but I didn't. So I reached over, pulled out the bullet while he was still in me and applied it to my clit. A huge grin came over his face and I turned this baby up to high. He immediately started moving in me again and it felt so great. My orgasm was building and he was enjoying the bullet on his shaft and balls and I reached down and placed it so we both could feel it. I came really hard and he did too. I left it on and came again while he was coming down from his orgasm. I had three orgasms from this in about 5 minutes and he was enjoying the vibrations all up and down his cock. It was fantastic! This bullet is our favorite toy! Thanks Tootimid! Update: Again we love this toy! Last night we decided to have some play time and purchased a new brick of batteries. After a great bj (if I must say so myself) I said "My turn" and inserted fresh batteries. After relaxing in bed for awhile I took out the "sparkly" as I call it, ( it really is a pretty toy) Turned it on and just played with it for a while. Hubby was watching with an avid look and we were off! I then took out the vibro dolphin and handed it to him to see if he wanted to play with it on himself. He turned it on and started teasing my nipples with the dolphin and then moved down to my pussy, playing there while I had the sparkly egg on my clit. He inserted the dolphin vibe in me and slowly began to move it in. that sent me over the edge. I love the sparkly bullet all on it's own but when combined with a vaginal toy was unbelievable for me. He had three orgasms and a few smaller ones from the earlier BJ session, and I had two from the sparkly egg and the dolphin vibe combined. Tootimid once again gave us a night of loving and closeness. I can't say enough about the sparkly egg, it's unbelievable!

We have spoon sex as part of our regular play. It's a relaxing way to have sex as neither one of us has has to be on top and "working". I love it because it feels great and he loves it because he can easily move to anal after vaginal intercourse. Sometimes after intercourse he will stay in me and we both move into the spoon position after intercourse and sleep. There's nothing like falling asleep still connected. And try to get out of the "visuals" line of thinking. Alot of couples love to look at things other than frontals when having sex. It's all about the senses. Touch, taste, sound etc.

Cock rings would be great. We don't have any yet and are thinking of ordering one soon. We'd both like to see more male toys.

You're not an odd duck at all. I think you're inventive

Penile size has never been an issue for me. For me it's the whole package. This man is very aware and probably embarrassed about his penis. Society sets in in the male psyche as we're measured against perfection. For years I didn't like my nipples. I have really large areola's and always wanted small ones. So that was my "embarrassing" issue. Now that I'm more comfortable with me, I just embrace the way I was made. If he's great at oral and other things I'd work on finding a position that helps make you feel fuller when he's in you. Also his penis size will be an advantage for anal. You may be more comfortable with him in you there since he's a bit smaller. And it may be easier for you to deep throat him. I would see how the relationship goes. Don't deny yourself a great time with him over some thing he can't change. He sounds like a nice guy.

It wouldn't bother me at all. I'm all for whatever it takes to help someone have a mind blowing sexual experience. My man isn't measured by society, what happens in our bedroom is between us. Sex is play time. Dress up, fantasies, whatever. So if that's what he wanted, then I'd indulge it, it's not a big deal. I think your fantasy is great and you should talk to her about it. Start by discussing your fantasies perhaps after some really great sex when you're both relaxed and satisfied. Good luck and most of all have fun.

It depends on how horny I am. Sometimes I do it a couple times a day, and sometimes a few times a week. Not sure how often hubby jerks off alone I never asked him really. Sometimes all I want is masturbation and sometimes he'll come and lay by me while I finger myself and sometimes he'll pump me with a dildo or fingers if I need that. One of the best times we had was when I was just so horny all day, so I'd walk over to him if he was at his desk and he'd finger me til I came. He just knows my needs. Sometimes I'll have my vibe and need a quick cum and he'll anally insert himself to help make it stronger for me. Sometimes he'll just want to stroke his cock and he'll ask me to lick the head of it while he jerks off. We help each other most times. When I'm alone I like a spread out on the bed with vibe on my clit, a dildo in my pussy and a vibrating butt plug. I love just laying wide open and have all my toys pleasuring me. I very rarely use my fingers, I like vibrations on my clit and my vibe does it faster and easier for me. I also like to just lay down and have him lick my pussy while I play with my vibe.

I love it when he cums on my face and just covers me with it. I swallow when he cums in my mouth or during deep throat, I don't spit. Sometimes he'll tell me he wants to come on my ass, so I usually just flip over, stick my ass in the air and he'll jack off and cover me there. I love facials, and I love it when he sprays my tits with it too, we do so many different ways to finish.

Well I did it and I can't believe it or how good it felt. Last night my husband and I were laying in bed, and I told him I really was interested in having a gspot orgasm. I never was able to have one and wanted to feel one. So him being the game man he always is, asked what he needed to do to help me. I said let me masturbate and you work on my gspot. So he said ok and I went into the bathroom and made sure my bladder was fully emptied. I came back to bed and laid down and spread my legs and he nestled in between them. He got out my bullet and turned it on and placed it very lightly over my clit, I went to reach for it and he said no, he wanted to play for me so I said ok. He rubbed it very lightly over my clit, then leaned over and started licking my nipples and I started getting really wet. He did this for a minute or so, then he shut the bullet off and started rubbing my now swollen clit with his fingers and inserted two into my pussy and slowly started fingering me and asked me to tell him when to stop. I felt him go in a bit and up and I felt like I had to pee so I said I think there. Omg it was feeling so good. So he laid down between my legs, got the bullet and placed it back on my clit and started rubbing the area in me back and forth. I could feel myself getting ready to cum, and slowly backed down with the bullet and started flicking his hot tongue over and around my clit while rubbing my spot in my pussy. I didn't and couldn't hold back so he gave me the bullet, and scooted up between my legs, and put my legs over his to spread me open and up. Omg I could feel my whole little pussy quivering, and I took the bullet away and started fingering my clit pretty hard. My pussy was aimed up and wide open and he pushed in a bit further and really rubbed my spot in my pussy. I felt the orgasm start and immediately looked down and started fingering myself harder and as I did my pussy convulsed and I sprayed liquid in the air and all over his chest and stomach. Omfg he said and his cock that was hard as a rock started spurting in the air between my legs, he was coming as hard as I was! So I let it go and GUSHED at least a cup of liquid in the air as my orgasm hit me. My whole pussy was shaking and I could feel my contractions on his fingers. It must have lasted a minute, it was so damn good. He slowly stopped fingering me while I kept convulsing and bent down and clamped his mouth on my pussy and started licking me. I gushed a little more and he kept up with it swallowing it as I came. It was so awesome. Omg he spurted so hard when I gushed that he covered my neck and upper chest with cum. It was fantastic! He said he never saw anything like that before and the sight of all that liquid coming up like a fountain out of my pussy set him off. I am so proud I had a gspot and gushed!!! Thank you Mikayla!! You were so right. Every woman needs to try for it cause it will happen!!

I think it's very sad to hear how frustrated you are. I would not and could not be with a man that had no interest in my desires. In my opinion he sounds very selfish. 3 minutes? That's crazy. When my husband goes down on me, well we never timed it, but he stays until I cum. He does this willingly and often, and I don't have to ask. Just like I suck him off, willingly and often. If I was blowing him regularly and there was no attempt or offer made to me, I would not stay with him. Oral is a very important part of foreplay. We can't give ourselves that ultimate pleasure. As for toys, I think most men feel that the toy is a substitute, it's not. It's an aid that's all it is. They feel damn good for us and for our men if they're open enough to try them. My husband is very "macho" and always said "nothing's ever going in MY ass". Well that attitude changed when he found out how good it feels for him for me to penetrate him anally while I blow him. We love anal sex, I love it when he does me and I love giving him some anal pleasure too. My husband knows I can't cum unless I have clit stimulation. It has nothing to do with him, it's just the way I am. He works hard at stimulating me. During foreplay he fingers me, or licks my pussy or places my vibe on my clit while doing either. He's got no problem doing this. I know it turns him on when he gets me off, because his cock is practically weeping so much precum that he's soaked. Sometimes after we make love, he'll gently finger me again while he's resting and either suck on my nipples or just kiss me so that I cum once more. How does that make me feel?? Worshipped and adored. I will do anything for my husband, he cares about my pleasure so much. You are missing out by being with this man who could care less about your needs, is insecure about your sexuality and has no intention of pleasing you. Sleeping at 8:30?? Well that's well and good, but you both should be resting, gathering your strength for more lovemaking. Most of the time after we both cum we rest, and sometimes sleep for a bit, then wake up and go at it again. Hell your vibrator treats you better than he does.

Also try penetration when you are spooned, after some great sex. Have him enter you from behind on your side. You'll be relaxed and it may be easier.

I am tired of him turning me down for sex. The only time we have sex is when he asks for it but still he is masturbating EVERYDAY. I mean is that normal. Yes, it is. He is enjoying his own body, and he knows what pleases him more than anyone. He wants a quick stress relief cum. And there's nothing wrong with that. You should be masturbating whenever YOU feel the need to also. He said that sex has become like a job now and too much thinking involved(such as him holding back from coming to soon) He would rather just masturbate to a girl on the computer since "she wouldn't be able to care how fast he came" Sorry but that's just inconsiderate to say that to you. Sex is not a chore. That part would concern me. Are you voicing to him he's coming to quickly? I'd suggest you getting there a bit ahead of him. Masturbate yourself and please yourself. It's not fully up to him to satisfy you, you have to be in control of your own orgasm. I use my vibe to pleasure myself while we have sex. I know how much stim I need, and I always manage to cum with him when I do that. Maybe that will help.

Love girl on girl. Nothing gets me wetter than that.

Me too, I love seeing a woman getting fingered or vibed to an orgasm.