jmannyv

Wife and I recentlyvisited our first swingers club. We only engaged with eachother in public on this visit as we ease into this new life. My question is this. My wife tends to squirt when we have sex. What is the proper edict in response to this in a lifestyle club? Should we put a towel down beforewe have sex?

That’s too bad, I know were your coming (or not cuming) from. My wife can keep up with me either. It sucks to be in love with a person that just doesn’t quite have the same sex drive as people like we do. Good luck

Okay new question. My wife and I normally reserve anal sex for when she’s on her period. As we were discussing some of the issues we are having with anal sex (not being able to get me all the way in as discussed in the previous posting), she mentioned that perhaps one of the reasons I can get all the way in is that she’s on her period. She said that when she’s on her period her anus can become more sensitive and she thinks that maybe her anal glands swell up due to her period (specifically the area or wall between her anus and her vagina). She thinks that perhaps this swelling is making it more difficult for her to get me all the way in. Has anyone heard of this and is it normal? What are your thoughts on this?

Thanks your advice. Mikayla, I read on one of the postings that the anal canal has a curve to it and that once you get pass that curve it is much more pleasant. Do you think this is what we are encountering here and how do we get pass that point? You have been so helpful and I hope to hear from you soon on this matter. Thanks again.

Thanks to both of you for your advice. I read on one of the postings that the anal canal has a curve to it and that once you get pass that curve it is much more pleasant. Do you think this is what we are encountering here and how do we get pass that point?

Sorry should have read, How do I get all the way in her anus? I have been reading some of the articals about anal sex and they have been helpful. My wife and I have been experimanting with anal sex off and on for some time now. We have been using the spooning position and using diferent kinds of lube. It has been working to some extent but she has never been able to take me all the way in and there has always been a bit of discomfort, especialy when inserting me. She controls the insertion and finds that she can only have me in her for a short time before it get too discomforting. After reading an artical on this site we tried the Anal EZE around the opening and Astroglide inside and on my penis. She said it felt better and was not so uncomfortable however, she still could not take my penis all the way in. I could only get about half my penis in her before she felt discomfort. She was able to keep me in a little longer but it was still not long. She said that once I was about half way in she felt a lot of pressure almost like something was going to tear inside. Is this a normal feeling? Is it something she just has to get through or should we be concerned. What if anything can we do? Also, is there a better position we can use that might help us get me all the way in. Don't get me wrong I am verry happy that she is willing to go this far but I really would like to be able to go all the way in and stay there a bit longer than a minute or two. Some day we hope to be able to bend her over and do her anally while holding her by her hips (and for a long session). This is our goal but we dont want to go about it the wrong way. Can anyone help us with this. Thanks