Stillmore2learn

Actually done the deed? No, but the mood has struck me too! Luckily, I used to live within a few miles from my office, so I have stopped in at home for a little "help" from DW at lunch!

I concur with Firefighter - in military basic training, this is really one of the last things on your mind...or at least it was in my case. There is little to no privacy, and one has bigger concerns like "where the hell is the DI and when's he showing up next?" After basic, however, that's a different story. Don't know about the ship or submarine - I was in a different branch. Perhaps a navy vet can weigh in on that. Curious about your curiosity...got someone close in boot camp?

I'm pretty much a horndog most of the time, but I know exactly what you are talking about. DW and I recently took a few days from work to help my elderly mother move into a new house. She (mother) lives about six hours away from us, so we took a roadtrip down there, just she (wifey) and me. Made love two out of the four days that we were away, and most of the time we were working around each other, I was horny as hell for her... I think the day-to-day responsibilities of work, raising a family, etc. have an adverse affect on desire. By the time the end of the day arrives, sometimes all you want to do is chill.

Webbabe - If you want my opinion, Mikayla hit the nail on the head, so to speak. Having two girls at the same time is a very common male fantasy and I am confident that he can love you very much, while still wanting to experience a threesome. Something else to consider - perhaps he also wants to give you the opportunity to safely explore, within the confines of the marriage. Maybe he wants to see you experience pleasure from another woman. Keep an open mind and talk to him about it...you may find that his motives are not completely selfish. Best of luck!

Hi! Not a female here, but the topic interested me, so I thought I would respond. My wife and I, married for about 14 years, rarely have any kind of foreplay anymore - but that's the way our love life has kind of evolved, with kids, both work, etc. We do, however, have regular intercourse and my wife prefers to achieve several orgrams through straight pumping + vibrator. During an average session, she'll achieve 2 - 4 orgasms, and I'll pump away anywhere from 30 - 45 minutes (sometimes longer if we're really into it). She seems to enjoy long periods of "banging away" (as you put it) and little to no foreplay - opposite of what you described. In order to last the length of time I described, I frequently have to divert my thoughts, when I am approaching the brink, to non-sexual thoughts, until I regain control. That's easy...I just think about work, as nothing makes me lose my erection faster! Good luck!

While not a "sexpert," I'll chime in on this one. I've been shaving for about two years now and have found that the best way to do it is with a regular disposable razor, in a warm shower. I used to go through the trouble of shaving lotion, etc., but I've found that the simplest way, at least for me, is to use lathered-up soap, much like my wife does with her legs. The "itching" is something that took about a week to get used to but now, it's become part of my routine, and I shave nearly on a daily basis. To sooth the irritation, I simply use body lotion on the affected parts immediately after showering, and I haven't itched for a long, long, time. You get used to it, if you can overcome the first week or two. Hang in there!

Thanks to everyone for the advice. It's slow going, but it's fun nonetheless! Mikayla - I agree with your assessment. Sexual things and talk seem to be limited to the confines of the bed. Out of bed, we've got a household to run and more "important" things to be concerned about. It's difficult to communicate, sometimes. Thorsnymph - When I saw the toy you posted, I laughed. We have one...that sits and collects dust. Thanks again to all!

Thanks, y'all, for the welcome.

This is my first post (other than the introduction) and it is great to finally interact with everyone on the site! I'll make this brief, so as not to bore anyone. I met my wife about fifteen years ago. We were both rather young at the time, and she was still in college, having been raised in the conservative south. She was a virgin when we first met, however, I had been previously married for several years and was more experienced regarding sex. As our relationship grew, we became sexually active and, as you might imagine, we both rather enjoyed the experience of "discovering" each other. Despite her strong religious upbringing (I'm not knocking religion here but, as adults, we know how it can influence behavior), we had fantastic sex, and she was open to new things. On one occassion, we attempted anal sex but, both of us being unexperienced in that regard, it ended up causing her pain. Unfortunately, anal avenue was closed after that, and has been for the last fourteen or so years. After all this time, we still have what I would classify as pretty good sex, albeit generic at times. Usually, it consists solely of vaginal sex, but results in full satisfaction for both of us. I still, however, am interested in experiencing anal sex with her. During the last month or so, I have been getting signals that anal avenue might be opening again! A couple of months back, during one session, I brushed her anus with my finger and noticed a positive response. Over the course of the last few weeks, I have routinely been penetrating her anus with my finger shortly before her orgasms which, she says, enhances them. On a couple of occassions, she has actually asked me to do this, which I find very erotic and gladly do. Unfortunately, when we're not in the throws of passion, my wife finds this topic uncomfortable to talk about and will not communicate with me about it. I have shown her to some posts here in the forum, but she won't devote any time to reading about how this particular type of play has become enjoyable to others who initially were opposed to it. So, here's my question: can I get suggestions on how to continue down this path and further awaken my wife's new interest in this type of play? Ultimately, I'd like for us to engage in full anal intercourse and for her to experience an anal orgasm like those I read about. Yeah, I have a selfish motive too. Admittedly, I've never had anal sex and would love to experience it, with my wife. I want it to be a new pleasure, that we both enjoy. Thanks for reading!

Hello All: Been a guest here for a number of months and have found most of the posts to be very interesting and informative. There's obviously a wealth of experience here to learn from. I look forward to finally interacting with you all!