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Trimming is certainly the best option but some guys are a bit funny about it. Alternative is to get some yummy lube and slick the hair down and out of the way...

Oh yay! Love to hear how a couple can communicate and make their sex better! You guys are great!

Whatever works for the people involved really. I'd be happy to have my hubby cum on my face - but he prefers to cum elsewhere. Each to their own...

Hi, I'm in Aus too! Enjoy!

I love to see my husband cum... anywhere! The look of bliss on his face is awesome and knowing that I made it happen is very empowering. On the face is great, as is anywhere else

We are about the same age, and I have only just started gushing too! We have a big thick towel that we double up to lay over the bed.

Hi, I can never quite understand the 'not swallowing' thing. I have always done it, never thought not to. Sometimes it tastes saltier than others, but certainly not repulsive in any way. We have also found that a daily dose of pineapple juice can sweeten it a bit. Deep throating is apparently a good technique to use to swallow as the taste/texture miss the mouth. However, one technique she could try is: when kneeling between your legs, as you cum she can lean right over your cock, almost doing a headstand on your belly. That way the cum goes to the roof of her mouth and is less likely to be tasted. Of course, she just might not want to - so you might have to get over it.

I love to wear sexy underwear with stockings as part of regular wear. It isn't practical sometimes, but especially sexy when we are going to dinner etc. I will also put them on especially to lure him to the bedroom. My SO despises pantyhose/tights though! What's your preference? Favorite colors? Anytime or just bedtime? Alternative uses? Do tell...

Love mirrors! Our bedroom window is covered on the outside with shutters, the window on the inside is bare and reflects wonderfully with the lights on. We get a wonderful view...

My DH likes to watch me using it on myself. We have no interest in 3+somes so I guess using a dildo is an opportunity for him to see me getting satisfaction from another perspective. He learns from it, too - angle, pressure etc.

Hi Lizzie, Firstly, don't do anything you're not comfortable with. Secondly, browse through the education and forum sections of this site and read a bit able anal sex and the male prostate. Anal penetration can be pleasurable for men (and women) and it is obviously something that your partner is interested in. Thirdly, talk to him. Let him know if/that you are interested in exploring it if it is something he wants to pursue. Take small steps and make sure you are comfortable with each step. Have fun!

My guess is it's happened by now - but here is my 2 cents anyway! He probably knows it is the first time you've done this, so LOOK at it. Really explore it. Hold it in your hand, feel which way his erection pulls, look at the veins, then lick them, feel the tip with your tongue. Explore him. Run the tip across your lips and cheek. Kiss it. Don't worry so much about doing something TO him. Look at the places where it changes, thicker at the bottom, where the shaft meets the head, use your tongue and hands on those bits and check his reaction. Gradually you will learn that licking one spot will have a greater effect than another and you'll use it! Men have grown up with their cock, but to us it is all new, so get to know it - it has a mind of it's own most of the time anyway!

I would like to make my DH cum by giving him a footjob. I have rubbed him with my feet before but would like any tips, advice and techniques I could try to really do it right. All suggestions and experiences welcome

This one lives only in fantasy. I have no desire to be with another man, and I think the risk to the relationship of sharing a partner are too great.