From what I've read: Women in abusive relationships feel as though they don't deserve any better. It doesn't matter how educated you are, or successful you are, what you look like... it is said to be an esteem issue. The why is different for everyone. My suggestion is to stay single get use to being by yourself, learn to like yourself and your independence..... no booty calls, or FB's, Just You. If possible, I it would be highly suggestible and a very good idea for you to seek counseling to figure out the WHY it is you allow yourself to be abused. If you can figure out the why, then you can begin to work towards healing and having a rewarding relationship with another person. If this man broke up with you via text..... BE DONE! DO NOT answer any of his calls or texts, you may want to go as far as to blocking his number if you think you will weaken when and if he does. This man sounds like a bum, you deserve better and will be happier without him.