Many of you get spanked or spank your partner during sex. The thought of getting a spanking, sounds like punishment and erotic at the same time, very confusing. There are time I think yes, lets try and other times the thought is not sure. I keep vacillating back and forth, not sure how to incorporate this or even what sort of pleasure is derived, I don't like pain. So for those of you who do enjoy getting spanked or enjoy spanking your partner enlighten me. Tell me what you get from this. I would like to here from both sides here.