Maybe this is wierd, but I only masturbate maybe once every couple weeks. That might even be pushing it a little. I only do it if my husband and I havn't had sex in a few days and I'm feeling horny. There are times when I get the urge, but then I think that my orgasm might be better if I just wait for my husband. So then I stay horny for the rest of the day and then my husband is too tired to have sex with me when he gets home, and I'm so tired of being horny that I'm not horny anymore. It's really actually funny when I think about it. Sometimes I also think I have such a great sex life so why would I need to pleasure myself when my hubby can do it twice as good. Or maybe I don't do it cause I'm scared it might feel better when I do it to myself. What do ya'll think? Is it not normal to only masturbate once a month or less? What is normal? Are orgasms better with lots of time in between, or can they be just as good only hours apart? -Just curious