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Yes Wendy, do tell...

A comment reminded me of the one that I heard when I was in high school. Time for a little laugh. There was a newly wed couple on their wedding night. They couldn't afford anything extravagent so they were going to Dallas. So to save some money they decided to take the bus. It was night and the bus was rather dark. They newlyweds began to kiss and fondle each other. She starting getting rather worked up and had to have his hard cock inside her. She got an idea. She got a blanket, placed it over his lap, unzipped his pants and pulled his stiff cock out. She slipped under the blanket and lifted up her dress. She managed to get his hard cock inside her. She then raised up slightly and asked a passenger on the bus "Are you going to Dallas?" She eased down and sighed "Aww, that's nice." She repeated the same question and action until everyone had been asked. Then with great excitement she clapped and exclaimed, "We're all going to Dallas! We're all going to Dallas!" as she bounced up and down in her new husbands "lap"

Other factors that can lower a man's sex drive especially STRESS! Another possibility could be low-T or low testosterone. And yes, there is a difference between want and need. We need to eat, but we may want steak and lobster. Everyone needs to feel loved the only problem is that we do not always receive it in a manner we prefer. Gary Chapman wrote a book called "The 5 Love Languages" One possibility is that your hubby is not feeling loved in the "language" he prefers. That does not mean that you do not love him or that you are not trying to show that you love him. He may feel love from affirmation, but does not register love so much from touch. This is by no means the solution to your situation, but if you wish to explore it further (it won't hurt anything) check out the site www.5lovelanguages.com It has a short description of each language and an online assessment. I hope things work out. I definately know what it is like to be the one wanting more sex in a relationship and it is not always easy. Hang in there.

Our wedding night, almost 23 years ago? Well she was exhausted and I was horny. Sooo, it was pretty simple sex and we both crashed.

If you like a somewhat "ranch hand" themed fantasy, check out my new posts under Article Submission -> Greatest Fantasy.

Sequel to A Break on the Hay. Enjoy. After finishing my chore of stacking hay, I head to the house to clean up. About two hours of sunlight remains of this hot sunny day. My wife stops me at the door, not allowing me to enter covered with dust and hay. She escorts me to a secluded area of our yard, where she has prepared a picnic area. She kneels in front of me to remove my shoes and then stands to unfasten the straps of my overalls. My overalls fall to the ground and I step out of them, buck naked. She tells me to close my eyes. With my eyes closed, she leads me several feet away from the picnic area. We walk onto something plastic. She tells me to wait here and to keep my eyes closed. A few moments later, I hear water running as I am drenched by a sprinkler. And then water from another direction hits me from another sprinkler, and then another. She then tells me to open my eyes. I open my eyes and see my wife several feet away, staring at my naked body being drenched by the water. She smiles and again unbuttons her dress to reveal her gorgeous body. This time, she allows her dress to fall to the ground and walks slowly and sensuously toward me. Her hips rock with each step as her gotcha grin is replaced by a seductive smile. She steps under the open air shower with me and begins to wipe the dirt and hay off my body. After a thorough rub down, she steps away and returns with soap and shampoo. She motions for me to kneel. As I get on my knees, she steps in front of me with the shampoo. She pours some shampoo in her hand, steps closer to me, her crotch inches from my face. She rubs the shampoo into my hair. I pause, staring at her crotch, not knowing her intentions as she messages my scalp. She moves closer and guides my face to her crotch. I begin kissing her crotch. She holds me close as I run my hands up the back of her thighs to her buttocks. I message her cheeks as her nails lightly message my scalp. After a few moments, the shampoo is rinsed from my hair. She guides me to my feet and begins to wash me. As she washes me, she places kisses where the water has rinsed the soap away. While standing behind me, she finally reaches my erect cock and begins to soap and stroke it. She moves in front of me, continuing to stroke my cock. The soap is slowly rinsed away under the water as she softly strokes my cock. She moves in closer, pressing my cock head against her crotch. I reach out with both hands and begin to message her breasts. She presses my cock against her cunt lips. We move closer for a long kiss, she removes her hands from my cock and wraps her arms around me; I do the same, as we kiss under our open air shower. She guides me to the ground. I lay down as she stands over me with her feet at either side of my hips. I watch the water run down her gorgeous body. Some water droplets collect in the hair of her neatly trimmed crotch. She slowly lowers herself over my crotch. Her crotch finally touches my cock. She wastes no time. Her hand grasps my cock and guides it to her entrance then she lowers herself onto my cock. When she gets the last of my cock inside her, she pauses and rhythmically squeezes my cock. Water runs over our bodies joined in love. She begins moving her hips in a circular motion and I begin to thrust up into her. My orgasm begins to build and she begins to meet my thrusts. I begin to cum inside her, she pinches my nipples, I hold her hips to thrust deeper. After my orgasm subsides, she lays on my chest, holding my cock deep inside her. We lay there for almost fifteen minutes under the shower of water, relaxing in our loving embrace. She eventually rolls off; my soft cock slips from its warm enclosure. She stands and gives a long stretch, giving me a view of my stunning wife as the water runs down her body. She walks away and begins to turn the sprinklers off. She returns with towels and we dry each other off. She tosses the towels aside. The sun has reached the horizon and the bright glow of the day begins to fade away. She then grabs my hand and leads me to the picnic area. She leads me to a large blanket on the ground with a basket and a pitcher in a corner, and two large pillows along one side. She guides me to the center of the blanket and we both sit down, both still completely naked. She reaches in the basket and begins to serve us both supper. We begin to eat, staring at each other, and occasionally feeding each other. After we finish eating, she comes close to me and sits near my lap, with her head laying on my chest. I wrap my arms around her chest as we stop to watch the sun disappear under the horizon. We tell of how much we love each other and what our relationship means to us as we sit under the dimming light of the sky. As the sun dims under the horizon, I begin to caress her arms and shoulders. After several minutes, she instructs me to lay back on the pillows. She reaches into the basket and pulls out a bowl of fruit and begins to feed both of us. After a few pieces, she starts feeding me by placing the fruit in her teeth and placing that in my mouth. After a few pieces of fruit and some deep kissing, she gets a large strawberry and holding it with her hand, rubs it over my lips. She allows me to bite half of it. She smiles and sensuously rubs the half eaten strawberry over her breasts, leaving a trail of strawberry juice over her nipples and breasts. She then places the remaining strawberry in my mouth and then places one of her breasts on my lips. I begin to kiss her breasts, enjoying the flavor of strawberries on her skin. Her hand moves to my crotch and she begins to caress my balls and cock. While continuing to kiss her breasts, I move one of my hands to her crotch to find her excited. I softly caress around her moist folds for several minutes before I finally place a finger at her entrance and begin to message it in a circular motion. I alternate between her entrance and clitoris for several minutes as we kiss and caress each other in a loving embrace. I gently guide her on her back and position myself between her legs as she wraps them around me. Her hand still grasping my cock, she guides it toward her entrance. I begin to message her breasts as she guides me and pulls me inside her. I lean forward across her chest and we kiss deeply. She begins to squeeze my cock. And I start long slow thrusts. I raise up to view our union of love. She raises her knees closer to her chest and spreads her legs wider, knowing how this excites me. I continue my slow strokes for a few moments before I lay back across her chest and we resume our kissing. She digs her heels into my behind and begins to meet my thrusts and encourage me to thrust faster. She moans softly under our kissing and heavy breathing, "Cum my love." My thrusts become faster and her grip on my cock becomes tighter. We hold each other tight as my orgasm begins and I release my cum inside her. She moans with pleasure and says softly, "I love you." I say softly and breakingly under a kiss as my orgasm continues, "I love you too, my sweet." She laughs slightly and squeezes my cock hard. We hold each other close as my orgasm subsides. Still coupled, we roll on our sides so that we both can view the emergence of the night sky. Few words are spoken as we hold each other near and watch the stars of night as they appear. Occasionally we kiss long and deep, giving each other a message that no word can speak. We lie still in an intimate embrace, and look at our lover as the night sky falls on our faces. The stars shine bright to show our unending love as the moon illuminates us from the sky above. We lay there for almost an hour. Holding, kissing and caressing in the embrace of our love making. We drift off to sleep under the stars of night. We awake as the late hour approaches. We kiss and cuddle in the cool air of the night. She produces a blanket to shield our naked bodies from the cool air of the night as we continue to hold each other under the stars so bright. We fall asleep again only to awake as the morning sun shines on our face. We kiss, feed each other the remaining fruit and make love again as the sun rises to warm our day. As we begin to gather our things, our bodies bared to the morning sun. I admire her gorgeous form in the light of the morning sun and realize that I love her more than I did the day before. I know this night will not be the last because our love shined bright under the night sky.

Here is another of the fantasy collection I have written. Enjoy! I am in the barn, stacking hay. I am wearing only overalls and tennis shoes. My sweaty body is covered with hay and dirt. Droplets of sweat run down my face and my side as I continue to stack hay in the heat. My wife comes in the barn with a large glass and a pitcher. She is wearing a sleeveless, light colored, flowered dress. The dress buttons from neck to hem. She hands me the glass, which contains cold lemonade. I take a long drink and slowly drink the rest. This is when I notice that her dress is buttoned with only about ten buttons from below her breasts to her upper thighs. I observe her closer as I continue to drink my lemonade. I notice her nipples showing from under the light material as her body begins to glisten in the still heat. I finish my lemonade. She gets up and I almost get a glimpse of her crotch as she allows her dress to open slightly. She takes my glass and fills it with water from the pitcher. She steps up to me and gives me a hard kiss before giving me the water. I take a drink of the cool water and she steps behind me. She runs her hands up my sides, to my chest. She rolls my nipples between her fingers before moving lower to my abdomen. She unbuttons the sides of my overalls then runs her hands down the sides of my hips. My cock is now pressing against the loose material of my overalls. Her hands move to my crotch where she rubs my balls and around my cock. She eventually grasps the full length of my erect cock with both hands and begins to stroke it. Her lips find my ear and she begins to nibble them with her teeth. By now I have forgotten about the glass, half full of water I am holding. She removes a hand from my cock, takes the water from me and takes a swallow. I then feel her lips on my ear followed by warm water from her mouth as she rinses off my ear and begins to run her tongue around my ear. I close my eyes and enjoy the sensations of her hand stroking my cock and her licking my ear. After a few moments, I am startled as she pours the cool water down my chest and over my crotch. She manages to grab a piece of ice with the hand holding my crotch and she begins to rub it over my balls and erect cock, causing me to moan. My cock begins to shrink under the cold ice. She tosses the ice aside and sets the glass down and comments, "We can't let that happen." She moves both of her hands back to my crotch, one cupping my balls and the other wrapped around my cock. She continues stroking my cock and licking my ear, until my cock is raging hard. She then removes her hands from my crotch to the front of my overalls and unbuttons my fly. She pulls my stiff cock and balls through my open fly, and turns me to face her. She slowly unbuttons the few remaining buttons of her dress, revealing first her soft breasts and pert nipples. And finally the last button to reveal her neatly trimmed crotch. Beads of perspiration run down between her breasts. She moves back to a stack of hay about waist high and sits down, opens her dress and sits back on her elbows and motions for me to come closer. I kneel down and begin kissing at her knees moving slowly toward her awaiting crotch now glistening with perspiration. I notice her pussy lips blooming from excitement as I place kisses around them. She urges me to stop teasing and to get busy. I oblige and lightly run the tip of my tongue up and down the crease between her parted lips. She moans softly as her legs part even further. I occasionally dart my tongue into her entrance which causes her to give a short gasp. I plow the tip of my tongue between her parted lips to her awaiting crown of pleasure as she lets out a deep moan. I lick her clitoris for a few minutes until she starts to raise her hips. She moans, “Don’t stop, don’t stop! I’m coming!” I continue my steady tongue strokes on her clitoris. A couple of deep breaths under her moan and her orgasm begins. I flick my tongue from side to side and her hips buck even wilder. As her orgasm subsides I return to long slow strokes with my tongue over her parted lips. Once waves have passed I begin kissing her inner thighs allowing her to relax somewhat. I stand up between her thighs. As my hips brush her knees, she raises up, grasps my cock and begins to slowly stroke its full length. A bead of sweat runs down my chest as she gently runs one hand along the length of my erect cock as the other hand cups, caresses and messages my balls. She eventually grasps my cock at its base with both hands, and she pulls my cock. Her knees stop me from moving forward as she continues to pull my cock. The tension slowly increases, until she finally allows her hands to slowly slide down my cock. One hand slips over my cockhead. Her second hand slips to grasp my cockhead. She spreads her legs and raises her knees, hooks her heels into my back, and pulls me closer, her hand still holding my cock. She pulls me in close, allowing my cock to rest above her crotch, pressing my balls against her crotch. She begins to run her fingernails around my cockhead and over its tip for a few moments. A drop of pre-cum falls from my cock onto her mound. She allows me to move back slightly, holding the tip of my cock against her. She rubs the tip of my cock against her clitoris and finally over her entrance. With the tip of my cock at her entrance, she holds the shaft of my cock with one hand and begins to move it in a circular motion against her entrance. I run my hands down the inside of her thighs to her abdomen and crotch and begin to caress her. She raises her feet and rests them on my shoulder. She begins to work my cock deeper inside her, continuing to move my cock in a circular motion. She soon has all of my cock inside her that is not covered by her hand. Her forefinger presses against my balls and her pinky is pressing against her crotch, as she moves my shaft in a slow, deliberate circular motion. After several minutes, I begin thrusting, and her circular motions become more vigorous. She begins to meet my thrusts. I hold her thighs to help synchronize our thrusts. She starts to moan louder and I work my thumb over her clitoris and begin to rub it. She closes her eyes and begins to toss her head, moments before she begins to have another orgasm. She removes her hand from my cock, grabs my hips, pulls me to her, taking all of my cock inside her with a soft moan. I continue thrusting, using the full length of my cock and pressing my thumb against her clitoris as her orgasm subsides. I then remove my thumb and move my cock slowly almost all the way out and then slowly all the way inside her, until my balls press against her. I hold this for a moment before repeating the cycle. I then notice the heavy smell of hay mixed with the odors of our lovemaking. A bead of sweat runs down my cheek. I admire the gorgeous, glistening body of the woman I love, laying before me as we share our most intimate selves while we make love. I continue to slowly make love for several minutes, until she has recovered from her orgasm. She then begins to squeeze my cock as I pause inside her. Her movements intensify as she encourages me to thrust faster. She begins to meet my thrusts as my orgasm begins to build. She squeezes my cock tighter as I begin to cum inside her. My body stiffens and quivers as I hold my cock deep inside her. She grabs the bib of my overalls and pulls me to her and kisses me hard and long. My body begins to relax; she continues to kiss me deeply and squeezes my cock. We rest in each others arms, maintaining our intimate embrace. After several minutes, I slowly rise, kissing her breasts and stomach as I get to my feet and she rises with me. She grasps my cock, covered with the juices of our lovemaking, and places it back in my overalls and wipes her hand on the crotch of my overalls. I tell her that I love her; she kisses me, and grabs the glass and pitcher. She turns to leave, allowing her open dress to flow open, giving me a peek of her gorgeous body that I just made passionate love to. As she reaches the door, she turns facing me. Her breasts and crotch exposed to my delight. She blows me a seductive kiss, winks, turns and leaves. I button my fly and finish my chore. I leave the stack of hay that we just made love on, thankful for a loving wife who knows how to relieve her husband with a refreshing break. [ If you like this check out my next post to find out what happens at the end of the day! ]

LOL - Yep that would be a sight. A little awkward though. Well I did wear boots and hat when I was in High School. Hey, I rode horses, roped calves, baled hay and worked on a neighbor's farm (too small to consider a ranch). BUT, I was NOT the "typical" idea of a cowboy. I was actually more of a geek and I don't care for country music, was more into rock: Lynard Skynard, 38 Special, Cars, etc. And I haven't worn a hat or boots for some time. If I came home wearing boots and a hat my wife would want to know what the #$% is going on! Haha, maybe I should do it and pull a Chip N Dales, rip the pants off and say ride 'em cowboy! NOT! But a nude workout still works for me!

Wendy, loved your story. HOT! It sounds familiar. I have recurring fantasies of working out nude with my wife before starting some more, uh, passionate exercises. The idea of watching her naked body, and she mine as we exercise is Hot!

I know it is a little late for this year, but really would work any time or prepare for next year. I did the following for Valentines when we were married almost 3 years (we are working on 23). I went all out! Here is what I did while we were living in an on-campus appartment 20 years ago: 1) I baked her favorite cake, strawberry, in a heart pan with strawberry slices. 2) I had about a dozen pink and red heart shaped balloons all over the bedroom 3) I cut out 15 or so red hearts from construction paper, each taped to a string of varying lengths of 2-3 feet and taped them to the ceiling The balloons and paper hearts made a "sea of hearts" in the bedroom. 4) I had about 6-8 votive candles in red glass holders 5) A flirty Valtine card and flowers on the bed When she came in, I showed her the cake and handed her a red teddie and sent her to the guest bedroom to change. I lit candles and turned out the light, closed the door and waited for her outside the door wearing heart covered boxers. When she arrived I had her close her eyes and guided her into the room full of hearts, balloons and candles. She loved it! She read her card, we began kissing. Didn't take long before we were going at it hot 'n heavy. Anyway, it took a little while before we got to the cake. You might also add music, message with or w/o oil, make home made gift cards (for message, alone time, etc.), a bowl of strawberries Oh the possibilities!

Very HOT!!!

Kitty, I consider a marathon as over an hour of oral sex. By this time my jaw is sore, my legs asleep and my tongue worn out. There were several occasions where after over an hour of oral sex she would have me stop because she was getting raw. She would come close several times, but no big O. We did have a first the other night. After about 15 min of oral sex she started moaning with noticable sighs. This surprised me since it is the first time she has made any noticable moan or verbal expression other than telling me "Don't stop." That really encouraged me to go for it. As a result she had a double play (two orgams). She didn't think she could survive a third and stopped me. Personally, I think she is giving herself permission to let go, even if it is somewhat of an unconscious decision. Doors keep slowly opening wider and wider. "Never give up! Never surrender!"

The poll on preferring DVDs or stories prompted this question. Have you read an erotic story to your SO or had one read to you? Either as a prelude sex or while the listener masterbated? Thought this could be interesting.

Probably not the typical male response, but I prefer erotic stories. I have a very vivid imagination and have no problem visualizing the story how I want it, not the director. See my related question on erotic stories that I will post.

Update on this thread. I am not sure exactly when the change started but for several months she has not had trouble reaching an orgasm. About 15 minutes of oral sex is all it takes now. And she says her orgams seem stronger. She makes me stop because she doesn't think she can handle a second one. Well one night after a big 'O' I paused briefly then I dove back in and she came almost immediately and then came again before begging me to stop. She did have to change meds from Ambien in May since it stopped being effective. I thought it was her meds but we didn't want to change anything that was working. Thanks everyone for your advice and encouragement.