walkingcontrdctn

I really want to believe you are right but it just smells and looks like urine so I'm discouraged, and it keeps on coming whenever I stimulate it. And I haven't had an orgasm off it, so if I really am just ejaculating...ah who knows. I still have hope because I find that if I stimulate the clit with the g spot the urge to pee goes away because I guess I am blocking the urethra...but then I will just have a powerful clit orgasm (which I'm not complaining about!) but the g spot is merely an "accompaniment" to my clit, instead of doing something on its own. Maybe doing something with my SO will bring better results, unfortunately he is out of the country for a month!

So this is my theory, however depressing: I think the reason I've been peeing during vaginal stimulation is not because I'm stimulating the g spot, but because I may have no g spot and am simply massaging the urethra which would normally be above the g, causing me to urinate with no climax/ejaculate. Has this happened to anyone? I'm really hoping my theory is wrong.

Update: It WAS pee...I tried last night and the build-up and pee feeling came (and I had peed before too!) and then a lot of fluid appeared...like soaked through my towel a lot. And it did smell like it. I thought you weren't supposed to be able to pee with that kind of stimulation? Either I'm doing it wrong, or my anatomy is such that my urethra is getting in the way of my g spot...if i even have one. I did get what I thought was much intense pleasure though. It's such a mystery.

I think you might be right because it didn't smell like pee. Hopefully this means I am getting closer to the big O, instead of just ejaculating without the reward. Maybe I'll pick that book up.

So, I was trying very hard to have a g spot orgasm the other night, and all of a sudden, I peed. Not only that, I had peed before to prevent this from happening. I'm positive it was pee, because I didn't come. What is wrong with me?

No and I think that's what might do the trick for me...considering my hand/boyfriend's hand gets extremely tired/cramped after only a few minutes. thanks for all your help!

I read that article! I guess I should try harder... Another question...Is it possible the birth control pill is making it harder for me to find it/orgasm? I read somewhere that the estrogen from the pill thickens the vaginal wall so that the g spot is harder to get to...

i have a question...i'm a woman in my early twenties, who's had plenty of great clitoral orgasms but no dice, ever, on the g spot. i feel like i should have one, and that i do...because it swells if i touch there enough and if i combine "g spot" stimulation with clitoral I will have an even more intense clitoral orgasm. my goal is to achieve a g spot orgasm, even if its just on my own and not through intercourse or with my partner. any tips? i've read a lot about how to stimulate...and when i do i get that peeing feeling but then it fades after a while...