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I'm sorry I can't remember which one, but I got and used it on my wife last night. It was a bit wide at one point (for her) but lube helped. Then we used a vibrator in her pussy, and she was in ectasy! Of course we finished with some of the best anal sex we've had in a long time. (and we've had good anal for awhile) I never thought she'd get off on with an anal vibrator, but she loved it!

My wife didn't mind them, even liked some of the DP scenes. She got very wet before I even got started on her. We put a couple on the second night, and well, they are just boring to us. My wife excites me more anyway, and I tell her that. I don't need a porno to get horny, trust me. We like toys (obviously) and just put the porn to kind of change things up. Do any other couples get bored with porn movies?

For years, my wife had been very reluctant to let me cum in her mouth for years. One day, I asked and she said, if that's what I wanted. I told her, if I get to taste it too. She was shocked, but went along with it. I did, we snowballed, and it made her hot! She even remarked, I really liked this. We did it a few times again, but then I didn't do it, and I could tell she was expecting, holding the cum in her mouth, but I just didn't want to or have the desire. She in no way pressured me, but I could tell she was disappointed. I'd like to get back to that. Snowballing, licking it off her tits, eating her out after cumming. I'm pretty sure she would be hot with that.

I get the part of "marking territory", but that's not the way I feel at all. I hate to sound cliche', but it just turns me on, seeing cum on my wife's face, or dripping from her chin. I almost salivate in a sexual way. It's just a turn on, and I don't think any more of it than that. I suppose you are right, M, it's a turn on because it's visual. Nevertheless, it makes me hot, and I don't consider it marking territory or degrading at all.

Part of the thrill for me is her being turned on. If it really makes her hot, I could get by the rest of things. There's just about nothing I wouldn't do for her, if it turned her on.

Pretty much sums us up. We do it a lot and like it. I doubt she prefers it over vaginal, but it's a close second. Me, I'm up for anything. Oral, anal, vaginal, cum wherever...we just have fun. ..nothing is forced.

In a long time relationship/marriage? We've been married awhile (over 20 years). We still enjoy regular vaginal sex, but my wife seems to love anal more and more. Early in our marriage, she actually initiated it, but we didn't do it that often. I could take it or leave it. Now I enjoy it immensely, as does she. Not to say it's every time, but it seems a lot more frequency than a few years ago. I'm not complaining, mind you. I have heard of women as they get older (30s-40s, actually preferring anal sex. I wouldn't go as far to say she prefers it, but she definetely doesn't complain if it's anal only for a few days.

Exactly, sometimes I lose the desirability. I have no hangups about tasting my own cum. I think if it's ok for her then it should be ok for me. And sometimes, it's big turn on for me (snowballing..etc). Then sometimes, I just don't want to after I cum. We snowballed a few times, then once..I didn't do it, and she was clearly disappointed, but didnt' say anything. She never pressures me into doing anything I don't want. Neither do I pressure her. That's not the issue.

Seriously... I know it's a turn on for me, I'm just not sure why. I do know it's not a dominance thing with me. Nor do I think it's degrading. I love my wife very much, and would never do anything I thought would degrade her. But just seeing my come on my wifes face, or after a BJ, dripping from her chin... Wow!

I think she would love it too. Awhile back we snowballed, and she really got off on that. But I've not done it in awhile. It's kind of like I still have a mental block sometimes. While I'm still in the passion of the moment, I could go for it. But sometimes after I cum, I don't want to do it. Even though I know it would turn her on.

One night we were having really hot sex, and decided to do some tit fucking. She enjoyed it, and I came on her tits. For a second there, I really had the urge to lick some of it off her tits. Never done it before, didn't know what she'd think or do. I'm thinking about trying it again. Has anyone else ever done that?

Same here, 3-4 times a week. But...it's acceptable for both of us. When we first married and before kids, it was just about every day. First few years in fact. Maybe the quantity isn't the same, but the quality is much better. Of course, as I type this, we haven't had sex since last year. (it's Jan 1st 2009).

My wife will watch some porn with me, in the bedroom.. I find her much more attractive and exciting, but it's kind of fun to spice things every now and then. It's not like we have to watch it every time. She's not a hard core fan, and she likes seeing some, but could pretty much take it or leave it. The one's we've tried..are well, boring. Any suggestions for DVDs, to watch in the bedroom? She doesn't go for the hard core, 4 hour facial type films, or gangbangers, but she doesn't mind some action...say with DP or so. So something that maybe doesn't have 20 guys cumming on a girls face, but something that isn't boring either. Something in the middle, but neither extreme. Of course, we stop paying attention in a pretty short time.

I love doing it to my wife, as long as she's "zestfully clean". Since she loves it, there's no issue with her keeping clean.

If we are really having a hot time, and I just cum (like in a 69 position), she finds it a turn on. It's all about context. Pulling out of her pussy to cum on her face, nope...she doesn't care for it, and frankly it's not really a turn on for me. Although, neither of us consider it degrading, it's just not our thing. If getting a BJ, and it gets on her face, partly in her mouth, no problem. All about context.