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    Live everyday to it's fullest.........
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    48,MALE

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  1. Thank you to all who have posted up some great information and advice. I've been wanting to ask this for quite some time, but I know if my wife found out, she would be upset. We have very busy life. I'm sure everyone does. I've always felt that you need to take time for one another. I know that I'm last on her list. She is the worlds best mother that our kids could ever have. She works out, eats right and gets plenty of rest. The only problem is their is NEVER any time for us. At the end of the day, she is tired and has always needed 8 hours of sleep. So as you can see the last thing she wants to do is fool around with me. I've tried and tried to talk about our lack of love making. She almost always says: "You have to catch me when I'm in the right mood". I leave her love notes, send her songs, make her laugh, but none of this seems to help our problem. I do laundry, cleaning, chores. You name it and I always help out. I'm romatic and funny, but it's like I've got coodies. I try to scratch her back and she says my hands are rough and she doesn't like me touching her. She said when the wind blows I get excited. Heck, that's a good thing. I'd rather have that problem then no movement at all down their. We went to see a counselor one time and all she did was cry. She's tried testosterone cream, medicine and anything that may help her libido. If and when we do have sex, she acts like she can't wait for it to end. I'm totally into pleasing her and my needs are the last thing on my mind when we are making love. I've been with other women before I was married and I don't think it's my love making. I just don't think she's into me any more. We try the date night thing. You know dinner, maybe a movie or shopping. Stop for a glass of wine, but when we get home it's always "I ate too much or maybe in the morning honey". Their is always an excuse. I've asked her to let me go. I told her that I would not fight over the kids or our possessions. I just want to be happy and I just want to make someone happy. Sorry to be so long winded. I hope this sheds alittle more light on my problem.
  2. I need some serious help. Can a marriage survive without having sex. It's not my choice and my wife has no interest in sex at all. I've been married 14 years and it just keeps getting worse. I love my wife, but hate my marriage. It's so depressing. I always thought that marriage was for me. A house, kids, pets, friends, memories that I would always keep in my heart. Now look at me, asking if a marriage can last without sharing the best thing that could ever happen between a man and a women. Is anyone else in my shoes. What did you do to fix it? Can you fix it.................
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