I reposted this...... the other title looked like I was asking for help for someone named Ed!!! i just joined the forum today after lurking for a while.... my hubby and I have been happily married for 25 years and for the most part sex has been great...... although recently, i've been a little disappointed b/c he's having issues getting/staying hard. he doesn't like to talk about it. i've read up on supplements and bought him arginine and omega 3, etc.,, but he doesn't take them regularly. He's always interested in sex, but lately I don't want to because i don't want to embarass him!! He thinks he's ready to, but then he doesn't get hard..... i'm patient and try oral and creams and then once he's hard enuf , he enters me and cums in a minute......which isn't exactly so pleasurable for me.... wham, bam, thank you ma'am.... he always want to give me oral (WHICH I LOVE), but i'm afraid that if i let him, whatever level of hard-on he has will go away while he's getting me to cum..... so, i bought a pandora and want to try that on him to see if that would help..... alogn with the max size male enhancement cream that I bought after reading mikala's review. has anyone or their partner with ed issues used Max Size and did it help??? my hubby has high blood pressure and so i don't want him to take viagra.....but at the same time, i hope we haven't lost his rock hardness forever!!! we're both way too young!!! (i'm 46 and he's 52!!) anyone have any other ideas??? thanks much!