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  1. I would say that porn itself isn't degrading, but the acts in a particular film may be. (ATM, for instance) And because a single woman chooses to do something considered degrading on camera does not mean she degrades the whole of her own gender. If the viewer chooses to draw generalizations about all women based upon porn, it's the viewer that has the problem.

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  2. My guess is that some people find minimal exposure of the labia minora more attractive. Some women have even had labia reduction surgery to minimize them.

    I find the practice incredibly sad. Why slice off such wonderfully sensitive tissue for someone else's vanity? It's there for a reason. Labioplasty has only gotten popular because of the adult modeling industry. In many cases the photo shoots you see where women have little to no labia minora have been photoshopped. In truth, most guys are going to love your vulva the way it is so long as you maintain proper hygiene.

  3. I would be hard pressed to find aesthetic fault with my wife's intimate bits. The outer part is soft as velvet and the loveliest shade of pink. My only gripe would be how overly sensitive it can be. That isn't a complaint about her sensation so much as how easy it is to chafe and cause pain, even with copious amounts of lube. I've had to develop a *very* light touch but there are some nights that things will be sore before I even begin. On the upside, she can climax easily - I've gotten her there in 15 seconds before. I'm very proud of that. :P

  4. My answer would require some travel...

    I'd love to do the deed at the top of the Eureka Skydeck 88 in Melbourne Australia, specifically in the motorized glass box called "The Edge". It's the tallest man-made structure in Australia and used to be all of the southern hemisphere until the Kiwis built the Sky Tower 31 meters taller just to piss them off. :D

    I was at the top of the Eureka Skydeck 88 when business sent me to Melbourne several years ago. It's funny, the first thing I thought when I saw "The Edge" was how much fun it would be to sneak up there after hours and give my honey a proper plowing 300 meters above the unsuspecting city. What a thrill that would be!

    I've been to the summit of both towers but for some reason the Eureka is just *cooler*.

    Here's the website for the Eureka Skydeck 88 tower:

    http://www.eurekaskydeck.com.au/

    And here's the "The Edge" specifically

    http://www.eurekaskydeck.com.au/the-edge.asp

  5. I'm researching sex position options during pregnancy. The OB said she should avoid laying flat on her back for any length of time after week 20. I know at some point my wife's belly might get in the way and some positions aren't going to be comfortable. Ladies who have been pregnant, I'm looking for your opinions - which positions worked best for you? Was there something that was particularly enjoyable?

  6. You may be misinterpreting the situation. My guess is he's doing what he's been conditioned to do within the framework of the traditional male gender role - he must provide for his family even if it breaks him. He doesn't *want* to work longer hours but he feels he *must*, it is a duty. In his mind, working harder at his job means he's able to bring more resources home to you and the baby. He likely doesn't realize you're upset at him for it. Bring it up gently, after he's had some time to decompress. Tell him you appreciate his extra effort but you'd like him to spend some time at home. Don't frame it as him running away from the stresses of home life or that he'd rather be on the job than with you - he'll feel like he's failing you and that never goes well.

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  7. An erotic massage is far more intimate than a therapeutic massage and requires more trust. It combines some of the same techniques used in Swedish massage with Eastern medicine, but the experience is intensely sexual and can include breast, anal, and genital massage. This would be off limits in a purely therapeutic massage which is done more for pain relief and stress reduction and not for guiding the receiver into an erotic trance. Erotic massage also uses caress strokes which would be too light for therapeutic massage.

    None of what I've written should be taken as a critique of therapeutic massage - I get them regularly to reduce tension in my back and they're *wonderful*. :D They are different types of massage, each with its own aim.

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