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    cum too fast

    A woman doesn't mind a quick cum if he can go for round two. But it's probably a good thing if he learned to edge a bit to control his speed. That's what's nice about older men, they might not be able to go again right away but they know how to take their time and make sure the woman has a good time first.
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    cum too fast

    I agree that he needs to make you cum first but still even after you cum you'd like some sex beyond just a couple minutes. I'd say make a game of edging him, teach him to recognize and back down. Having fun with it will go over a lot better I'm sure. Good Luck !
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    We enjoy spanking light.... lol I like a little sting and he seems to enjoy the thought of the domination, not really causing me pain. We use a Nerf sword (I know that sounds crazy) but it does work, it pops and stings with no real pain or bruises. It might be a place for you to start and see if you like all the aspects of it. Exploring your fantasies will only open up your mind and your sex life. Good luck! Remember you don't have to do anything that makes you uncomfortable no matter what anyone else says. It's supposed to be fun for both people. PS in my experience that giver never really wants to be the receiver.
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    How do I bring it up?

    I'd take her out for a few drinks, flirt heavily, maybe even steal a kiss then.... say remember you said if you were ever going to have sex with woman it'd be me? Well........... all you can do is ask, and hope it doesn't change your friendship in the end.
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    Pleasing My Wife Orally

    Had to laugh about being pushed over the edge by your partner cumming........ works 98% of the time.
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    Pleasing My Wife Orally

    Amen Kinkster! He's super hard and leaking when I'm done squirting on his face. mmmmm
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    Pleasing My Wife Orally

    That's GREAT to hear!! You both have a lot going on but you do have to make time for each other. You know she has fantasies but just give her time to open up about them now that it's on the table. I've found that some people have more imagination about sex than others..... Laura Corn writes interactive books and apps that open up those who are a bit challenged or shy in that area, a step in the right direction!
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    Pleasing My Wife Orally

    The answer isn't going to be an easy fix.......... every woman is different, from their anatomy to sensitivity. I happen to like it very light, and I know some women like it sucked hard so you just have to put in the time figuring out what your wife likes. I find the 'figuring it out' phase exciting, you get to explore and find out what really works for each other before you move to the I know what trips her trigger every time part of your relationship. Maybe you can have a frank discussion about sex with your wife, start talking about fantasies and what you each find pleasurable, just ask her. Tell her you want it to be the best possible for her, see what she says.
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    Squirting Ladies? Mainly want women's in site.

    I've sewed a throw with waterproof lining in the middle that I can wash, saved a lot of furniture and changing the whole bed every time. I think the trick when you're just learning to squirt is to ignore that feeling like you're going to pee, it's strong but you have to just work past that. Eventually you won't notice that feeling and welcome it when it overtakes you.
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    Alphabet Sex

    G- g spot orgasms
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    Word Association Game

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    Word Association Game

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    Word Association Game

    LOL it's all about fun......... squirt
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    Word Association Game

    hot and bothered
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    Word Association Game

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    Alphabet Sex

    L- luscious lips
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    Alphabet Sex

    J- juicy
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    Nipple Clamps

    I was curious about nipple clamps a number of years ago, so one night while alone I decided to try a clothespin, WHAT the hell was I thinking? I couldn't get it off fast enough and have never tried again. I imagine I'd probably like it if I had the adjustable ones.
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    Husband and porn

    Aw thanks! I wonder if playful kitty has tried mutual masturbation or joining in if she catches him? I've been known to 'let' him catch me from time to time, you've never seen anyone get hard or naked so fast.
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    Husband and porn

    My feeling on porn is that if you're getting all the sex you want from him is it really a problem? If your not then yes you have a right to a discussion about needs not being met etc. We do porn night every so often just to spice things up and taking turns planning a scenario for the other is a good way to keep things interesting and fun.
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    Pineapple and coconut oil for oral sex

    We've just started using coconut oil for lube after being unhappy with so many of them out there. Seems to be working great, smells great, and moisturizes. Be careful of using it with latex, toys or condoms.
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    Female Ejaculation

    It can be a very satisfying orgasm, waves and waves till I beg him to stop.
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    MFM propoal

    Pros and cons........ what do you have to lose?
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    Take the garbage out naked!

    That's what I was thinking RC, waaaay to cold for getting naked outdoors and neighbors to close to boot.
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    Gall Stones

    I had mine out in July, they never really said what caused it. Although in my case I doubt it was estrogen. It's a pretty easy surgery, Good luck!