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    Alphabet Sex

    J- juicy
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    Nipple Clamps

    I was curious about nipple clamps a number of years ago, so one night while alone I decided to try a clothespin, WHAT the hell was I thinking? I couldn't get it off fast enough and have never tried again. I imagine I'd probably like it if I had the adjustable ones.
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    Husband and porn

    Aw thanks! I wonder if playful kitty has tried mutual masturbation or joining in if she catches him? I've been known to 'let' him catch me from time to time, you've never seen anyone get hard or naked so fast.
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    Husband and porn

    My feeling on porn is that if you're getting all the sex you want from him is it really a problem? If your not then yes you have a right to a discussion about needs not being met etc. We do porn night every so often just to spice things up and taking turns planning a scenario for the other is a good way to keep things interesting and fun.
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    Pineapple and coconut oil for oral sex

    We've just started using coconut oil for lube after being unhappy with so many of them out there. Seems to be working great, smells great, and moisturizes. Be careful of using it with latex, toys or condoms.
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    Female Ejaculation

    It can be a very satisfying orgasm, waves and waves till I beg him to stop.
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    MFM propoal

    Pros and cons........ what do you have to lose?
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    Take the garbage out naked!

    That's what I was thinking RC, waaaay to cold for getting naked outdoors and neighbors to close to boot.
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    Gall Stones

    I had mine out in July, they never really said what caused it. Although in my case I doubt it was estrogen. It's a pretty easy surgery, Good luck!
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    Large Labia - Love or Hate

    Small labia here too....... The wall is cool, everyone is different that's for sure.
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    Sorry to hear it, hopefully you can get it figured out one way or the other. Life is too short to be unhappy. Very openminded of him to agree to you talking to others and posting pics of yourself in the first place.
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    Not sure why most men say that, I guess they don't really want to open up as much as needed to fix things. I do understand about not being the same or wanting the same things you did at 20 as you want at 40. Happened to me in my first marriage, he didn't take it well either, wanted to keep the status quo and not have to admit the things that contributed to the place we were in. Have you asked him if he'd rather lose you than participate? ps forgot to add that I'd feel betrayed if my SO was discussing our personal life with another woman.
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    Are You Willing To Give Marriage A Second Try?

    In my opinion marriage is more about raising children and having a traditional family. I'm not totally against marriage again but I can be just as committed to a life and relationship without a piece of paper.
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    Is he in therapy with you? I'm sure he's feeling like you want to change the rules after all this time, you're not happy in bed and you're talking to strangers about your sex life. I'm not saying either one of you is right or wrong but how would you feel if he was doing the same things? Yes this place is a good way to express yourself without being judged and figure things out but...... it can also go the other way, behind the scenes discussing that can turn into new attention that is exciting and addicting but not really real at the same time. No one wants to hear only the negatives but when we let our wants and needs slide so long it can be a bitter pill to the person who needs to step up their game. He needs to face this with you and fix what he can if he wants to save your marriage. Good luck!
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    Pspot stimulation

    I think it's just a different kind of orgasm than you're used to. Go watch some videos of men using the Aneros it may explain it a bit better. When women have g spot orgasms we have to get used the feeling that we're going to urinate but if you go past it is soooo worth it and different from the traditional clitoral orgasm.
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    Do You Worry About Your Toys Being Found After Your Gone?

    Yes, don't really want my kids finding it while cleaning out the house. Or my mom!
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    Being The Strong One

    Even strong people needs hugs once in a while. (((hugs)))
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    Has Your G Spot Been Stimulated?

    Fingers, penis, toys of all shIpped and sizes, he'll I've been known to squirt just from oral. Funny thing is I aS 40 before my first time and I was alone at time. It happens overtime now.
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    Lights On Or Off!

    On, not surgical lighting but I definitely want to see his face, his beautiful clock, and everything that's going on.
  20. At home or in public? At home a big t-shirt with no panties seems to do the trick, Donald ducking gets him every time especially if I have to reach for something, funny how I usually need to. In public skirts are good, tight jeans and tight sweaters work magic
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    How Often Do You Really Think About Sex?

    A LOT.... depends on where I am and what's going on but it seems to be in the back of my mind quite a bit.
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    Orgasmically challenged

    I'd recommend a g spot toy, and practice, practice, practice!
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    I get too distracted as well, rather concentrate on one persons pleasure at a time.
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    New Here!!

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    What Do You Fantasize About During Masturbation

    I heard his wife just filed for divorce!