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Hey, I just bought my first three toys today and I while they won't be here for a few days I know I'll have hardly a clue what to do with them once they do arrive. I got the 'My First Bullet', the 'Pixie Vibe', and the stimulating bunny ring... Any suggestions on how to best use them together/separately?
I just don't know anymore. I'm almost 22 years old and I've only had one -real- orgasm, and that was during a solo session. I've felt pretty good plenty of times before and after that experience. Getting wet isn't terribly difficult. My boyfriend is very talented in making me feel pleasure, and my toys can still get me kind of close, like to the point when I start to feel the way I did that time. The contractions and the heady, occasionally headache inducing, (I learned that it was out of a need to breathe deeply) lovely experience. So I suppose I could sort of count a couple of other experiences when it started, but I didn't actually finish having one those other times. -.- Rather than drunken sounding giggles or an 'Oh, wow, holy crap, that was awesome,' it ended in groans of frustration and 'dammit, I wasn't done, why did it have to stooop...?' It was kinda like, climbing, and climbing, and expecting to get somewhere, seeing your goal and... then falling off just before getting there. -.-; (Why? At first it was a lot of reasons. My hand got tired, I moved the wrong way, my toy slipped, the batteries died, I have really crappy luck I suppose and after I get that far only to be let down, I usually give up. I -have- made genuine attempts afterward, but multiples don't seem to work for me, which is unnerving for me as a woman since that's... suppose to be one of the great things about being a girl, isn't it? You can go at it again...?) At this point? I really don't know what to do. I just can't seem to get 'far enough' anymore. The more I try, the less of a response I get out of myself. That in mind, I've taken breaks before, a week or so. It doesn't seem to help. I've tried other forms of stimulation, and yeah, they've occasionally gotten me a little further. (Anal toys, for instance? It was weird to me at first, but apparently I do like that sort of thing.) Closest I seem to get is triple stimulation and it STILL doesn't work. I've tried breathing techniques, finding my G-spot, so on and so forth. I've tried those stimulating gels, too. Complete waste of time for me so far. Also, cliteral stimulation in general... sometimes it feels effective? But usually, no. Seriously, what the hell, am I broken or something? I'm actually a bit of a late bloomer, I didn't even really start 'doing stuff' with myself consistently til about age 18 for crying out loud. (If you knew my mother, you'd understand.) How the hell am I having this much trouble when I've barely gotten started... x.x At this point that experience has become a distant--lovely, but very distant--memory. Honestly, more than once, I threw up my hands and went "fine, what the hell, I can live without it." And in said fit of exasperation, I might have actually left the subject alone, if not for something, or rather, someone bringing it back up. I know my boyfriend wants to be able to make me climax. It's important to him. The way he told me...how passionate he was about it...kinda makes me feel like crying. I think it's actually heart-breaking for him that I can get him to, but he hasn't had any success with me, and I just... ... don't know if I can anymore. Help? ... Please?