Members Still learning Posted October 21, 2010 Members Report Share Posted October 21, 2010 I met a woman last year with whom sex is something I never had the way I do, in the way she responds to me. We have it great.I am skipping the details and concentrating on the topic:I hear these stories about women who can orgasm from breast / nipple stimulation. I wonder if any woman can achieve it with enough work and patience. I am WILLING to do what it takes with joy.While hers are not that "important" to her in sex I really enjoy having them for me but I would so love for her to be able to enjoy the attention. Orgasm would be the ultimate goal and my fantasy but I have to be realistic and enjoy her for who she is. Also she had to have a breast reduction a few years years ago, does it spell impossible? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members InLikeFlynn Posted October 21, 2010 Members Report Share Posted October 21, 2010 I met a woman last year with whom sex is something I never had the way I do, in the way she responds to me. We have it great.I am skipping the details and concentrating on the topic:I hear these stories about women who can orgasm from breast / nipple stimulation. I wonder if any woman can achieve it with enough work and patience. I am WILLING to do what it takes with joy.While hers are not that "important" to her in sex I really enjoy having them for me but I would so love for her to be able to enjoy the attention. Orgasm would be the ultimate goal and my fantasy but I have to be realistic and enjoy her for who she is. Also she had to have a breast reduction a few years years ago, does it spell impossible?Yes, my wife can orgasm just by nipple stimulation. She loves attention to her breasts and working on her nipples sends her over the top very quickly.My advice would be to be honest with your partner about your fantasy, and then go slowly. Incorporate it as part of foreplay, perhaps combining attention to her nipples with something that really turns her on such as an adult movie with her favorite sex scenes. The important thing is don't push it to fast too soon. You want to avoid any pressure so there will be no feelings of disappointment or inadequacy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbie sisired Posted October 24, 2010 Newbie Report Share Posted October 24, 2010 I met a woman last year with whom sex is something I never had the way I do, in the way she responds to me. We have it great.I am skipping the details and concentrating on the topic:I hear these stories about women who can orgasm from breast / nipple stimulation. I wonder if any woman can achieve it with enough work and patience. I am WILLING to do what it takes with joy.While hers are not that "important" to her in sex I really enjoy having them for me but I would so love for her to be able to enjoy the attention. Orgasm would be the ultimate goal and my fantasy but I have to be realistic and enjoy her for who she is. Also she had to have a breast reduction a few years years ago, does it spell impossible?I have reached orgasm from men playing with my breasts more than once and it's extremely intense but I can't do it when playing with them myself. I think it's because I enjoy a STRONG grip and I just don't have the strength in my hands to bring about the same reaction. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Still learning Posted October 24, 2010 Author Members Report Share Posted October 24, 2010 I have reached orgasm from men playing with my breasts more than once and it's extremely intense but I can't do it when playing with them myself. I think it's because I enjoy a STRONG grip and I just don't have the strength in my hands to bring about the same reaction.A woman like that ... I wonder who would get tired first.My fantasy while I can respect a woman can't achieve it ever.I have spent a good time caressing, licking, sucking as part of a good foreplaya few times in the hope to make progress eventually but also if it doen't happenI sure love going through the motions!I appreciate the input but a bit envious of not experiencing that kind of giving to such a woman. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Still learning Posted October 24, 2010 Author Members Report Share Posted October 24, 2010 Yes, my wife can orgasm just by nipple stimulation. She loves attention to her breasts and working on her nipples sends her over the top very quickly.My advice would be to be honest with your partner about your fantasy, and then go slowly. Incorporate it as part of foreplay, perhaps combining attention to her nipples with something that really turns her on such as an adult movie with her favorite sex scenes. The important thing is don't push it to fast too soon. You want to avoid any pressure so there will be no feelings of disappointment or inadequacy.What's your wife's take on this, and yours for experience and what not.This spaecial lady who has my heart had a breast reduction in the pastso it leaves me unsure of my "sucess" taking her breasts to this level I will love even more.I am ready to accept her the way she is if it doesn't happen, don't want to pressure hertoward thge result but let her give me the chance to try, I never knboew I can want someone like this so much!I will still enjoy her the way she is regardless and enjoy the trying very much.Obviously a breast lover. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ladylove Posted October 24, 2010 Members Report Share Posted October 24, 2010 What's your wife's take on this, and yours for experience and what not.This spaecial lady who has my heart had a breast reduction in the pastso it leaves me unsure of my "sucess" taking her breasts to this level I will love even more.I am ready to accept her the way she is if it doesn't happen, don't want to pressure hertoward thge result but let her give me the chance to try, I never knboew I can want someone like this so much!I will still enjoy her the way she is regardless and enjoy the trying very much.Obviously a breast lover.A friend of mine, a contemporary, had a breast reduction in her early 20's. She has very little nipple sensation now. Just an FYI. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members InLikeFlynn Posted October 27, 2010 Members Report Share Posted October 27, 2010 What's your wife's take on this, and yours for experience and what not.This spaecial lady who has my heart had a breast reduction in the pastso it leaves me unsure of my "sucess" taking her breasts to this level I will love even more.I am ready to accept her the way she is if it doesn't happen, don't want to pressure hertoward thge result but let her give me the chance to try, I never knboew I can want someone like this so much!I will still enjoy her the way she is regardless and enjoy the trying very much.Obviously a breast lover.My wife's nipples are extremely sensitive and perhaps more importantly she loves having her breasts manhandled, and after she has had an orgasm from her breasts she is definitely in the mood for receiving and giving attention to other areas so I can understand your desire. However in your case it may be as ladylove has mentioned and the sensitivity has been reduced. If so, and if achieving this is important to both of you then I would suggest combining the attention to her breasts with something that really turns her on. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Review Team sass Posted November 4, 2010 Review Team Report Share Posted November 4, 2010 I am a lot like sisired - kind of takes a lot, but yes, I can and have.As for if her reduction will cause a problem - I would guess it depends on how good of a job her surgeon did. I have a friend that had a reduction and she did not lose much sensation.Good luck! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Chuck.gay Posted July 25, 2011 Members Report Share Posted July 25, 2011 Yes, my wife can orgasm just by nipple stimulation. She loves attention to her breasts and working on her nipples sends her over the top very quickly.My advice would be to be honest with your partner about your fantasy, and then go slowly. Incorporate it as part of foreplay, perhaps combining attention to her nipples with something that really turns her on such as an adult movie with her favorite sex scenes. The important thing is don't push it to fast too soon. You want to avoid any pressure so there will be no feelings of disappointment or inadequacy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Chuck.gay Posted July 25, 2011 Members Report Share Posted July 25, 2011 My wife manipulates her nipples while I eat her pussy and she says is helps stimulate he clit and gies her fabulous orgasims. It also make me really hot wathcing her play with her nipples while I eat her Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbie LovePoison Posted July 27, 2011 Newbie Report Share Posted July 27, 2011 I have had many orgasms just through nipple play with my last boyfriend. He was a "boob man" and he knew just the right things to do to make me orgasm. I like a previous poster, cannot make myself orgasm by doing it myself. But I LOVE having my breasts/nipples played with... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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