Newbie girlofnirvana Posted August 9, 2011 Newbie Report Share Posted August 9, 2011 My boyfriend and I have been together for just over a year. We've lived together, been engaged... and then he broke up with me. We quickly got back together and have been enjoying each other ever since! On our 2nd date, my boyfriend, who was painfully shy, unzipped my pants and asked if he could eat me. I turned him down although I was ready for a night of raunchy sex. He told me that was all he wanted to do and he bragged that he was good at it. I went home and masturbated, thinking about his tongue in my very special place. When I finally let him, I found out he was bragging for a reason! Thankfully, it's his favorite thing to do sexually... I LOVE IT TOO!!!When we did finally have sex, he didn't take off his shirt or his boxers. At first, I thought he was in such a rush that he didn't bother with it. After several weeks of this happening, I finally pulled off his shirt before I let him go any further. I told him how incredibly sexy I find him and then we proceeded to have amazing sex. It wasn't until later that he told me he was uncomfortable being seen naked, even by his lover. I thought he was self conscious until he disclosed a very dark secret: his uncle had molested him as a young boy/teen. I assured him that I found him very sexually appealing, regardless of what happened in the past... afterall, I was molested too. Close to the beginning of our relationship, my boyfriend mentioned to me that he had, in the past, been penetrated by a lover with a strap on... although he did not recall liking or disliking it because he had been inebriated at the time. Not long after he mentioned this to me, I had a dream about doing it myself and so I brought it up to him. He was a little weary at first and often questioned me about whether or not I thought him gay for enjoying it. I reassured him I did not think he was gay and I even researched the subject, showing him several articles about male penetration and the male g-spot being located in that area. We experimented and started small using a candle at first, then when we had some disposable funds, we bought him a vibrating anal stimulator. When I first used the new toy (referred to as 'the white one') on him, he went nuts! Pre-cum shot everywhere and he was instantly hooked. He admitted to me not long after that he often plays with his anus while in the bathroom or shower. He let me watch once or twice while he did that and I have to admit, the faces he made got me incredibly HOT!!! Now, my boyfriend has more toys than I do totaling 5 (and 2 of them were previously mine!!!) and sometimes he'll let me video tape him or take pictures while he plays with them. He is no longer fearful and we're taking it to higher levels of female domination. :-) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Review Team sass Posted August 9, 2011 Review Team Report Share Posted August 9, 2011 Sounds fun and sounds like you two are going about exploring the right way - talking about it first and starting out slow. I hope you continue to learn more about each other and grow sexually. It is an awesome experience to have with someone! Thanks for sharing! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members SensualWoman Posted August 10, 2011 Members Report Share Posted August 10, 2011 It's awesome to see a guy open about anal play. My hubby was embarrassed at first too, but quickly realized that he enjoyed the whole experience regardless of how I felt about him playing with himself anally, which I am glad for! Enjoy the exploration!!! And maybe get yourself some toys. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members mudshark Posted August 13, 2011 Members Report Share Posted August 13, 2011 My boyfriend and I have been together for just over a year. We've lived together, been engaged... and then he broke up with me. We quickly got back together and have been enjoying each other ever since! On our 2nd date, my boyfriend, who was painfully shy, unzipped my pants and asked if he could eat me. I turned him down although I was ready for a night of raunchy sex. He told me that was all he wanted to do and he bragged that he was good at it. I went home and masturbated, thinking about his tongue in my very special place. When I finally let him, I found out he was bragging for a reason! Thankfully, it's his favorite thing to do sexually... I LOVE IT TOO!!!When we did finally have sex, he didn't take off his shirt or his boxers. At first, I thought he was in such a rush that he didn't bother with it. After several weeks of this happening, I finally pulled off his shirt before I let him go any further. I told him how incredibly sexy I find him and then we proceeded to have amazing sex. It wasn't until later that he told me he was uncomfortable being seen naked, even by his lover. I thought he was self conscious until he disclosed a very dark secret: his uncle had molested him as a young boy/teen. I assured him that I found him very sexually appealing, regardless of what happened in the past... afterall, I was molested too. Close to the beginning of our relationship, my boyfriend mentioned to me that he had, in the past, been penetrated by a lover with a strap on... although he did not recall liking or disliking it because he had been inebriated at the time. Not long after he mentioned this to me, I had a dream about doing it myself and so I brought it up to him. He was a little weary at first and often questioned me about whether or not I thought him gay for enjoying it. I reassured him I did not think he was gay and I even researched the subject, showing him several articles about male penetration and the male g-spot being located in that area. We experimented and started small using a candle at first, then when we had some disposable funds, we bought him a vibrating anal stimulator. When I first used the new toy (referred to as 'the white one') on him, he went nuts! Pre-cum shot everywhere and he was instantly hooked. He admitted to me not long after that he often plays with his anus while in the bathroom or shower. He let me watch once or twice while he did that and I have to admit, the faces he made got me incredibly HOT!!! Now, my boyfriend has more toys than I do totaling 5 (and 2 of them were previously mine!!!) and sometimes he'll let me video tape him or take pictures while he plays with them. He is no longer fearful and we're taking it to higher levels of female domination. :-)Awesomw. I love when my wife does me with the strap-on I got for her. It happens rarely these days. But when we do it, wow! It's great! Sometimes, she just bends me over and spreads my cheeks and just plunges her tongue in my asshole. mmmmmmmmmm, so fucking good! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members kmccarthy Posted August 25, 2011 Members Report Share Posted August 25, 2011 I got use to anal sex too. I do enjoy the pleasure with one of her vibrates dildo. We started off just to see if I like it. Well I do. If not with her. I'll do it myself. Enjoy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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