Real Life Swingers

[WendyNY]

My husband and I have been talking about Swingers lately. It came up after our very first trip to a Triple XXX movie theater we went to last weekend. While there watching the movie (and watching the others around us ! ) we were approached by a very large, good looking Military guy. He was very nice and actually seemed "normal" compared to a few of the others in the theater who clearly had some problems......LOL...... He asked if it was our first time in the theater and mentioned that he and his wife were actual Swingers.

He was alone there that night though.

I am not sure if he was Bi-sexual as a lot of the men in the theater were either gay or bisexual.

( There may have been a few straight men there )

This man politely asked us if I/we would be interested in a MFM with him. My husband and I politely declined. He then mentioned that a group of couples were meeting there the next afternoon and would be getting together later for some "fun". It was quite intriguing to both of us......... We have talked a bit back and forth over the years about it. I don't know if it is something we could actually do though. It's a complete Lifestyle and I just don't see the two of us cut out for that. We talked about fantasies coming true in another thread on here---and I am thinking that this is probably something best left as a fantasy.

Back to the topic of actual Swingers. There is a swinger website and we signed up on it JUST to read the forums. OMG.....I had no idea we would get offers and actual MAIL......It's very intriguing to say the least.....Very tempting..... My husband and I had a pretty deep conversation the other night about "what if". What would happen if we did it just once ? Would we want it and crave it more and more ? Does it get to the point where it's never enough? Like an addiction?

I know at one time there was an active member on TT who I believe was a swinger. I think that he passed away. I am curious, are there any swingers as members on here ? I would love to know how you came to be part of that Lifestyle and how it's changed your relationship .

[chloegirl]

I have no personal experience with this but I know of 2 couples here in town who began practicing this....switching off and swinging with each other. It did not end well. The heat and novelty at first was totally intoxicating to them all but it wasn't long before the "rules" started to be broken. The husband of one and the wife of the other began to hook up by themselves outside of the context of the "swinging" get togethers and it got ugly. Ended up in 2 divorces by the time it was all over.

I agree with you, I think that hot as this little fantasy is, it probably is best left as just a fantasy if you are in a committed relationship that you value. Now for those free and single it would be a whole different ballgame!

[booboo130]

My husband and I have been talking about Swingers lately. It came up after our very first trip to a Triple XXX movie theater we went to last weekend. While there watching the movie (and watching the others around us ! ) we were approached by a very large, good looking Military guy. He was very nice and actually seemed "normal" compared to a few of the others in the theater who clearly had some problems......LOL...... He asked if it was our first time in the theater and mentioned that he and his wife were actual Swingers.

He was alone there that night though.

I am not sure if he was Bi-sexual as a lot of the men in the theater were either gay or bisexual.

( There may have been a few straight men there )

This man politely asked us if I/we would be interested in a MFM with him. My husband and I politely declined. He then mentioned that a group of couples were meeting there the next afternoon and would be getting together later for some "fun". It was quite intriguing to both of us......... We have talked a bit back and forth over the years about it. I don't know if it is something we could actually do though. It's a complete Lifestyle and I just don't see the two of us cut out for that. We talked about fantasies coming true in another thread on here---and I am thinking that this is probably something best left as a fantasy.

Back to the topic of actual Swingers. There is a swinger website and we signed up on it JUST to read the forums. OMG.....I had no idea we would get offers and actual MAIL......It's very intriguing to say the least.....Very tempting..... My husband and I had a pretty deep conversation the other night about "what if". What would happen if we did it just once ? Would we want it and crave it more and more ? Does it get to the point where it's never enough? Like an addiction?

I know at one time there was an active member on TT who I believe was a swinger. I think that he passed away. I am curious, are there any swingers as members on here ? I would love to know how you came to be part of that Lifestyle and how it's changed your relationship .

My wife and I have been married for almost 20 years and started swinging about a year and a half ago. We talked about it for a few years before actually trying anything. We discussed certain rules (condom use, playing in the same place, etc) before actually going to a club. We then found a swingers club near our house that was having a meet and greet. The club was new and they were trying to attract local swingers. There would be no playing at the club that night. We went and met some very nice people and had a god time. From there we started going to the club to meet new people and just have fun. most of the time we played by ourselves at the club because we were not interested in anyone there at the time. We have met, and played with some fantastic people that we now consider good friends. We have also had several bad experiences with couples that we no longer talk too. I guess it is all what you make of it. A couple of things we have learned about swinging:

If either of you are jealous don't swing. It can get bad real fast, I know because I have seen it happen. this will not fix a problem in a relationship.

When you go to a club you can just play alone. The club we went to had a no pressure rule. No meant no and it was respected for the most part. Sometimes just having sex in the same room with others is a huge turn on.

If you find a club you want to try see if they have a meet and greet with no playing. You can go there and see what the club has to offer and dont have to worry about seeing a bunch of naked peope running around. Plus it will let you see if the place is clean and smells nice. There are some clubs where the sights and smells turned us off and I am not talking about the people there, just the building in general.

Do not give out any personal information to anyone who sends you and email. You will probably get numerous emails from "couples" that only want to see naked pictures of you or maybe do some web cam stuff. If someone immediatly asks for naked pictures we end the conversation.

Expect some drama from other couples. You will very quickly meet the same swingers in a local area if you go to the same club a few times. Expect people to discuss you while there too. We have met couples before and after talking with them they say, "Oh, you are the couple that so and so was talking about last weekend." It can be kinda strange when people are talking about your sexual exploits.

Figure that sooner or later the male you are with, or perhaps even your husband, may have trouble while playing. It has happened to me and can make you feel real bad. When it happened to me I kept thinking why wasn't Mr Happy working, which got me nervous, which in turn made me think more about it, which got me more nervous. It happens and there may be nothing you can do about it.

My wife and I never take one for the team. If I am interested in the woman but she is not interested in the man we move on and vice versa.

Sorry for the long post. My wife and I haev had some fantastic times swinging and plan to continue it for now. We just try to enjoy the moment and relax. Hope this helped.

BooBoo

[WendyNY]

Sorry for the long post. My wife and I haev had some fantastic times swinging and plan to continue it for now. We just try to enjoy the moment and relax. Hope this helped.

BooBoo

Chloe----Thank you for your input---Wow--I'm sure that was the highlight of the gossip in the town !!! (it sounds like a small town !! ) I can see the gossipy town women gathered for coffee discussing every sordid detail with great delight !

I think you are right, it's probably best left as a fantasy..........

Booboo, thank you for the very detailed and infomative explanation !!! No, don't apologize for it being long---I really enjoyed reading it and I'm very sure that others on TT did as well. I am very impressed also--I see that you have been a member of TT for quite awhile, but this is your very first post on here (or at least one that the forums kept track of under your profile. I know when they redid everything on the forums our previous posts were erased from our profiles) THANK YOU for speaking out about this. I read both of these to my husband.

It makes sense that you kind of eased into this gradually. First, by playing together in front of other people and then finally with other couples. I'm sure it was extremely exciting to be together sexually knowing others around you were watching. It is very interesting that there is still drama even in a swinger situation. I suppose, like every relationship--that is to be expected. I am very surprised that some people/couples would "kiss and tell" after your encounters together. It goes to show you what kind of people they really are.

I guess after reading into this Lifestyle more, I think we will keep it as a fantasy for now. But please continue to post on here. You write very well and I would love to hear more about your encounters in the Swinger Lifestyle (or even your encounters alone with your wife ! )

[booboo130]

You are most welcome! I am very much a lurker on this web site. I normally look through the site for advice on how to please my wife in different ways and sometimes to look at different and new toys we can play with. When I say your post I realised I could give some advice.

As far as the swinging goes we started to add some spice into our sex life and just have fun. After almost 20 years of marriage we both were in a bit of a rut. Not that the sex was not good but it became a lot of the same. We then looked into swinging. Our sex life since then has become more varied and fun. We both feel we are the best when together alone but just enjoy the moment when it happens.

When we first started we figured it would be perfect if we could meet "to play" once a month. We have since realised that that can be difficult due to our work schedules. Now, if we get the chance and we are both in the mood we play, if not then we play alone. We have a few couples that we see and occassionally meet new couples. There are two couples that we enjoy the most.

One thing I forgot to mention in my previous post is there are numerous articles on the web about swinging. There may even be some on this web site. I am one of those guys that, if I need to repair something at home I read 20 different articles about it before trying to do it. I can't remember how many I read about swinging and talked it over with my wife before we started. Some articles are very negative and some are very positive about swinging.

As far as experiences go, that will have to wait as my daughter is waking up...

BooBoo

[WendyNY]

As far as experiences go, that will have to wait as my daughter is waking up...

BooBoo

I'm very glad you came out of the shadows and are no longer a lurker !!

I'm a little curious--when you swing with the same couples continually or often, how is that different than swinging with brand new people ? I am wondering if there is ever any emotional attachment for either you or your wife (or even the other couples ) I am thinking that perhaps this is the reason for the scenario which Chloe mentioned above----the couples leaving each other for the couple they had swapped with. It makes sense that eventually it would be more than just sex if you were with these same people often. You probably get to know them and what their likes/dislikes are too the more you are with them, correct ?? Although I'm sure it's just as exciting --if not more exciting with brand new people.

And now for the details----- Paint me a picture. Describe a scenario---I also would love to know what turns both of you on more ---to be with other people or to SEE your spouse with someone else(or is it a combination of everything ?) Well--now I simply MUST know all the details !!! (And I'm quite sure that even those who are not commenting are sitting on the edge of their seats with great anticipation !! LOL....)

Patiently waiting.......................

[booboo130]

I'm very glad you came out of the shadows and are no longer a lurker !!

I'm a little curious--when you swing with the same couples continually or often, how is that different than swinging with brand new people ? I am wondering if there is ever any emotional attachment for either you or your wife (or even the other couples ) I am thinking that perhaps this is the reason for the scenario which Chloe mentioned above----the couples leaving each other for the couple they had swapped with. It makes sense that eventually it would be more than just sex if you were with these same people often. You probably get to know them and what their likes/dislikes are too the more you are with them, correct ?? Although I'm sure it's just as exciting --if not more exciting with brand new people.

And now for the details----- Paint me a picture. Describe a scenario---I also would love to know what turns both of you on more ---to be with other people or to SEE your spouse with someone else(or is it a combination of everything ?) Well--now I simply MUST know all the details !!! (And I'm quite sure that even those who are not commenting are sitting on the edge of their seats with great anticipation !! LOL....)

Patiently waiting.......................

Well, when some couples swing they just want to fuck and that is it. They go to a club, meet a couple (or single, or whatever they are looking for), have sex and that's it. No names, nothing. My wife and I have tried this and dont really like it. We enjoy meeting couples that are in similiar places in their lives that we are. Plus I like the flirting that comes with meeting a new couple. I like to know if someone is attracted to me and let the other women know I am attracted to her. My wife is the same. With couples that we are friends with it is not all sex either. We actually talk to each other about work, family, etc. I guess there is an emotional attachment but nothing like what I have with my wife. I have been upset about the two times we had to tell couples we no longer wished to see them but it was more of a loss of friendship then any type of loss I would feel if my wife left me. It has caused us to be very picky with who we want to be with. Any "drama" and we are usually out. I have heard tales about couples breaking up when they meet another couple and all that. We always tell any new couple this is extra, we love each other dearly and have fantastic sex with each other. This is just to add some spice and variety.

The best way I can describe it is dating for couples. At the last party I was at I noticed a couple standing alone. It was just a get together before going out to a bar kinda thing but all the people there were swingers. My wife had stepped out to get some fresh air and I noticed this attractive woman. When I see someone I think is attractive I then look at the husband to see if I think my wife would be attracted to him. When I saw him I knew my wife would so I went over and introduced myself. When we went to the bar we were all over each other and had a great time (no sex by the way). Just a lot of flirting and touching.

As far as "Painting you a picture" I am not sure how good I will be at that. The last experience we had we met the couple for dinner. Of course we sit in a booth across from each other so I can sit next to the other woman and my wife the man. It was pretty dark in the restaurant so there was some groping and rubbing going on under the table. Throughout dinner we would continue to brush against each other or rub each others leg. I even put my hand down the back of her skirt. She was wearing lace panties by the way... After dinner we head back to the hotel. My wife drove with him and her with me. A little kissing and groping before we leave the parking lot. When we get to the room there were two beds in it. (We like to be on the same bed if possible but learn to adapt ) I then started to slowly undress her while the other man undressed my wife. She then undresses me, all the while we are exploring each other. She started out giving me a great blowjob while I watched the other man eat my wife. I then licked her pussy, which was dripping wet. I get really turned on by hot sweaty sex, and I mean that literally. I like to be dripping with sweat from my exertions and very soon we were all dripping with sweat. We fucked like crazy. It was one of the hottest experiences we have had with another couple. At the end of the night the sheets of the bed were soaked. We ended the night by taking a shower with each other and then going home after. My wife and I then had sex when we got home. It was a great time.

And before anyone asks, yes protection was used.

My wife tells me she loves to watch me please another woman like I please her. I also enjoy watching her being fucked. For us it is a ver big turn on.

BooBoo

[chloegirl]

WOW!!! I have to say Booboo that that sounds so incredibly HOT to me! It's those kinds of scenes that pop into my head and really get me worked up and over the edge! I think I could go for this in a big way at this stage of my life (earlier on....I don't think so) So much rests on the fact that BOTH of you are totally on board and in sync with it. Sounds like you've got the best of both worlds! Very, very exciting!

Have there ever been times where you hooked up with another couple and came away with a negative outcome? (maybe the chemistry didn't play out or something?) How do you handle it when a couple hits you up and you are not attracted or interested? Have any of them ever gotten snarky with you? Want to hear about every aspect of this good and bad as the idea of playing this way has a very strong draw!

[WendyNY]

Chloe--I'm so glad to see that I'm not the ONLY one who was incredibly turned on by that very very hot story. The fact that it was TRUE made it even hotter !!! Whew..................I need a cold shower now---Or perhaps somthing else.......

Well, Boo---you painted an awesome picture for us !! Yes, you and your wife are definitely on the same page with this Lifestyle. I think for the first time it hit me what it's really about------it's simply about SEX------basically hot steamy SEX-----It's like being in your own personal porn movie---And when the movie is finished---you go home and back to your life. I don't think all couples could do that though.

I want to hear about all the things that Chloe brought up too----How to say you're not interested to another couple---- And PLEASE continue with the stories...............

[booboo130]

How to say no to a couple can be interesting. If someone e-mails with a request to meet we always ask for face pictures to see what they look like. If we both feel they are attractive we may try to meet depending on schedules, if not then we send a polite no thanks and are done. We have couples ask why we don't want to meet them and my wife always blames me and I am ok with that. For us there has to be some physical attraction to the other couple and then we look for the friendship. We want to see face pictures and will send face pictures to couples who ask.

In person we are always polite and respectful with another couple. We normally meet for a drink to see if there is any connection. This allows us to talk and see if we feel there are any "red flags" that might make us not want to see them. Plus it lets us see if the couple looks like they do in their pictures. Everytime we have met a couple they always say, "Wow, you look just like your pictures." Some people we have met have pictures that are several years old. After drinks we leave and talk about whether we want to see them again. If no we send an e-mail saying we are sorry but did not feel a connection and that is it.

If we are at a club and we are not interested in someone we just move to a different area of the club. One time we were talking to a couple and the guy mentioned he had brought all his wives to swing clubs. I asked how many wives and he said this is his fourth and he has been divorced three times. We quickly left that couple alone.

Two quick notes. First, at clubs when some men meet a woman they will basically ogle them while talking. I am not saying I don't look but I don't do it blatently while talking to her. I want to find out who this person is and what she likes. When she is not looking at me I will check her out. I am very respectful with other women. I hope that makes sense.

Second, I am hoping I am not sounding like a complete ass. I am just a normal average (average in every way by the way) guy who is trying to have fun with his wife. We are not looking for Ken and Barbie and we are not Ken and Barbie. We are trying to meet couples with similiar interests and maybe have some hot sex if it gets to that. There are swing groups that you have to be allowed in after showing pictures to the members. Those groups only want the ultra sexy people and that is not us, at least in their eyes.

As far as negative experiences go.... Our very first time with another couple was not good. We had met a couple online and then met them three, yes three, times before deciding to sleep with them. By the way that was three times in person. Well me and the other woman are having a good time and yes I was nervous but was able to get Mr Happy to working. The other man was having trouble performing and then decided to make a comment about my wifes weight. As I have said we are not Ken and Barbie and we had met three times before. My wife and I got dressed and left and have never talked to them again. And yes I did think about punching his lights out but did not want to go to jail....

Another couple we met seemed very compatible with us. We were in similiar stages in our lives, kids with similiar ages, etc. The other man was texting my wife a lot and I am ok with that. I asked if it would be OK to text his wife. He said sure and numbers were exchanged. We started texting and realised we had a lot in common. Well, the other woman started getting turned on by us texting and would attack her husband when he got home from work. He got upset about this because he did not like that she was so turned on by another man. It was OK for him to get turned on by my wife but not the other way around. This lasted over a three month period and thankfully we never slept together as I think it would have been a bad experience.

One last one. If I am going out and I think there might be a chance to play I then have a strict 2-3 beer limit and that is usually with dinner. I do that so Mr Happy is ready to go if needed. We met a couple and went back to their house to play. I did not realise how much he had had to drink and he was unable to perform. I completely blame myself for this as I was not watching what he was doing while there. The couple called us up later and wanted to try again to make up for it. We agreed and said no drinking. Two hours after we were there he had consumed a lot of alcohol and we decided to leave. He chased us outside and said everything was fine and to come back in. We said no thanks and left.

And to end on a good note.... My wife would occassionally be a bartender at a club we went to. After work I went to the club to meet her. I wasn't planning on doing anything since I just got done with work and did not smell too good. Well one of our couples wives was there also bartending. She looked at me and asked if I wanted a massage. My wife said it was fine. Next thing I know she is rubbing me down with oil in all the right ways. Soon she is giving me a blow job with my wife helping her. We then move to the couch and I am fucking my wife while the other woman is sitting on my face. My wife was also kissing her. I believe a small group gathered to watch us. It was awesome.

BooBoo

[WendyNY]

And to end on a good note.... My wife would occassionally be a bartender at a club we went to. After work I went to the club to meet her. I wasn't planning on doing anything since I just got done with work and did not smell too good. Well one of our couples wives was there also bartending. She looked at me and asked if I wanted a massage. My wife said it was fine. Next thing I know she is rubbing me down with oil in all the right ways. Soon she is giving me a blow job with my wife helping her. We then move to the couch and I am fucking my wife while the other woman is sitting on my face. My wife was also kissing her. I believe a small group gathered to watch us. It was awesome.

BooBoo

It sounds like you do come across all kinds of people in this Lifestyle (and all different attitudes !) I think that your way of letting couples know you are not interested is great. It's funny that your wife sometimes blames you !! LOL... That would be me-- feeling guilty and not wanting to hurt their feelings !

I was going to ask if your wife also enjoyed being with another woman. I enjoyed reading the last paragraph about your unexpected event !! Guess both women didn't mind that you had just come from work with no time to shower ! I enjoy that also !! I LOVE when my husband just gets out of work !! He does get very dirty at work........

I have to tell you---your stories have given me a whole new set of fantasies......

But, I do know that for my husband and I it will only be a fantasy .....

Please feel free to continue to write about your very hot SWINGER SEXCAPADES !! I love reading about them.... (and I have been thinking about the last couple swapping one you wrote about all week !! ) I have been ALL OVER my husband ! If only he weren't so tired....

Let us know how your next hook up session goes !! Enjoy !

[ReadyToMoveOn]

Just be careful of what you wish for... You may just get it...

[WendyNY]

Just be careful of what you wish for... You may just get it...

Ooooooo......is that a promise..... ???

[WendyNY]

Ok Boo---I need another "Swinger Story " Fix !! Please........

[booboo130]

Ok Boo---I need another "Swinger Story " Fix !! Please........

Another fix huh? Well, at a local swinger club (that has now unfortunately closed) we met a woman there who was helping out one night. When we walked in the club she was wearing bra and panties with a fishnet body suit over it. She is very, very attractive. Beautiful blue eyes and gorgeous breasts. Her outfit was leaving little to the imagination. My wife told me later she was one of the first women that she was immediately attracted too. I told my wife that I hope her husband was there. It turned out he was not and she said she wouldn't play without him. We still got to know her and decided to meet them both for dinner one night just to get to know one another. Needless to say we hit it off right away and got along very well.

The next weekend we met the couple at the club. At the bar we each got ourselves something to drink and the other woman started rubbing up against me while my wife and the other guy started to make out. Well, I was very excited and she decided to give me a blow job in front of everyone. Next thing I know my wife has joined her while her husband is fingering both of them. We then decided to go upstairs and find a room. The club was pretty busy and there were no rooms available so we went to an area that has couches and curtains that we can close. There was also a massage table there. Me and the other woman started rubbing each other down while we stripped off each others clothes. My wife was being eaten by the husband and was enjoying it by the moans she was making. The other wife and I were in a 69 on the massage table for a good while. My wife enjoys her ass spanked and the other husband was taking care of her. We then start fucking. Me and the wife are on the couch next to my wife and the other husband. While we are fucking them my wife and her are making out and pinching each others nipples. It was a great time. For some reason I could not cum. I am not sure why. When my wife and I got home we fucked like crazy and I was able to get her off and she took care of me. It was a memorable night!

Boo

[chloegirl]

WOW!!! Very Hot! That sounds like something out of a movie....or one of my own fantasies!

More please Booboo! Let us live vicariously thru you!

[WendyNY]

WOW!!! Very Hot! That sounds like something out of a movie....or one of my own fantasies!

More please Booboo! Let us live vicariously thru you!

Chloe --those were my exact same thoughts !!! "Let us live vicariously thru you !"

Awesome story Boo----OMG----YES---YES----JUST LIKE THAT------- DON'T STOP---MORE PLEASE------OMG..

I would love a "daily dose " of your stories......I'm sure Chloe and others would too ....

I will have something to imagine all day now.....Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmm ....

Thank you...........

[booboo130]

My wife and I had plans this past weekend but it turned out to be a bust. Friday she was going to get off of work early and when she got home I planned on tying her up and doing some mild S&M stuff on her. She enjoys that. I was going to use some toys on her also. Well, she stayed home from work Friday because she was not feeling good. We were suppossed to meet a couple for fun on Saturday night but because she was sick we did not get any playing in.

So the stories will have to wait for a while....

We were both kinda bummed about it too...

[WendyNY]

My wife and I had plans this past weekend but it turned out to be a bust. Friday she was going to get off of work early and when she got home I planned on tying her up and doing some mild S&M stuff on her. She enjoys that. I was going to use some toys on her also. Well, she stayed home from work Friday because she was not feeling good. We were suppossed to meet a couple for fun on Saturday night but because she was sick we did not get any playing in.

So the stories will have to wait for a while....

We were both kinda bummed about it too...

I am sorry to hear that the weekend didn't work out as planned. Hopefully your wife will be feeling better this weekend. (my youngest daughter just came down with the flu tonight---Hopefully we won't all end up getting it !!)

I was wondering if your wife has played one on one with another woman while you either watched or joined in. You have mentioned her doing some things wiith another woman a couple of times. As I've gotten older my fantasies about being with women have definitely expanded. If she hasn't completely "gone all the way" with another woman yet, is it something that she has expressed wanting to do ? It sounds like she was very attracted to the woman you spoke about in the last story as she mentioned it to you and she did have some interaction with her.

I look forward to hearing all about your next encounter !

[booboo130]

My wife considers herself bi-curious. She always tells me that she doesn't mind being with a woman but prefers dick. LOL. She is talking to a couple on one of the swinger sites and the wife is very bi-sexual. She has told me if she was looking for a girlfriend it would be her. I have seen pictures of her and can see why.

My wife has "gone all the way" a couple of times but doesn't go out of her way to do it. If she feels like it she does, if not then she doesn't. She did have a woman use a strap on on her once. I know it sounds weird but it did not turn me on but I believe it was because the whole dynamic of the situation was kinda weird. I think normally it would really get me going.

Boo

[ladylove]

WOW!!! Very Hot!

More please Booboo! Let us live vicariously thru you!

Agreed! Love reading the stories!

[WendyNY]

Agreed! Love reading the stories!

LadyLove--I KNEW you were enjoying reading this too !!!

Boo--I think for some women being with another woman is one of those things that you take in small doses....Like it would have to be just the right moment or the right woman. It's like that for me with doing any kind of anal sex. I do enjoy it --but just not all the time...But SOMEDAY---I would love for that fantasy to come true (a threesome with another woman)

PLEASE ---keep writing---We are so happy that there is an actual person who gets to actually live out all these fantasies. I was thinking about that last night. About how there are so many people that each of us know but most of these people know NOTHING about what goes on in our personal lives. Kind of like a "secret life" . We all have a "secret self" . There was another thread at one time about this. I will have to dig it up as I have been thinking of some very profound things about the "secret lives" each of has.

[ladylove]

LadyLove--I KNEW you were enjoying reading this too !!!

Boo--I think for some women being with another woman is one of those things that you take in small doses....Like it would have to be just the right moment or the right woman. It's like that for me with doing any kind of anal sex. I do enjoy it --but just not all the time...But SOMEDAY---I would love for that fantasy to come true (a threesome with another woman)

PLEASE ---keep writing---We are so happy that there is an actual person who gets to actually live out all these fantasies. I was thinking about that last night. About how there are so many people that each of us know but most of these people know NOTHING about what goes on in our personal lives. Kind of like a "secret life" . We all have a "secret self" . There was another thread at one time about this. I will have to dig it up as I have been thinking of some very profound things about the "secret lives" each of has.

You know it Wendy!

However, I really don't have the fantasy of being in a three some... my DH does, but for it stays fantasy.

....And I remember that thread, I think it was Sunny (Sunflower) that started it ions ago. Good luck searching.

[booboo130]

Well, I have tried to type this in twice and both times my computer had a bit of a burp. Maybe third time is the charm.

Last Friday my wife was getting off work early and our daughter was staying late after school. I decided I would surprise my wife with a little fun when she got home. After she was home I led her to the bedroom and put a blindfold on her. I then undressed her. Some candles were lit for some ambiance. I then tied her to the bed. She was bent over the bed with her tummy on the bed, feet on the floor and her arms tied to the opposite side of the bed. She likes when I tie her up but we don't have much time to do it and are not alone very often. I then got out our whip. It is a rubber whip with dozens of little tails on it. I use it to tickle her back and legs. I started slowly tickling her until she was squirming real good. I then kneeled in front of her and her her suck me while I continued to tickle her and occassionally slap her ass with the whip. She was sucking really hard while I did that. I then got up and got our paddle. I started with my hands by spanking her then would switch between the paddle, whp, and my hands. I know I am doing a good job when she sucks in her breath while I am spanking her. After her ass was good and red I fingered her until she came and then fucked her good until I came. It was great! We had just enough time to get cleaned up before our daughter came home.

Later that night we get a call from a couple we know. The husband was busy but wanted to know if we would be OK with just his wife coming over? My wife and I decided it would be OK if they were both OK with it. She arrived a while later. (My daughter had since then gone over to a friends house to spend the night) My wife and I gave the other woman a nice massage to start. We used oil that heats up as you rub it on your skin. After she was all warmed up and relaxed we started kissing on each other. Before I realize it I am on my back with my wife sitting on my face and the other woman giving me a blow job. I then licked both my wife and the other woman while they kissed each other. I then fucked the other woman whle kissing my wife and did the same to my wife. It was a great way to start a weekend.

Boo

Also, here is a picture of the rope I tied my wife up with.

[WendyNY]

Well, I have tried to type this in twice and both times my computer had a bit of a burp. Maybe third time is the charm.

I'm sorry you had problems with your computer. I'm glad you got it working as I wouldn't have wanted to miss this ! That was quite the story !! Thank you for sharing !! I love the visual too --- There's no getting out of that rope ,that's for sure ! I love the spanking part.....

The part about the other woman coming over was EXTREMELY HOT too.... Boo-----you have the best of both worlds !!! (and I was so surprised when I saw you added something to this thread as I didn't even have to BEG for another story !! LOL.......)

Yes, just keep them coming please............