Real Life Swingers

[WendyNY]

Ok, Boo--if you've been watching the Forum you will know that we need a MAJOR distraction ! LOL--I think it's time for another Story !!

We recently got the Playboy channels. I spoke a little bit about this on a previous thread. There is a new show on one of the channels called "Swing".

It's a Reality show that features a couple who is interested in the Swinger Lifestyle . They put the couple up in the "Swinghouse" where they spend the weekend

interacting with the other couples. Each couple has their own set of rules which they come to agreement with between themselves. Some are soft swap , some are full swap etc...

The last part of the show features the famous "Red Room" where all the fun happens !!! I thought about this thread and your stories as I watched some of the shows.

http://www.playboytv.com/shows/SWING

So----have you and your wife had any fun lately ?? If so I would LOVE to hear all about it !!

[Cacky]

Oh wow. I just read everything from the start. Can't wait to get home tonight. This is my biggest fantasy. Being with another couple, watching my hubby "do" someone else. But for now I just want him to do me. Long story wrong place

[WendyNY]

Oh wow. I just read everything from the start. Can't wait to get home tonight. This is my biggest fantasy. Being with another couple, watching my hubby "do" someone else. But for now I just want him to do me. Long story wrong place

It's such a huge turn on--imagining being with other people --isn't it ??? It's an awesome fantasy.(Unlike BOO who gets to live this out !! LOL)

I'm very interested in hearing about your story. (don't worry about it being long. You could share it on another thread.)

I'm sure we would all be interested in hearing it and maybe some of us can even help.

Ok, Boo--we're still waiting......

Hmmmmmmm that can only mean that you and your wife have been VERY VERY busy......

[booboo130]

My apologies. I have not had much time lately due to work and one daughter being home from college on spring break. My wife and I have not had any chances to play either. My work schedule is terrible lately and I have not had too many weekends off.

This coming weekend we have plans to go to a new swingers club (well...new for us as we have never been there). We invited two couples we are friends with and hopefully it will work out. If so I will have a story or two on Monday.

I don't have HBO so I can't watch that show Swingers. Is it any good? I always think reality TV is not really reality.

I too would like to hear what Flyme's fantasy is. It is always good to have inspiration...

[WendyNY]

That's ok Boo---I understand. You do have a regular life also. (even though I pictured your Swinger life being 24/7 !!! LOL )

I'm sure you two are very excited about your upcoming weekend going to a new and different club. I can't wait to hear all about it. I'm sure you will meet lots of new people.

The show "Swing" is not on HBO--it's on one of the Playboy channels. (we just got Playboy recently) They show a new one every Saturday night. I haven't watched all of them .As far as if it's really and truly a reality show--well it seems to be. The show is broken up into different parts. The first part is where the couple is introduced at home. They describe their relationship and what they are looking for in a Swinger lifestyle. Then there is the "Swinghouse" where there are the same group of couples on every show. These are actual couples who have been in the Lifestyle for quite a long time.They spend the weekend with the new couple. They talk openly with them about the Lifestyle and answer their questions. They play some games to break the ice (teasing kinds of games ) Then there is the "Red Room" where they spend the evening exploring each other after they decide which ones they have connected with the most. I don't think it's staged. I know what you mean about a lot of Reality shows being fake . The show is put together very well--it's not like a "Jersey Shore" dysfunctional reality show. There is even a therapist who meets with the couple together and alone during the show to see where they are in their relationship and exactly what they are looking for in the swinger lifestyle. For some couples this is just a one time fantasy. For other couples- they may decide they want to continue in it.

I did want to ask you something---Obviously when you are in this type of lifestyle it's not something you can share with your family , your children and outside friends. Do you have trouble hiding that from them ? What do you think you would do if your children ever found out ? I know you have some older children in college as well as younger ones right ?

Well, enjoy your weekend--we look forward to hearing all about it in GREAT detail !

[booboo130]

I did want to ask you something---Obviously when you are in this type of lifestyle it's not something you can share with your family , your children and outside friends. Do you have trouble hiding that from them ? What do you think you would do if your children ever found out ? I know you have some older children in college as well as younger ones right ?

I have told absolutely no one about the lifestyle. My profession is not someplace where I would discuss swinging as the vast majority of my friends and co-workers would not accept it. I will say that some of the guys I know at work would have almost no problem cheating on their wife because they are the "man of the house" but would not be able to take it if their wife did the same. If my work place found out about it I would probably be ostracized for a long time and become the butt of everyone's jokes. They might even try to fire me if it came out in some kind of public manner. My wife has told two of her close friends and somehow a third found out. We are pretty sure one of her "close" friends mentioned it to the third. Well the third friend has since mentioned it to a few others. Needless to say she was very upset about it.

I actually believe my sister would not have a problem with it at all. I still have never told her because I don't discuss sex with my sister. My mom would have heart attack and die the moment I told her. My brother would probably never talk to me again. My dad would probably not understand what I was telling him, he has a lot of medical problems and is in the beginning stages of dementia.

My wife and I have never told our children and never will. If for some reason they find out we will have a long talk with them explaining why we started and the reasons why we continue to do it. I don't believe it would be too bad if it were to happen a few years from now. We have two daughters; one in college and one is a junior in high school. If they were to find out now our youngest would have the worst time with it I believe.

Well, enjoy your weekend--we look forward to hearing all about it in GREAT detail !

Yes, we are certainly hoping for a fun weekend. Work has been brutal for the last few weeks for my wife and I and we could use a little relaxation.

BooBoo

[WendyNY]

I have told absolutely no one about the lifestyle. My profession is not someplace where I would discuss swinging as the vast majority of my friends and co-workers would not accept it. I will say that some of the guys I know at work would have almost no problem cheating on their wife because they are the "man of the house" but would not be able to take it if their wife did the same. If my work place found out about it I would probably be ostracized for a long time and become the butt of everyone's jokes. They might even try to fire me if it came out in some kind of public manner. My wife has told two of her close friends and somehow a third found out. We are pretty sure one of her "close" friends mentioned it to the third. Well the third friend has since mentioned it to a few others. Needless to say she was very upset about it.

I can completely understand wanting to keep this part of your life private.I know my family wouldn't handle that well---hell- my mother freaked out when she found out I was selling sex toys awhile back !! LOL.... The work environment is not the place to discuss this either. Although there may be people who would be just a bit envious of this part of your life also--even though they may act shocked if they found out . I think it's very difficult to really trust people with such personal information. Like the friends your wife told in confidence. All it took was just one more person to find out--and then who knows what that one person told others. Some women (and some men too !! ) love to gossip.

There is a woman I used to work with at another company. I had only been there a couple months and my husband and I were attending our company Christmas party. This very drunk woman came up to us with her husband.I had seen her at work but didn't know her at all. She stood really close to me and started whispering in my ear. She told me that she could "lick me better than any man could"..OMG....LOL---I just stood there with my mouth open completely shocked----- She told me that she and her husband were swingers. I never mentioned to anyone I worked with what she told me. It's probably a good thing that it had been ME she told that to-- as I don't gossip. If that had gotten out at the company---well---needless to say she probably would have been ostracized like you mentioned. She also wouldn't have been my first choice for my fantasy threesome or my couples swap fantasy.....not my type.

It definitely sounds like you and your wife need some time together to have some fun and enjoyment. Looking forward to hearing all about it !!

[booboo130]

Well my wife and I had a pretty good weekend. We tried out the new club; the club has been around for years but we have never been there so it was new to us. We drove there with another couple. We were one of the first couples there and got a tour of the place. Needless to say the place is pretty big with lots of different rooms for play, including a bondage room. We then started talking and since we have not seen the couple for a while just chatted. I then suggested we go find some place to play upstairs. The four of us found a room with a large bed that also had a loft that was over our room. There was another couple up there so we had some background music.

The other woman and I started on the bed while my wife pushed the other man up against the wall and started giving him a blow job. I was licking the other womans pussy. She is very vocal which is a turn on and completely cool there. We could hear a lot of people having sex in the place. After licking her pussy for a while she wanted me to fuck her. By this time my wife and the other man were on the bed next to us fucking. We got down to fucking and were pretty sweaty when we got done. I was having a little trouble cuming so my wife started pinching my nipples, which I really like, and I finished.

All of us went back downstairs and had some food and drinks. My wife and I are actually very shy and the new place made us even more reserved so we did not meet anyone new. The couple we came with met another couple and decided to play. My wife and I decided to play alone so we found another secluded spot and had some fun. We then walked around the club and watched several couples having sex. Live porn is fun!

It was a good weekend for us and we got to blow off some steam.

Boo

[WendyNY]

Boo---DAMN that's hot !!! OMG.... So incredibly hot. I'm so jealous.

Do you know that on Saturday night, we ALMOST went to a Swinger's Meet and Greet ? I saw it at the last minute. It was over an hour away. They had taken over the whole bar for the event. My husband really wanted to go . I was getting so turned on and excited at the thought of it. But--we saw it too late. Who knows what would have happened if we had gone ?? :)

We settled for going out to a few bars and then ended up at a nice Strip club. The girls were gorgeous and we had so much fun. I went up to the stage and got to run my hands over the strippers bodies (and nice tits ) in front of all the men while the women felt me up too. That's a huge turn on for me-- knowing everyone is watching and getting turned on. ( I can only imagine how I would feel having sex or playing in front of everyone like you do !! Hmmmmmm....... maybe soon....... we'll see....)

My husband and I came home and had a great evening by ourselves !

Thank you again for the nice update on your weekend !!

[WendyNY]

We all have fantasies. The stuffy librarian with the bun on her head, the old man in the wheelchair, the serious looking man in the business suit--and YOU. You have fantasies. Fantasies that churn around in your head. Things you play out during boring business meetings. Hot steamy fantasies during your children's school concerts. I think about being fucked while I'm working at my desk, entering computer data, talking on the phone....

For some of us, we'll be so lucky to act out these fantasies. For others they will remain in the dark, deep crevices of our minds. I've been having the most incredible fantasies lately. Fantasies that have gotten me so wet, so turned on and have made me cum harder than I've ever cum before.

Last Saturday evening I was looking on that Swinger site that we had signed up on. (just to look--mind you !!) I was killing time before we headed out for the evening. I was scrolling through the pictures, reading the different profiles. All of the sudden a message popped up on my screen. I've never answered these messages before. They have always been from single men. This one was different. This was from a female. She and her husband were on this site. I looked at her profile. Long blond hair, very sexy figure, nice large tits... She was bending over in the picture, bright orange panties going up her ass, the profile of her large breasts, high black heels, her long blond hair flowing down her back...OMG............My heart started beating faster. I responded to her message surprising myself. We were going out to a bar for drinks and I invited her to go along with her husband and meet us there. She gave me her phone number and we talked on the phone setting up a time to meet that evening. I was so excited and so nervous at the same time. My husband looked at her picture and HE was excited as well.

We arrived at the bar before them. We sat on the end near the door so we could see them come in. A few couples entered and I looked at each one carefully-- wondering ---"Is this them ? " I had my second drink--I was getting more nervous now anticipating their arrival. Finally they came in--She was hard to miss---Long blond hair, tight low cut shirt with the most enormous breasts--her cleavage showing at the top. She had on the type of jeans my husband loves---with an ass to match !!! She was wearing high heels. We looked at each other and KNEW right away. I went over and hugged her and introduced myself. Her husband was friendly but even more nervous than my husband !! He started watching the car race on the big screen television. She and I went to the bar and I bought their first round of drinks. We all started talking immediately. There was quite a chemistry and connection between us. The evening FLEW BY. Every now and then she would lean close to me pressing her tits against me. She and her husband mentioned that their children were staying overnight. They had the house to themselves. Was this a sign or an invite ?? I didn't know.

As the evening went on her husband mentioned that he had pierced nipples. Right there in the bar I lifted his shirt up feeling his nipples, running my fingers over them pulling on the silver metal in them. I looked over and his wife was watching me as she smiled at me.

As we talked I asked about their swinger life. How they came to be involved in it--why---etc...She said they were very selective and they enjoyed watching each other with someone else. My mind drifted to my own fantasies. I too have that fantasy of seeing my husband fuck someone else. He has shared the same thing with me as well.

Before I knew it --it was after 1:30 am. Where did the night go ?? We said our goodbyes and made plans to meet this coming weekend to see a band together. On the way home my cell phone rang-- It was her--she asked me if my ears had been ringing. They had been talking about us. They had a great time with us (as we did with them ) She's texted me throughout the week. I'm excited and nervous.

Over the weekend I had the most exciting fantasy as I mentioned. In my fantasy we went back to their house. She and I started kissing, I gently removed her bra revealing her sexy, enormous breasts. I took them in my mouth and buried my face between them as she kissed me all over. We took out a double dildo and started fucking--our legs wrapped around each other. We fucked harder and harder the dildos going deeper in our pussy--we were grinding ourselves on each other. We came at the same time moaning so loud--our pussies throbbing. Our husbands watched and then came up behind us. Her husband took his hard cock out --I stroked it and put it in my mouth sucking slowly and then faster and faster. My husband was rubbing his cock on her ass. We both got in doggy style positions. Her husband slid his cock in my pussy --he started fucking me. I looked up and watched her take my husband's cock in her mouth. He grabbed her head pulling her in closer. Finally he slid it in her wet pussy. I reached over and took her large nipples in my mouth . I sucked on them as my husband fucked her. Finally I felt her husbands cock bury itself so deep inside me. I felt his balls get tighter and all of the sudden he shot his load in me. My husband saw his face and saw that he was cumming inside me. He let go and came inside her. We fell back on the bed together completely spent...............

What will this weekend bring ??? I can only imagine..........

[Kace]

Woohoo! I'm so happy that you're living the dream now! I hope it turns out for you.

[square]

Thank you for the vivid description.

[ladylove]

We all have fantasies......

What will this weekend bring ??? I can only imagine..........

It's Saturday night.... how did it go???? We're all waiting on the edge of our seats.

[Tyger]

Though we are not swingers, I know of 2 couples that were, though they're not now. They had discussed it, tried it, one only once, and they decided they didn't like it. The other couple were swingers for years, and they grew distant with each other, since they had longer conversations with the people they were swinging WITH, and ended up divorcing, but amicably. Both had discussed it at length, and made sure they were both on board for it, with no doubts. Communication is key to this, IMHO.

[Cacky]

Wendy. We are all waiting. You are probably resting after a very long night. Living through you right now. Do hope you and hubby enjoyed your night whatever happened.

[WendyNY]

LOL....... and here I thought no one would even care to read this !!!

Kace and Square --I'm glad you enjoyed it.

Tyger-- YES--I completely agree--Communication is HUGE. I will talk a little more about that another time---not much time this morning .

LL---and Fly---you're really on the edge of your seats ????

Well, I hate to disappoint all of you. We had a great time. It was a very fun Double Date. I'm thinking that they want to get to know us. I was feeling EXTREMELY SEXY that night too.....I was very fun and flirty !!!

They have made it clear that they don't just jump into bed with anyone. We met at a restaurant. We had a blast !! Stayed 2 hours at the table talking and laughing.Her husband is so funny--very outgoing. He has a huge personality. (and he's very good looking--) We went to see the band at the bar (couldn't talk too much after the music started ) She also couldn't drink that night, so that might have had a little bit to do with it. You know --a couple drinks loosens you up.

I had brought some toys and extra things in the car (JUST IN CASE.... ) They mentioned something going on this weekend--so we may get together again. I'm not sure what the proper protocol is as we've never done this before. 3 dates, 4 ?? Maybe nothing will happen---maybe it will. We talked about going to a casino this weekend. There is some "event" there. Hmmmmm. It's almost an hour from us so my husband and I talked about getting a hotel as we'll have quite aways to drive. And that will get me even MORE excited as we will have a private hotel room for some fun !!

I think if anything happens it's probably something we would do occasionally. Like a fun, intimate "foursome" versus being actual swingers.

Then again --maybe it will just remain a fantasy. Time will tell---I'll keep you posted !!! (and you really want to hear details if it were to happen ??? )

I don't know--should I kiss and tell ??

[ladylove]

LL---and Fly---you're really on the edge of your seats ????

Then again --maybe it will just remain a fantasy. Time will tell---I'll keep you posted !!! (and you really want to hear details if it were to happen ??? )

I don't know--should I kiss and tell ??

I'm always up for a sexy story especially if it's true.

Just make sure your both can handle it and as you have said, communicate communicate, communicate. Wend, if there is any question or hesitation from either you or your DH, don't move forward, let it remain the fantacy. However if this is something you both want and it's not a cover-up for something else in your live your life, enjoy.

I definitely think you should "Kiss and Tell"! No one really knows who you are so it's ok.

[Sunday]

Wow Booboo. It takes lot of self confidence and confidence in your relationship to live that lifestyle. Hats off to you!

And you too Wendy for being courageous enough to jump in the pool. I know you will when the opportunity arises. I hope you'll share all the juicy details here.

My best friend and his wife went to one of the Hedonism clubs every year for about 8 years. They kept telling me I needed to go and it was the most liberating thing ever but I've never gone.

My friend seems to attract people with different lifestyles and I've met some interesting people when with him. When at a conference in Vegas he introduced me to a nice guy in his 40s who was owner of a college sports magazine. We talked and had some drinks and right out of the blue he said, "You want to see a picture of my wife sucking *****'s dick? (***** was a big deal college player who was drafted in the first round that year and is still in the NFL). It turns out one of his hobbys is watching his wife have sex with college athletes. He has a whole album full of photos of her fucking assorted men whose names would be familiar and he was eager to show them off. As I got to know him I learned that his full time job was a judge (!!) and he lived in a communal house with two other couples who had sex with whomever they happened to feel like fucking at the time. That whole thing has since collapsed and he's divorced. I don't know how long it lasted.

My friend told me his old secretary loved to suck cocks, and I was sort of like, "Oh, OK, sure." We were out once a few months later and she was along and he pointed to some guy at another table and said to me, "You want to see **** suck that guy's cock?" Of course I said sure. He leaned over to ****** and said, "That guy has been looking at your tits all night. Go suck his cock and make him happy." She went over and started talking to the guy for like 20 minutes and then they both got up and went to the parking lot. She did it again later. She didn't have a boyfriend or anything, she just liked sucking stranger's cocks.

I have other strange stories about him, but that's for another thread. Sorry about the hijack.

[booboo130]

Wendy,

My apologies for not responding. I did not get an e-mail that anyone had posted in the thread and just happened to check it this morning. Your fantasy sounds very hot! Hopefully it will come true for you guys. And yes make sure you talk to your husband about everything. Good luck! My wife and I usually ask a couple if we have seen them a few times and nothing has happened if they just want to go out but no playing or are they just nervous, etc. We love having new friends, whether we play together or not, but just like to know what the other couple is looking for.

Sunday,

My wife and I have talked about Hedonism several times but just don't have the money to go. Maybe when my kids are finally out of the house we can go.

Boo

[booboo130]

I have been away from here for a while due to life and work. Since my last post we have met a new couple that we like very much. We have been with them three times now and it is always an enjoyable experience.

The first time was at a local swingers club. They have a bondage and s&m room that you can reserve for an hour. We were the first couple to do so since we got to the club at about 8PM. My opinion about going to the club is play early and often if it all works out for everyone. Some of the couples at the club are there to drink and party but we want to play. So we met the couple and talked for a few minutes. My wife was wearing a nice sun dress and I was wearing what my wife calls my "nice package" jeans. The other woman was wearing a nice sun dress too. So we all go into the s&m room and start making out and striping. We tried out a couple of the different bondage toys but didn't really use any of them for any length of time. So we all got down on the bed. I ate the other woman to orgasm twice; giving oral is a very very hot sexual act in my opinion. When I can make a woman cum with my mouth and then as I continue she starts to laugh because she is so sensitive I know I am doing a good job. My wife is enjoying what the other man is doing to her also. The four of us then have sex for the rest of the hour that we have the room. Everyone got off at least once. We then went out into the club area and relaxed, listened to music, had a drink or two, and talked. An hour or so later we decide to go to the upstairs area and find a different location. This clubs has all kinds of hidden areas for you to play in. We find a semi-secluded room and start playing again. Throughout this people would wander in and look at us while we were playing. It was very hot although when someone would stick their face in a little too close we would ask them to back off... Other than that it was a great time and we have really enjoyed meeting this new couple. We have been with them twice since then and had good times all around. Those are stories for another day however...

Boo

[WendyNY]

It's nice to see you back on here Boo !!! (very hot story too, by the way---as usual !! LOL)

I have not been on here much myself. Summer is flying by and we've been quite busy. I do have my own fantasy come to life story to share as well !!

I had gone back and forth in deciding if it was something I wanted to share with all of you. I'm still debating on posting the whole thing. I will tell you just a little bit about it before I decide. This is something that first happened back in MAY !!! It's happened a couple more times since then.

There is a couple we met. A husband and wife. We hit it off immediately and made plans to get together again. The wife is so sweet and very easy to talk to. We had an instant connection with both of them. The catch is this though-----the husband only likes to WATCH his wife with another woman. There is no male interaction AT ALL. Are you all on the edge of your seats ??? I finally had my first Female / Female experience. It was incredible and quite surreal. I was very unsure of whether to share all the intimate details with you. I may at some point. (It was VERY HOT !!)

We have since gotten together a couple more times for some intimate encounters. She and I have developed a nice friendship also. We have gone shopping , out to dinner etc. Its much more than a one nighter. We do regular things together as couples with them and we have an awesome time together. They do not live very close to us so we can't get together all the time.

The other full swap couple I mentioned several posts above, we have seen almost every other weekend. We do things with our kids, go out to dinner. We have a great friendship and we are on the edge of more with them. If the couple swapping happens with them it will mean much more to us as we've gotten to know each other so well. I have stopped focusing on whether it will or won't happen and just enjoyed our friendship.I do not think my husband and I would ever be true Swingers. We simply aren't cut out for that I don't think. We are enjoying the build up and anticipation of what may come. There was an event we were supposed to go to last weekend with this couple and our plans were cancelled. This coming weekend the full swap couple and ourselves are making plans to go to another event. We have talked a little bit about this being the "big weekend" that something between us may occur. I am looking forward to it and if it happens I just may share it with you !

[blewits]

WendyNY - I am so grateful to you for posting your stories as you go through this journey. I have been lurking on this thread for a while now because I too am trying to determine (as you were) whether or not I want to do this, or is it better left a fantasy.

I'm very torn, but from a voyeuristic point of view, maybe I don't want to swing as much as I want to watch or be watched (still trying to figure that out). My husband and I are looking into a resort in Cancun called "Desire Riviera Cancun" which allows for both. It's a nude resort (if you want to be) and has 2 special "play areas" within the resort where you can mingle with other couples. You can choose to be out in the open with just your partner or with other people if you choose. Everyone is very respectful of whichever avenue you take and there is no pressure to swing if you don't want to.

I'm fearful of it because I have seen it ruin a friends marriage and that has been my only personal encounter with it. I know that there are so many couples who do fine with it and love it, and I think that is wonderful.

Anyway, I just wanted to thank you for sharing your experiences. I know it takes courage.

Of course you can tell us here! I mean, who else can you talk to so openly about it????

[blewits]

p.s. I think that if I ever did do it though - it would have to be with strangers.

[WendyNY]

HW--I'm so glad what I've shared has helped you. Communication together is very important. While my husband is super intriugued by it he is even more nervous than I am. We were talking this week about insecurities.. He seems to be very insecure and thinks that there may not be anyone in this lifestyle who would find him sexually attractive. We talked about how being together for so long has made us feel with each other. You get comfortable with the one you are with. You don't worry about how you look or what your partner is thinking about your physical appearance when you are intimate together . (well, most don't ) BUT when you know you may be physical with someone else---someone new---you start to worry. He is EXTREMELY worried that another woman might not find him attractive. OMG.....He's quite attractive and I tried to tell him that. I tried to explain to him and tell him what women are really thinking. Most women-- as I mentioned in another thread--are not that shallow. I'm not as interested in a man's physical appearance as I am in the connection I feel with him. I love a man who is confident and has a great sense of humor. I think to really be a true swinger you have to have an amazing sense of security in yourself and a huge amount of confidence. Of course it does make you feel good to know that someone else wants you in that way. It's a huge ego booster. We will NEVER be true 24 / 7 Swingers though.

Yes, I know a lot of marriages have been hurt by this. I guess it all depends on your relationship. I've had affairs. This is a little different. My husband and I have been through a lot together. In the last two years we have grown closer and have talked more than at any other time in our marriage. The affairs and the past are all water under the bridge. We are going forward and starting to explore new things in our marriage. I can't say what tomorrow or next year will bring. I don't worry about it or focus on repercussions that may occur from this.No, I'm quite sure this is not something that all couples could or should do. Not all couples are full swap swingers either. My female friend is only intimate with women. I guess each person does what they feel comfortable with. For some it's just being voyeuristic. My friend's husband is turned on simply by watching his wife with another woman and by watching other couples together when they do go to events. That in itself would be a huge turn on !! I think if and when we finally do go to an event we would probably just observe the first time.

The event you mentioned above sounds quite exciting ! They do have those "Meet and Greets" at various times too. The other full swap couple we have become friends with have gone to a few of these. Now, the husband is the one who is nervous about all of this (and he's extremely attractive !) I had to laugh when they were describing the evening they went to one. He stayed in the car for a long time watching each couple go in and observing who was there. He's more nervous that he will know someone at one of these. (That would be funny--seeing your boss, your neighbors, your local PRIEST !!! LOL...) The event you mentioned does sound quite exciting. I guess we are easing into this having met the 2 couples we have met so far. By the way---our event plans have been cancelled, but we still plan on doing something fun. I am hoping for no kids at our house so we may come back here. I know that I am the one who needs to initiate this with the couple. I have spoken to her about it a little bit. She told me they are TERRIBLE at the intiating part but her husband is definitely interested in swapping. So, I plan on being the initiator. I will start by having she and I play in front of the men. Hopefully that will make the men more comfortable. (I'm gettting pretty good at being with a woman too !! LOL..)

I will describe below my first time with my other female friend.

[WendyNY]

My first Female / Female experience---(In FULL detail.....)

We met a new couple back in May. They both ride motorcycles like we do also. We met at an outdoor restaurant by the water. There was an instant connection with them. I felt like we had known them for years. The husband was extremely funny like the other full swap couple one. She was very sweet. We made plans to get together again. We drove out there--they live a little over an hour away. We met at their house and then went out to a bar/restaraunt for dinner and drinks. She looked very attractive. Very classy looking. She wore all white. She's very tan and had long brown hair pulled back. She kept refilling my drink ! We flirted a little bit also. She is very comfortable and easy to be with.

We got back to their house and had another drink. She took me into the living room and we sat on the couch. The husbands were just around the corner in the kitchen. She whispered that she wanted to kiss me. We made out slowly--it was very nice. She put her hands on my breasts and removed my shirt and unhooked my bra. She took my breasts in her hands kissing and sucking on my nipples. My nipples were so hard. I was getting so wet. I took off her shirt and she then unbuckled my jeans. She slid them down and removed my panties. She took off her pants and she was wearing a white thong with a matching bra. I unhooked her bra and took her breasts in my hands. She has small firm breasts. She had tan lines so her breasts were creamy white. I took her nipples in my mouth sucking on them. The husbands peeked in for a minute. We looked up at them and giggled---- they went back in the kitchen. My husband told me later that he had to walk away because he almost came in his pants !!

She laid me down on the carpet and spread my legs apart. She put her face between my legs and started licking my pussy. It felt so good..... She took her fingers and started putting them inside me slowly. This went on for a little bit. I sat up and pushed her back. I told her I wanted to make her cum. (I had not cum yet....it takes me awhile in spite of the fact that I was excited ) I kissed her all over and then put my face in her pussy. She had such a tiny pussy. Her lips were tucked all insider her. She was completely shaved (I have a landing strip which she liked ) I was worried I wouldn't know what to do--I figured it out quickly !!! I started licking her pussy slowly then faster and harder. She was moaning and squirming... I put my fingers inside her and fucked her pussy. I took her whole pussy in my mouth pulling and sucking on her clit. She got louder and raised her ass up and came so hard in my mouth.

She laid me back down and started licking me again and fucking me with her fingers. I rubbed my clit at the same time. I came so hard... I did her again and again. I made her cum three times !! During this time the husbands kept peeking in and out. Her husband said he wanted to see each of us sit on the others face. I sat on her face while she licked me and she sat on my face while I licked and fingered her.The husbands were standing near us watching this. It was exciting knowing that they were getting excited by the show we were putting on for them.

Afterwards we both walked around naked in front of the men. My husband wanted her to try on my jeans--which she did putting her naked pussy and ass in them. I knew he was getting turned on. (I've mentioned the jeans fetish he has in other threads on TT) I would've been completely ok with seeing him fuck her or even seeing her give him a blow job.

We have gotten together two more times since then for sexual encounters. The second time the men watched us the WHOLE time. We laid on the carpet in front of them . They were GLUED to us !!! I kind of tuned them out after a bit and I was not nervous at all. It took me longer to cum but I was able to. The thought that they were watching me cum was extremely exciting. They loved watching each of us sit on the other's face also.

My friend has met another couple where the woman is interested in being with another woman. She wanted me to meet her. I have spoken to her on the phone and have seen her pictures. (She looks like a model-----OMG.....) We are making plans to have a "Threesome" with just us women while the men watch. I am excited about it and I will share my story when it happens.