Is This Anal Sex?

[Sunday]

Something that we've done recently had us laughing. I put my finger in her ass while fucking her and we both enjoyed it. I like feeling my cock moving inside her. She hasn't said what she likes about it, other than her body language. In the best spirit of "if some is good, more is better" philosophy the other night I had two fingers in her ass, moving them in and out against my cock while I fucked her. She said, "Hey, are you fucking me or masterbating? Focus here!' Ha! We had a good laugh out of that one. I love it that we laugh during sex. I've never had that with anyone else.

[bbarney]

Its definitely not what you would normally think of when hearing the term but IMO its still anal sex. It is incredibly sexy to have a finger in there while going at it =).

[Kinky Twinkie]

Nina Hartly said it was, it just smaller then a penis and make sure you does you too so you'll know and feel what she knows and feels. It goes a long way in you going much further.

Glenn

[elise]

Of course fingering is a variety of anal sex! You have to start somewhere. A girl can't go from complete anal virgin to a full-hard cock without some acclimation.

Every woman I've talked to who enjoys anal sex started with a finger... either her own in a solo session, or a lover's finger that natural course of lovemaking. My first anal sex experience was when my lover was licking my pussy (very expertly, I must say), and his fingertips were tickling me deliciously all around my vagina and perineum. One finger strayed a bit farther south and the pleasure I felt as he touched my anus was wonderful. He apparently realized how much it turned me on, and he then slowly pushed his finger up my ass. I came instantly... a very very very hot and intense orgasm!

[eye4eye69]

That sounds like a blast!

[RC4BLUE]

From my perspective anything that brings pleasure or sexual feelings can be considered sex, anal or otherwise. Just enjoy the experience and pleasure.

[Tyger]

Many people feel like they have the urge to pee when they're stimulating the g-spot. That's normal, so don't freak out.

Relaxing is really hard if your body is expecting pain. Breathing slowly may help. Also, have a couple of orgasms before trying anal sex. Have him give you a massage. These may help you relax a bit more. Just keep trying. Your body needs to learn that this will be ok. It may feel a bit weird the first few times, which is, again, normal, but you can train your body to relax over time.

Good luck!!! Let us know how it goes.

[RC4BLUE]

I suggest being as relaxed and aroused as possible. Allow yourself to enjoy erotic touch. Take it slow. Be sure to communicate with your partner. Use a good lube and be generous with it. Try going for it only after you have played for a while and you feel warm, erotic, cared for and have much desire. Then take it slow. Remember you are the one in charge.

[Tyger]

Not everyone does anal sex as a regular part of their sexual adventures. It can be done whenever you're in the mood for it. Or, your man just be waiting for that oh, so sexy "put your finger in my ass" from you again. If he knows that you're not as comfortable with it, he may be just waiting for your cue.

Good luck!!!! Let us know how it goes!!

[Tyger]

Lube is your friend when it comes to anal sex! Glad you had an explosive experience!!!

[MDeb]

No need to blush WenWitch. You really are among friends here. Nobody to judge. And hopefully the good advice and supportive comments will help you and your guy enjoy more pleasure from this "avenue". And by talking about it here, you may help somebody else get more pleasure. It's all a good thing. D and I enjoy anal play a lot even though it's not something we do on a daily basis. And anal play doesn't always have to mean anal intercourse. Sometimes it's as simple as using one of her bullets held against the anus or perineum. As Tyger and RC said, take your time, lots of lube, and lots of communication. D even has me enjoying being anally stimulated. That took a while. It was tough to relax at first, just like you. I love it now!

[MDeb]

Again, no need to worry WenWitch. You write beautifully, and your descriptions of your discoveries with your boyfriend are hardly something that could be turned into a cheap porn-like event. It most certainly might arouse people, but that's not a bad thing. Hopefully it will inspire them to try new and different things.

Like anything else involving sex and sexual relationships, you go with what you're comfortable with. Push the envelope sometimes, but only when you're comfortable doing so. Tell us what you feel comfortable telling us and we'll support you and not judge you.

M

[Tyger]

And if someone does try to contact you thru here and attempts to make it feel cheap, or asking overly personal questions, please report them to Rob, who is one of the site owners, or click on Contact An Administrator. If you belong to Facebook, the quickest way, is thru there. I think he's TooTimid Rob on there.

I too, have had to do this, one a couple of occassions. It does happen, people go over the line, and, if you tell them to stop doing so, or you're not comfortable with the way they're speaking to you, ask them to stop, then report. If it continues, report again, and reach out to one of us, and we'll be sure to do something about it. Be specific. If it's in a post in the forum, be sure to report the post, and reference it so we can investigate.

Of course we love to hear about individual's experiences. But, only with what you feel comfortable sharing that is.This forum is suppose to be a safe-haven for our readers, and hopefully, it continues to be so.

[l8niter]

having anal sex with my GF is a wonderful experience for her, anyone that is wanting to experiment with it they need to know to be gentle and go slow and yes like tiger said lube is a wonderful thing in anal sex

[l8niter]

yes wenwitch its a incrediable experience for me I enjoy it very much but I focus on making sure my GF isn't being hurt in any way

[12GAUGE]

One of my biggest concern is someone taking my experiences from what is suppose to be a beautiful and romantic discovery together with my boyfriend and turn it into a cheap porn like event. That's why I hesitate to share and that's why I get nervous.

Hay WW sometimes I get fairly descriptive when discussing an aspect of anal sex I've had. This forum for me is like a sexual Dear Abby and while reading the threads here often I'll get horny or hornier than I was when I arrived.

It wasn't all Mai Tai's and Yahtzee when I got here in 2005. I'm pretty sure TT was my first sexuality forum I joined. Sometimes over at XHamster I comment on films I watch there. but TBT XHam is going stodgy. You know 100 and 150+years ago the process of giving a family member an enema was widely practiced across the US of A. And through that many years later we ended up with thousands of folks who were anally erotic. There's another website that features erotic anal stories that if it's cool with Tyger I could lay on you guys. They cover the medical fetishes and bdsm quite well over there.

[l8niter]

here's an update, As you all know now wen and I are a couple., Wen is getting better with the anal sex we incorporate it in more and more as part of our love making and shes learning to relax more and I feel shes enjoying it lots more as time goes on but I still don't press her to go anal she lets me know and when she wants it up the ass she tells me and its a huge turn on for me to hear her talk like that to me :D :D :D :D

[luv2eatthepeach2]

My SO doesn't like anal, but she sure does like it when I lick, and nibble on her ass. When we 69, I occasionally am able to finger her ass while eating her out. That drives her completely crazy.

[12GAUGE]

Of course fingering is a variety of anal sex! You have to start somewhere. A girl can't go from complete anal virgin to a full-hard cock without some acclimation.

Every woman I've talked to who enjoys anal sex started with a finger... either her own in a solo session, or a lover's finger that natural course of lovemaking. My first anal sex experience was when my lover was licking my pussy (very expertly, I must say), and his fingertips were tickling me deliciously all around my vagina and perineum. One finger strayed a bit farther south and the pleasure I felt as he touched my anus was wonderful. He apparently realized how much it turned me on, and he then slowly pushed his finger up my ass. I came instantly... a very very very hot and intense orgasm!

Just 4 days ago I met a nice woman and we spent a lovely time together getting to know each other sexually from the get go. When I arrived I gave her a huge hug and pretty well jammed my tongue down her throat while she did likewise.

From there we went inside and necked on the sofa for about an hour and then I suggested we move to the bedroom as her bed was much better for lovemaking and truly it was.

Unlike when I was younger and barely knew which end was up I surely knew by now. I am a bit of an anal slut here at TT tho my anal experience is mostly solo. Well thanks to Daddys little girl I found I am not the ONLY one who enjoys

anal pleasures and told her I mean to intro her to it as well. After making her cum with my tongue several times I found her sweet puckered nether hole and proceeded to tickle her. She suggested a glove so I gloved up with a huge glob of lube on my reamin' finger and in less than 5 minutes was in to the 1st knuckle! Another 5 minutes to knuckle #2 and as soon as I slid in she came via her ASS!!! Fuck me and a half she proved to be a limber girl and gasping THANK YOU DADDY THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!!!! As my finger sliced into her hot little hole I made the 3rd knuckle and began jamming that digit in and out with furious abandon and she orgasmed yet again!! Feeling proud as a peacock I said to her why is your mouth NOT sucking my cock and with that question she spun around and engulfed my member into her hot and eager mouth.

She loves my cock and rubs me when just relaxing on the sofa. She gave me a website that rocks for new and exciting sex I had NEVER SEEN BEFORE!!! Get this: Nekid as a J bird wearing ONLY wrist and ankle cuffs and a smile a 20 sumpin Hottie with braided long blonde hair goes toe to toe with a man who easily out weighs her by 100 pounds. He pins her several times and Frenches her slaps some tit and makes her squeal with delight and fingerfucks her and she LOVES THAT!!!

I'ma goin' back for more rasslin!! Earlier I watched team rasslin'!! Five Hotties per team and all these girls are lesbian

and ALL are hot as the dickens!!

[12GAUGE]

Its definitely not what you would normally think of when hearing the term but IMO its still anal sex. It is incredibly sexy to have a finger in there while going at it =).

Yes a finger all the way inside ones nether hole can be quite delightful provided you can tolerate the pleasure without passing out. Just 3 days ago I had my social finger all the way inside an anal virgin. Until we met she'd NEVER had her tasty quim tongued out. Made her cum twice and she went apeshit crazy. Gave her 2 assgasms fingering her sweet hole and hope to see her again.

I took ALL of my apparatus plus my Red Bag hoping to give her then receive enemas. Then she would have been on board for some anal fucking. I wanted to do her with MisterBig but we never got that far along. It had been 4 years since she'd had any so it was easy to make her cum in like 3 to 5 minutes. Boy howdy I had fun with that when I fingered her Rosebud and she thrashed the bed in a full lower body O and I upped the ante and jammed my digit up into that discumbobulating fuckhole till she was begging me to stop!! We went out for a nice supper afterwards cuz she told me she was all fucked out. Oki Doki!!

Slept nekid between gorgeous traditional black and white ZEBRA sheets. For 20 years I've had a Hankie Fetish. The udder day I was in Sedro and bought a brand spanking new Zebra handkerchief. Weird.

To add more wonderment to the mix she LOVES GETTING A SPANKING BARE HANDED AND WITH THE PADDLE. I have a Heavy Duty black leather paddle I found in 2007 while attending a BDSM workshop out in some woods on someones farm. There was an arena where folks could engage with their partners for all to see. There was a Violet Wand demonstration.

A man laid naked while this goddess demonstrated her Violet Wand and zapped him anywhere she chose. He stood the pain well though I thought. I like the ideer of e stim toys but I'd much prefer a fucking machine. I'd plug her into the FM and she'd suck my cock. She is quite adept in this area. She brought out all of her toys to show me. Quite the array. Some small 4 and 5 inch vibes one extremely thin buttplug and a glass dildo. She had a nice I think it is called SensiFirm. Feels quite a bit like a real cock. I used it on her and she likes my delivery. Between the 2 of us we had 11 years of dry road in. I'll be lookin' at curbing that and turning life upside down. She asked me what I thought of a FWB deal. You bet. She's a TOTAL sub and from right out the chute ***she needs to be called little girl.*** So she addresses me as Daddy. It's pretty cool. I'm really digging this latest interlude. I think she has more SM experience than I do but that's cool with me. I'm going to want her to peg me so I mean to make her Anal Erotic and she'll be loving it.

Well suppers ready. Woo Hoo Tyin' on a feedbag!!!

[meme987]

When I take a walk there is a park with these 2" bolts coming out of concrete. I lube one up and lower my asshole on it until my cheeks rest on the concrete going up and down on the threads feels good to my asshole .

[lislis]

On 10/15/2013 at 9:14 AM, elise said:

Of course fingering is a variety of anal sex! You have to start somewhere. A girl can't go from complete anal virgin to a full-hard cock without some acclimation.

Some can.....I never had a choice

[Robert is12]

I haven't had much luck on putting my cock in a ass.. twice..and she was very drunk when she let it happen.. ..she always said it was to big for her..