When Is Penis Size A Deal Breaker?

[orions belt]

Given there is chemistry, attraction, intellectual and emotional compatibility, would the size of my penis fall short in terms of a lasting relationship? I am 4 inches in length and 4 1/2 inches in girth. i am curious to know women's honest thoughts on the matter

[12GAUGE]

Well I'm not a woman but I'm in the 'short category' as you might seem to be. Some of the best times I've ever had in my life with a lover involved other things other that just intercourse. I've read that kissing can turn a woman's pussy into a swamp till she's begging for it. If you're an accomplished eater of pussy you can make her so wound up

she'll be begging for you to fuck her. At times like this some women will start cumming just as you enter her so go s l o w l y and torture her with your Don Juan moves.

I once had a lover who was giving me the BJ of the century. Yet for some unknown reason I could not cum. So she tried something else. Something wonderful. She began to RIM me. Dude if you ain't ever been rimmed by a Master Rimmer you gotta try it at least once!!! I CAME FOR 20 minutes straight!!! Better than the best BJ EVER!!!

I was a total wreck after my lover pulled that magical wet tongue out of me. Bathed in sweat I felt as tho I was electric as my entire body was humming. I was absolutely worthless afterwords.

Learn to rim a woman well and eat her pussy well and your size won't matter.

[bbarney]

Believe it or not, the average length is only 5.6 which isnt that much longer than yourself and even then you will find that once you know how to please her while fucking her, the length isn't as important. I dont know the statistics off the top of my head, but very very few women can orgasm from penetration alone. It is primarily about the clit and foreplay. I myself am around 7 1/2 inches when fully erect and sometimes it is more of an encumbrance more than it is a benefit. I can't put her legs up because it hurts her (it goes too deep), anal sex is very difficult to accomplish without hurting her, try as she might it is very difficult for her to take me fully in her mouth, etc.

I think the best thing would be to learn position that allow you to go deeper (if she wants that) such as legs up on your shoulders. Also, focus a lot on moving your pelvis against hers. It used to be impossible (for approx the first year or more of our relationship) for me to successfully get her to orgasm during sex without playing with her during or after. Once I figured out how to move just right (and to play with her plenty ahead of time, whether or not she wants to jump right into it) she can successfully orgasm roughly 90 percent of the time.

So ultimately, I dont think that the length is going to make much of a difference if you know how to use it right.