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Other than the few couples that are on here, does your spouse/significant other know you're a member on here and what "here" is?

To answer my own question, yes, my SO does.

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Yes she does and as most of you know shes on here also my sweet sexy WenWitch

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I think it's great when couples are on here and are active on here together. I think it opens up more sexual fun communications. ;)

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My husband knows im a member on here, when i spoke to him about testing out sex toys it made him pretty hot- let just say we have both realllllly enjoyed my becoming a member. As weird as it may sound my mother in law also knows im a member! We are extremely close, and I figured her knowing might spark some conversations I feel she desperately needs to have! lol hopefully her curiosity continues to grow-my in laws have been married 47 years.. they need spark big time! 

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I am relatively new. I told my wife about it while we were having sex. I then told her I chatted w another member and let her read. It was vwry racy, including talk of masturbation and what we would do to each other. I told the member my wife had a fantasy of a FMF, with the other woman sucking me, but no fucking. My wife thinks I went too far. She knows I would not cheat on her, and I thought it was just sexual arousal to basically a fantasy person. Thoughts?

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Well,  sharing fantasies with your spouse is one thing.  However,  if the roles were reversed,  wouldn't you be upset with her for basically sexting someone else behind your back? 

There's a line to which she's told you that you crossed.  Do I. Personally think you went too far?  Yes.  I do. But what I think doesn't matter,  just what your spouse thinks. 

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1 hour ago, Mike miller said:

Nope not at all.

Why not?  If she reads how you feel, it may bring about some important conversations. 

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Got in another "discussion" tonight about our issues. Almost logged in here to show my husband some of my posts. And email conversations. He keeps saying the same thing. And nothing changes. I am so tired of being sexually frustrated and in a marriage in which I feel like I have a roommate not a spouse. Why, why can't my husband see me as sexy? 

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17 hours ago, Crazy Cat said:

Got in another "discussion" tonight about our issues. Almost logged in here to show my husband some of my posts. And email conversations. He keeps saying the same thing. And nothing changes. I am so tired of being sexually frustrated and in a marriage in which I feel like I have a roommate not a spouse. Why, why can't my husband see me as sexy? 

I'm assuming he's around your age, has he been to the Dr? Could be low T or diabetes or even heart problems, even if he's embarrassed he should just for his health and maybe he'll end up getting back to his old self. And believe me his Dr. won't bat an eye to prescribe him Viagra if he's healthy. I've been in your boat and it's not fun.

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3 hours ago, michelleddd said:

I'm assuming he's around your age, has he been to the Dr? Could be low T or diabetes or even heart problems, even if he's embarrassed he should just for his health and maybe he'll end up getting back to his old self. And believe me his Dr. won't bat an eye to prescribe him Viagra if he's healthy. I've been in your boat and it's not fun.

Thanks Michelle, well he is 12 years older. And has  diabetes, and heart issues, and low T. I am just behind the 8 ball here.  Well now just shared my membership of TT with him. Read posts of how many men and women are in the same boat as us. It has been a VERY depressing day. And so not sure what salvageable state my marriage is in. He is ready for retirement and we have lived separately for so long now. we have nothing invested together in each other. Not sure what is going to happen. But glad he knows of the TT site. It was a very open and bare all kind of discussion. The good the  bad and most definitely the ugly. Think I am moving into the RV tonight. 😿.

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Sorry to hear it yet it needed to happen didn't it. Now he knows the scope of your unhappiness and it's up to him if he's going to step up and make some changes. This should be the best part of your lives! Good luck and keep us posted.

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My husband does not know, but I don't share or say anything that would make him uncomfortable, so I don't feel I'm sneaking around or anything. And he reeps the educational benefits 😁 I'm not very experienced in the bedroom so it helps to hear from more experienced users. My husband is only my second sexual partner. 

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YES he does but he I in Law enforcement upper so he stays off and out of site, will not allow pic's or anything of him but we have a very open marriage as long as he is there, and no I DO NOT GO BEHINDHIS BACK. Why should I he lets me do everything I want and he gets me into a few things I never would have. I LOVE love him

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On 9/2/2017 at 1:46 PM, Last2Long said:

Is that why so many pix have been deleted? At least I'm pretty sure yours were some that are now gone. Sorry if I'm wrong. 

But I am intrigued why so many ladies have deleted their pix. In ready thru the various posts, where people are commenting on pix, it really sucks not being able to see the pix they're all talking about. Is it because a SO found out about the pix on display?

BTW -- to all the women that do have pix posted (here & under other topics), thank you! I love em!

 

I too hate seeing pics deleted. 

Some, if the posts are kinda old, is because the site was on a different host at one time, and, for some reason, the pictures didn't transfer over when they did the conversion. Like mine. I've never deleted any, but some are now gone.

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On 3/9/2016 at 2:34 PM, l8niter said:

Yes she does and as most of you know shes on here also my sweet sexy WenWitch

I miss you guys!!!

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No, I wish my wife was open enough to share these things. I would love to spend time on here with her. But as it stands, this is my out. She thinks if you put some picture out there or participate in this activity, it ONLY means your trolling or advertising to see what you can hook up with. I told her it’s just fun to see what others think or share your opinion, or if your privates are attractive to others or just some wonderful nasty talk. We had to agree to dis-agree.

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