Tyger Posted July 27, 2017 Report Share Posted July 27, 2017 http://metro.co.uk/2016/08/26/the-oral-sex-gender-gap-is-real-and-its-not-okay-6092821/ Read and what do you think? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members tootimidcorin Posted July 28, 2017 Members Report Share Posted July 28, 2017 omfg sigh...... If your SO won't reciprocate, I challenge all the ladies to fire back with those same excuses cited in this article- when your guy is signaling he wants you to go down, give him a "it hurts my neck" and see how well he likes it! Oral is an amazing and intimate part of the sexual relationship, and it has to go both ways. He "doesn't know how"? I say, PRACTICE MAKES PERFECT!! Thanks for posting Tyger! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Crazy Cat Posted July 28, 2017 Report Share Posted July 28, 2017 Very interesting an accurate article thanks for posting Tyger. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Kama Posted August 14, 2017 Members Report Share Posted August 14, 2017 I am going to share an unpopular opinion, and I am probably in the minority. While i empathize with both men and women expecting reciprocal oral, it's not a requirement for me. I love giving and don't always need something back. But, I get how many others would feel frustrated! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members tootimidcorin Posted August 18, 2017 Members Report Share Posted August 18, 2017 On 8/14/2017 at 9:52 AM, Kama said: I am going to share an unpopular opinion, and I am probably in the minority. While i empathize with both men and women expecting reciprocal oral, it's not a requirement for me. I love giving and don't always need something back. But, I get how many others would feel frustrated! ^ Nothing at all wrong with that! With me and my hubby, we (luckily) both love to give AND receive. Sometimes only one of us performs oral, and sometimes we both give, it just depends on what you are in the mood for. I think it would be a problem if one partner expects the other person to do ANYTHING that he or she would not be willing to do as well. It should come from wanting to, not because you feel you have to. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Kama Posted August 18, 2017 Members Report Share Posted August 18, 2017 2 hours ago, tootimidcorin said: ^ Nothing at all wrong with that! With me and my hubby, we (luckily) both love to give AND receive. Sometimes only one of us performs oral, and sometimes we both give, it just depends on what you are in the mood for. I think it would be a problem if one partner expects the other person to do ANYTHING that he or she would not be willing to do as well. It should come from wanting to, not because you feel you have to. Very true! Sounds like you two have a fun time. I think I like the feeling of a finger or a vibrator on my clit, over a tongue. I have had good cunnilingus sessions, but I don't always need it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Kama Posted August 18, 2017 Members Report Share Posted August 18, 2017 2 hours ago, tootimidcorin said: ^ Nothing at all wrong with that! With me and my hubby, we (luckily) both love to give AND receive. Sometimes only one of us performs oral, and sometimes we both give, it just depends on what you are in the mood for. I think it would be a problem if one partner expects the other person to do ANYTHING that he or she would not be willing to do as well. It should come from wanting to, not because you feel you have to. Very true! Sounds like you two have a fun time. I think I like the feeling of a finger or a vibrator on my clit, over a tongue. I have had good cunnilingus sessions, but I don't always need it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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