Members Cinnamon 2112 Posted September 28, 2017 Members Report Share Posted September 28, 2017 Hi all I'm new to this, I'm interested in kink but I don't know how to ask my husband to participate. We have a good sex life but we're both pretty vanilla I'm afraid he'll think it weird. How did you bring it up to your spouse? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members H. Housewife Posted September 28, 2017 Members Report Share Posted September 28, 2017 Hello 😊 I hope you get better luck than I did when I asked my husband about kinky things. I'll try again once we get our own place. Make any suggestions to your husband and don't be afraid who knows I bet he'll love to. Please keep us all posted,thanks😁 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted September 29, 2017 Report Share Posted September 29, 2017 Hi cinnamon,I would love for my wife to be into kink but she isn't.I would just ask him .if he has ever thought of .......whatever your wanting to try,and by a general question like that it should give you some idea.or if he would like to try something different just to mix it up.I hope this helps .good luck! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members tootimidcorin Posted September 29, 2017 Members Report Share Posted September 29, 2017 What I like to do is my hubby and I both write down ideas of things we want to try, then pull them out of a bag. Obviously, you both still know who wrote it, but it is less pressure or fear of rejection than trying to bring it up in conversation. It is also SUPER hot if he picks one that he is down with, and just smiles and starts doing it without saying a word... You can also just start really simply with a scarf blindfold, feather tickler, etc. to see how he responds and if he can get into it from there. Have fun with it and see where it goes! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members H. Housewife Posted September 29, 2017 Members Report Share Posted September 29, 2017 3 hours ago, tootimidcorin said: What I like to do is my hubby and I both write down ideas of things we want to try, then pull them out of a bag. Obviously, you both still know who wrote it, but it is less pressure or fear of rejection than trying to bring it up in conversation. It is also SUPER hot if he picks one that he is down with, and just smiles and starts doing it without saying a word... You can also just start really simply with a scarf blindfold, feather tickler, etc. to see how he responds and if he can get into it from there. Have fun with it and see where it goes! Great idea😁 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Cinnamon 2112 Posted September 30, 2017 Author Members Report Share Posted September 30, 2017 Thanks All! I brought it up to him last night and he was totally into it! It was super hot! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted September 30, 2017 Report Share Posted September 30, 2017 36 minutes ago, Cinnamon 2112 said: Thanks All! I brought it up to him last night and he was totally into it! It was super hot! That's awesome Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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