Oral Sex

[btrfly0007]

my bf and me have been together for almost 3 yrs now. when we first started going out he was very open to watching porno movies and giving me oral. as time has passed by we slowed down on the movies and the oral part to the point that it has completely stopped now. I cant remember the last time he has given me any. Ive tried talking to him about it his answer was that he has to be in the mood for it, so i asked when are you in the mood for it then??? the only answer I got was that he rather not talk about it, that when he is in the mood then he will do it. I miss it alot when you go to having it almost every time you have sex to nothing you tend to crave it. so what should I do??? should I get me something that simulates oral sex or how can I get him to start again when he wont even talk to me about it????

[Mikayla1]

OK, first I have to ask, is HE getting Blowjobs?

I am a firm believer in, if you aren't getting oral, he shouldn't be either. So, if he isn't going down on you, DO NOT go down on him!

I think you need to press the issue, talk to him and ask him why the sudden change of heart? Find out why he stopped. Does he no longer enjoy it? Did something happen? He didn't happen to go down on you when you were about to start your period did he? That can be a big turn off.

Or, have you had a child since being with him? That can also change how a man looks at you - literally.

I would tell him how much you love it when he eats you out, how good he is at it. Tell him you get turned on by it, and that you want him to do it again. Ask if he wants some flavored lubes or something to help. Don't let it go.

Let me know some answers and I will get back to you!

Mikayla

[allit]

my bf and me have been together for almost 3 yrs now. when we first started going out he was very open to watching porno movies and giving me oral. as time has passed by we slowed down on the movies and the oral part to the point that it has completely stopped now. I cant remember the last time he has given me any. Ive tried talking to him about it his answer was that he has to be in the mood for it, so i asked when are you in the mood for it then??? the only answer I got was that he rather not talk about it, that when he is in the mood then he will do it. I miss it alot when you go to having it almost every time you have sex to nothing you tend to crave it. so what should I do??? should I get me something that simulates oral sex or how can I get him to start again when he wont even talk to me about it????

I think advice above is good. But, he might be passive-agressive so discussion will not work. My ex wanted totally spontaneous sex, subject to a strict set of rules. The first thing I would do is see a marriage counsler. I know he is just your bf, but, I think there might be underlying issues.