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Hi guys and girls.  I'd like some advice.

 

Oral sex for my wife is explosive.  Warm up with a toy is explosive. Problem is that it is also conclusive.  She get very squeamish afterwards and she can barely be touched.  She says she is totally sated (completely satisfied) and just loves to hug and kiss ONLY.   So I am left with the choose of stopping her in the middle of her excitement or calling it a night. She is a very pleased woman who is DONE in every way.

How do you give or watch a sex toy orgasmic or great oral sex and make her desire some real lovemaking afterwards.  I absolutely love to please her but in doing so I have brought the evening to a halt.

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2 hours ago, typical normal curious guy said:

Hi guys and girls.  I'd like some advice.

 

Oral sex for my wife is explosive.  Warm up with a toy is explosive. Problem is that it is also conclusive.  She get very squeamish afterwards and she can barely be touched.  She says she is totally sated (completely satisfied) and just loves to hug and kiss ONLY.   So I am left with the choose of stopping her in the middle of her excitement or calling it a night. She is a very pleased woman who is DONE in every way.

How do you give or watch a sex toy orgasmic or great oral sex and make her desire some real lovemaking afterwards.  I absolutely love to please her but in doing so I have brought the evening to a halt.

try oral after intercourse

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How do I say this in an acceptable way. I have tried that but eating my own fluids is not for me. We will find a way to mix it up. Thank you though for a very logical suggestion.  

 

I guess i was asking if it is common for a woman to have an orgasm and then shut down so solid for regular intercouse. Do most woman crave their man after a date with their “personal friend”.

i of course understand that woman differ. I just thought the new toy would make her crave more. I thought it would be an appetizer and not be the finally. 

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10 minutes ago, typical normal curious guy said:

How do I say this in an acceptable way. I have tried that but eating my own fluids is not for me. We will find a way to mix it up. Thank you though for a very logical suggestion.  

 

I guess i was asking if it is common for a woman to have an orgasm and then shut down so solid for regular intercouse. Do most woman crave their man after a date with their “personal friend”.

i of course understand that woman differ. I just thought the new toy would make her crave more. I thought it would be an appetizer and not be the finally. 

is her friend a guy?

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20 hours ago, prodrag33 said:

try oral after intercourse

Yup....this!

We used to be a one and done couple. I'd eat her to O, and I'd get mine and cum in her.

One night, we started with sex, and I came before her. Oops.... So, i gave her hers, by going down on her, my cum and all.

She came like crazy! It made me hard again! She wanted more! I wanted more! 

So, we did it again. 6 times! One and done became a thing of the past for both of us! 

:)

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Thanks for replying. With her becoming totally squeamish and shutting down from being totally satisfied, the ability to continue is lost. 

 

I renain very very satisfied with our sex  life. I was curious what makes a woman want more even after a big O. Again I realize that every woman is an individual.

im glad you found a great match. Your ability to repeat over and over is impressive. I would never be able to walk again. 😗

i will give her time to cycle and then do all I can to put her in the mood for more. 

Thanks. Have a great holiday!

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Sometimes, us women can be "too sensitive" right after an orgasm, especially the BIG O! My GF is such a woman.

I've encountered a few men that, right after they orgasm, their penises are too sensitive to the touch sometimes, so they asked me to give them a few minutes to allow their nerves to calm down a bit. So, I'd play with myself, or snuggle with them for a bit, allowing them that time.

If she is too sensitive, try giving her a few minutes, snuggle with her, run your fingers thru her hair, slowly stroke yourself (this will let her know you're not done), talk sexy to her, give her a massage-all over. Trust me, a massage on the legs or even around the labia can do wonders!! I recently discovered that my tailbone also LOVES to be massaged....who knew??? Or ask her to play with you. You can keep up the sexual tension but not go right to town yet. 

And, on a personal note,......if you enjoy her swallowing your cum-if she does-then you eating her cream-pie should be ok. Don't get if you don't intend to give too!!! ;)

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