Members McKenzie Posted April 6, 2018 Members Report Share Posted April 6, 2018 I’m new to the forum and curious. I’m in my 40’s and married to a much older man who has ED so he pretty much avoids sex. I’m looking for ways to stay satisfied in this celibacy relationship. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members McKenzie Posted April 6, 2018 Author Members Report Share Posted April 6, 2018 He’s more interested in companionship. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Erosattheback Posted April 6, 2018 Members Report Share Posted April 6, 2018 Great picture!!! He’s not interested in any play? I feel for you. ED doesn’t stop people from using fingers, lips, tongues, and toys. Maybe approach him with other things to do other than penetration. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members McKenzie Posted April 6, 2018 Author Members Report Share Posted April 6, 2018 He’s really sweet and caring. And really shy! I think he would faint if he found my toy stash! But, I’ll take your advice and encourage him to play more! Who knows, maybe he’s waiting for an invitation! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Erosattheback Posted April 6, 2018 Members Report Share Posted April 6, 2018 He may be wanting you to be the dominant one. Give it a try. You got nothing to loose. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members McKenzie Posted April 6, 2018 Author Members Report Share Posted April 6, 2018 Thanks! Still figuring things out! 🧐 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members McKenzie Posted April 6, 2018 Author Members Report Share Posted April 6, 2018 To be the dominant one, I may need a couple of glasses of wine 🍷! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members luv2eatthepeach2 Posted April 9, 2018 Members Report Share Posted April 9, 2018 Nothing wrong with wine. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Kevin45 Posted April 12, 2018 Members Report Share Posted April 12, 2018 Bet ur sexy in lingerie.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members McKenzie Posted April 15, 2018 Author Members Report Share Posted April 15, 2018 Thank you for your very helpful suggestions. I appreciate that you took the time to outline some suggestions for us. I cannot imagine a time when he would accept a strap on, but who knows! Maybe it is a fantasy he has that I’m not aware of! I do love penetration and miss that feeling. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members BIGWILLYSTYLE Posted April 15, 2018 Members Report Share Posted April 15, 2018 you can cam chat w/ others.Maybe let them watch you get yourself off! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members chad214 Posted August 19, 2018 Members Report Share Posted August 19, 2018 'what about posibly a 3 some you should ask him and see what he thinks thats always sexy as hell but only some people can succesfully have a marrige and be ok with doing stuff like that so make sure yall are both ok with it and that would be perfect Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Nancy Posted August 26, 2018 Members Report Share Posted August 26, 2018 On 4/6/2018 at 3:34 PM, McKenzie said: He’s really sweet and caring. And really shy! I think he would faint if he found my toy stash! But, I’ll take your advice and encourage him to play more! Who knows, maybe he’s waiting for an invitation! I’m in a similar situation!! When I pulled a couple of toys out I think I freaked him out!! He didn’t act interested AT ALL. Made me real sad😢 but now I’m just perfecting my “alone time.” Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbie Byron Posted August 29, 2018 Newbie Report Share Posted August 29, 2018 I feel for ya! I'm 61 but love sex, some slight ED, but I'm a firm believer in her pleasure and luckily I'm into giving oral and fingering,, talk to him bout at least joining while you use/play with toys. Be involved, even if just kissing and caressing you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Nancy Posted August 29, 2018 Members Report Share Posted August 29, 2018 I bit the bullet and decided to actually communicate about this with him!! I think we’re on the same page now. He actually used a G-spot toy on me. Very fun!! Thanks so much for responding. Please keep in touch! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members saltybear Posted August 29, 2018 Members Report Share Posted August 29, 2018 On 4/6/2018 at 11:00 AM, McKenzie said: I’m new to the forum and curious. I’m in my 40’s and married to a much older man who has ED so he pretty much avoids sex. I’m looking for ways to stay satisfied in this celibacy relationship. be interment by showering together, cuddling .. if he still has a tongue use it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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