Intercourse Organism's

[asianroses2u]

I've always been able to have organism's thru oral sex........... but i've never had one thru intercourse. I have'nt told my fiance this, but i fake vagianl organisms when i'm with him..... I've done that with all the men in my life. To me intercourse feels good, but not good enough to come close to having an organism.

I've been hearing a woman has a G spot....... and that G spot can send woman in to organism's big time... Is that true, or is it just talk? I've been playing with my self alot latly and i found a spot that I never realy knew about before.. is that the G spot? I never felt that spot while having intercourse. Is there something that I have'nt been doing, that could help me? or is it usless for some woman? I feel stupid for asking these questions, but i've been very shy about sex and theres alot I dont know.

[aceinthehole]

PLEASE SOMEBODY ANSWER THIS!!!! I have had numerous lovers and can only seem to come if they all but torture me with their fingers. I have hard time telling anyone that I can only cum if it hurts to the point of bleeding. I would love to cum with sweet passionate sex....

[Chris4u]

Well no woman is alike, some things work for some while not for others. Same with orgasms, some not one woman orgasms like another. For some they need a lot of time and stimulation, others can cum in less than 5 minutes. I was in a relationship with a girl who never let men go down on her pussy, because it did nothing for her...it just wasn't as sensitive there.

Size and girth of the penis can be a problem. It can be too long for some, or not thick enough for adequate stimulation.

Maybe your sexual positions are not right. My last girlfriend didn't do doggy right our first time. She had the right idea, but her stature was what was holding her back from experiencing a great deal of pleasure in this postition.

From what I've heard and read, some women can't orgasm from just vaginal sex, they need hand and oral play during it. Even doggy style isn't powerful for some, so fingering needs to be done.

The fact is that you may be not very sensitive in the vagina. A ribbed or studded condom might be the answer if this is the case.

Oral and toy action to the vagina before vaginal sex could help waken up some of those nerves in your vagina.

First off, try numerous positions and make sure you do them correctly. Sometimes they need to be modified slightly, but you can test that out during sex. If you need advice on positions, just email me personally. Certain ones work better or worse, depending on the individual. Positioning your body correctly is key!

[crznbye]

I went years and one marriage before I found a guy who could make me orgasm. I had a 6 yr marriage that I faked every time. But finally I had an experience and found the key.

At first I could only orgasim when I was on top. The other thing is, I had to be in control of the movement as well. There were 3 things that needed to be done to achieve orgasm. 1. lubrication of the clit. 2. pressure on the clit and 3. Steady rythm.

The rythem thing is a big key - and with many guys, they didn't feel the rythm and we were going at a different beat. WHen we don't move together at the same rythm, I could get close, but wouldn't orgasm.

My husband is the first guy i was with who could make me cum regularly. And he's done a great job of experimenting in order to get me to cum in just about any position we try.

[2gtbt2]

It all goes back to every woman being different. But it has A LOT to do with the man and his ability to control his motions and sense his partners pleasure. I not only have multiples, I have them with every man with which I have sex.

I suggest you start off with you being on top. If you need lubrication, then use it. Insert just the tip of his penis. Practice using NO HANDS. Don't insert it all the way. Move just the head in and out. You should start to feel a sensation like you are going to pee. Don't freak out and stop. This means that you have found your G-spot. Relax and enjoy it. Move your way down the shaft of his penis until you have taken all of him in. When you think you have gotten all of him inside of you that you can, straighten your legs out and place them on top of his. This bring you clit in full contact with his penis and you can then feel the difference in the two pleasures. Experiment and take control. Don't start thrusting like a mad woman or like some animal. It's the slow controlled motions that casue the orgasm(s). He'll get a real kick out of it too. My guy always says, "How do you do that?!?!" Truth is, it's a great way for me to get off and get him off too....lol.