Newbie turner89 Posted April 20, 2018 Newbie Report Share Posted April 20, 2018 It's been a year and I haven't moved on yet. The pain has kept me from moving forward. I thought it will be her I’ll be spending my life with. She was almost perfect not until I caught her cheating on me. I still love her, and I can’t just forget about her. My friends are telling me I’m a fool for being this foolish for long. They always remind me that life must go on and I should not be so stagnant with what my situation is now. They keep on telling me to look beyond, like involving myself with other activities, date again with old acquaintances, entertain dating foreign events, or go to clubs and bars. Will these really help? 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members H. Housewife Posted June 8, 2018 Members Report Share Posted June 8, 2018 On 4/20/2018 at 4:50 AM, turner89 said: It's been a year and I haven't moved on yet. The pain has kept me from moving forward. I thought it will be her I’ll be spending my life with. She was almost perfect not until I caught her cheating on me. I still love her, and I can’t just forget about her. My friends are telling me I’m a fool for being this foolish for long. They always remind me that life must go on and I should not be so stagnant with what my situation is now. They keep on telling me to look beyond, like involving myself with other activities, date again with old acquaintances, entertain dating foreign events, or go to clubs and bars. Will these really help? I think you're not ready to move on and first you have to allow yourself to heal. Your life will be super awesome whenever you are ready to meet people. Never rush into anything. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Lisset Finnien Posted September 21, 2018 Members Report Share Posted September 21, 2018 I’ve been there....you never think you’ll love again but you will. If she cheated once, you better bet she’ll do it again if given half a chance......Hate to say it but it’s usually true. Your friends who are telling you’re a fool are only trying to help. Sometimes it takes people on the outside looking in to see what’s going on. I’m sure they just don’t want to see you get hurt again. ( even though they could do it a little nicer....) It took me a good year and a half to get over my cheating partner....takes a long time when you’re totally convinced you really love a certain person. Now I’m SO glad that i was able to move on. I’ve had bigger and better things since getting over him! Just do your best ... it’s really all you can do...good luck Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Fiftyman Posted October 1, 2018 Members Report Share Posted October 1, 2018 My wife died almost two years ago. I know , different situations. The point is you can move on but only if you really want to. So she cheated on you. It makes you feel inferior. I get it. Do things to improve yourself. Things that will jack your confidence up. Then when you feel half way ready, grab the nearest pussy and have at it. After my wife died I felt like I was dieing. I started working out then I sought professional help. Alice Little is the number one sex worker in the US. She resides in Reno and you can find her online at the bunny ranch. We started with an email relationship and after some time I went to see her. One night with her will change your life. It goes beyond sex. Again, you can move on. Man up! Get back on the horse. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tyger Posted February 18, 2019 Report Share Posted February 18, 2019 Each person takes their own personal time to get over a relationship, whether it's by the end of it, death, or what have you. There is no "time limit" to what is appropriate for you. When you're ready, you will know. As far as moving on, going out with old flames, may not be the best thing. They're "old flames" for a reason. And, from the voice of experience here, it very rarely ever works out a second time around!!! I agree with Fiftyman. Do things that boost yourself. Go do something that makes you happy!!! Fishing? Bowling? Golfing? Dancing? 4-wheeling? Cars/Trucks? Rollerskating? Biking? Volunteering? Something that makes YOU happy!!! And, if you can give back, well, even better! There's nothing wrong with doing stuff solo!! You don't have to just go to bars and sit and mope. Some of the things mentioned, are also GREAT ways to get back into shape and meet people! Some of the best relationships I've had have started from participating in things we were both at and enjoying!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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