Members Layla94 Posted August 22, 2018 Members Report Share Posted August 22, 2018 I am sure this has been asked but when I click on a "beginner" post it's for couples or it's about anal. I'm a virgin and I'm looking at sex toys. I live at home with a big family so quiet and discreet are a must. But I also don't have tons of money for something really high end. A friend said to go with a hypoallergenic silicon material just in case I am sensitive down there. I have never orgasmed before but I would like to? If I can. When I masturbate my clit never feels good. I legit don't enjoy touching it. I do sometimes because I do get much wetter later if I start there, but its just a weird feeling for me. Not bad but not good. I'm drawn toward penetration more than clitoral stimulation, and often think to myself that my finger isn't long enough. Oh also only 1 finger fits so I don't want to get something too big for me. But I don't really understand what I should be seeking in terms of size or if I should go for something simple that doesn't go inside. I really appreciate anyone who takes the time to give me advice, even just links to things I should consider investing in! Thank you!!! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members lis Posted August 22, 2018 Members Report Share Posted August 22, 2018 If you want quiet and hypoallergenic I would go with glass. There are many to choose from and I personally like the 7" curved g-spot dildo. I also like a bullet for my clit, they are not too loud....nothing a blanket covering it shouldn't drown out the sound. Feel free to pm me if you have other questions you aren't comfortable asking in the open. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Layla94 Posted August 23, 2018 Author Members Report Share Posted August 23, 2018 Thank you so much!! Im actually fine speaking here (since its anonymous) but if you'd prefer to chat privately that's ok too:) 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members RC4BLUE Posted August 23, 2018 Members Report Share Posted August 23, 2018 I will second Lis about glass and a bullet. The only thing about glass is it is sensitive to temperature and can be cold (or hot). You may wish to get the glass up toward body temperature, unless you like cold sensation, before use. Pay attention to the diameter of the toy. Given what you say, I suggest looking for something 1 inch or less in diameter to begin with. You may discover that you will desire something a bit more thick as you become accustome to the sensations and play. If you wish something a bit more soft, look at silicone. There are a number of silicone toys that are smaller, quieter and powerful. If you are looking at the retail side of this site, try looking under small vibrators. Read the discriptions and the reviews. Last thing, I know cost is a factor. Yet, I suggest you spend a little more on a vibe as the super cheap ones are just that - cheap, and won’t last very long for the most part. I suggest staying away from jelly or other material that is hard to clean and maintain. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members lis Posted August 23, 2018 Members Report Share Posted August 23, 2018 I love when the glass is cold! I'll actually put it in the storage bag & lay it on the ac vent! That one is actually dual sided with 2 different thicknesses. And also I think variety is the spice of life! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members tiedupnaked33 Posted August 23, 2018 Members Report Share Posted August 23, 2018 Amazon has toys at a reasonable price. I have never looked at toys on this site. I don't know about materials. But vibration is priority one for me. The more the merrier. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members tiedupnaked33 Posted August 23, 2018 Members Report Share Posted August 23, 2018 And glad you are comfortable asking. Good Luck. We like to hear of results. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members RC4BLUE Posted August 23, 2018 Members Report Share Posted August 23, 2018 Lies I have to agree with you. Cold glass can be quite enthralling. It's not for everyone, but wow the sensation can completely put you over the moon. Variety is the spice. 😃😃😃 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Layla94 Posted August 23, 2018 Author Members Report Share Posted August 23, 2018 This has been fantastic and thank you all for the advice 😊 but I'm not sure when i could even get something like this. My family rips open packages without checking the name and i only had one trusted friend to ask about having is delivered to his house and he said his family is the same way. Any results may be a long way off for me. So far i am really enjoying the look of the glass 2 sided ones:) im not sure i want a vibrator? I can't imagine how that feels and it doesn't really draw me in. Having a glass with 2 options sounds great though. And RC thanks so much for the size advice ❤ i appreciate that. It helps so much. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Layla94 Posted August 23, 2018 Author Members Report Share Posted August 23, 2018 Actually guys now that it looks like delivery won't be an option, my friend and i may go to a real shop... Does anyone have any good suggestions? Something relatively near the city of chicago should be doable for me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members RC4BLUE Posted August 23, 2018 Members Report Share Posted August 23, 2018 You can try Lover's Lane. They have several Chicago area stores. Adam and Eve have a few store in the Chicago area as well. Enjoy, have fun and seek pleasure. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Layla94 Posted August 23, 2018 Author Members Report Share Posted August 23, 2018 Thank you so much 😊 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members lis Posted August 24, 2018 Members Report Share Posted August 24, 2018 You could open a post office box for a month....just to give you another option also. This sight has great free gifts. And the vibrations feel amazing especially on your clit.....it definitely helps me have an orgasm. 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members lis Posted August 24, 2018 Members Report Share Posted August 24, 2018 And this site has discounts, free gifts and free shipping when you spend I think $35. Everything I've gotten is top quality. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Britta Posted August 24, 2018 Members Report Share Posted August 24, 2018 Early2Bed has a store on the North Side. It is run by women, so feels more comfortable to me. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Layla94 Posted August 24, 2018 Author Members Report Share Posted August 24, 2018 I did notice the free gift opportunities here... I will look into opening a post office box! Thank you! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Layla94 Posted August 26, 2018 Author Members Report Share Posted August 26, 2018 So after a discussion with my mother today about getting christmas presents, she has promised to check the names on packages coming from amazon. Problem is, that means I can only order from amazon >.< has anyone ever bought toys from them before? are they discreet?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members RC4BLUE Posted August 26, 2018 Members Report Share Posted August 26, 2018 I personally like the idea of going to a brick and mortar store to check out toys, even if I don't buy. It gives you a good idea of size, weight, strength of vibration, and feel,of material, for the devices. At that point you have an option to buy now or return home and buy in the privacy of your own space. As for Amazon, I can not say. I've never personally bought a toy from Amazon. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members lovebigfatcocks Posted September 12, 2018 Members Report Share Posted September 12, 2018 On 8/23/2018 at 9:52 AM, tiedupnaked33 said: Amazon has toys at a reasonable price. I have never looked at toys on this site. I don't know about materials. But vibration is priority one for me. The more the merrier. i love vibration Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Pumper Posted May 27, 2019 Members Report Share Posted May 27, 2019 I think you might need a better lubricant if playing with your clit hurts. It should feel wonderfully stimulating. So if it’s not, experiment with different lubes and toys. Good luck! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Connieknows Posted August 19, 2019 Members Report Share Posted August 19, 2019 I have a really good surgestion😙start off with taking a nude selfie of yourself and share it with me so we can have a naughty sexing time together I'll start with this for you to start playing with that BEAUTIFUL cock of yours 😙😚😚 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members CjnCooter69 Posted August 20, 2019 Members Report Share Posted August 20, 2019 1 hour ago, Connieknows said: I have a really good surgestion😙start off with taking a nude selfie of yourself and share it with me so we can have a naughty sexing time together I'll start with this for you to start playing with that BEAUTIFUL cock of yours 😙😚😚 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Rio Posted August 20, 2019 Members Report Share Posted August 20, 2019 4 hours ago, Connieknows said: I have a really good surgestion😙start off with taking a nude selfie of yourself and share it with me so we can have a naughty sexing time together I'll start with this for you to start playing with that BEAUTIFUL cock of yours 😙😚😚 Thanks for posting that picture again. I never get tired of seeing it. I just visualize myself tickling your butthole with my tongue and running it all the way up across your labia and into your vagina and finally finishing off tickling your clit as well with my tongue. Yum Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Connieknows Posted August 20, 2019 Members Report Share Posted August 20, 2019 3 hours ago, CjnCooter69 said: Omg love that incredibly hot view of that BEAUTIFUL cock of yours you can actually watch your Cum START to shoot out😚 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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