Flaccid dick after anal plug??? Please help

[hardwood68]

Hey guys and girls,

Had a real problem and it's been a week and still seeing it.

Last week I got my wife of 4 years to join me in using some toys on me anally and het anally.  Shea still on the fence bout me using a dildo or toy that looks like a cock, or seeing me get off when I put a new plug in. She feels threatened and use less. So after tons of articles about anal and pegging with your husband she finally loosened up. So the next night I bought her a very thin vibrating plug and after 2 hours she let me put the tip in. She lovvvvvved it a d went crazy. So meanwhile I had my prety large plug in my ass and it took like 20 mins to get it in.  I felt amazing and cum started to drip.... 

   Once I saw her with her wand on her clit g spot probe deep in her and I was just about to get the whole plug in, nice and slow, coaching her  through it.  Once it was seated I slowly pulled my plug out and she now was turned on because when I pulled it out I had a stream of cum pour out.  

Here's the part that dosent turn me or her on.  

We were 69ing so I didn't have to jerk off to get hard and I didn't have to stop using the plug.on her.  After 10 mins she asked if I was ok because, even though I thioughr i was rock hard i was deff not hard. I could tell she was embarrassed because for 4 years I wanted to try her plug and now she had me in her mouth, 2 vibrators o. Her pussy and a vibrating plug in her ass. My fantasy from day one was being fulfilled and i couldnt do anything about it.   

   I stood up grabbed my cock pump and pumped until my cock was purple and i put cock.ring on and slide him out. I was huggge a did swollen  but when I went to put it I. Her it folded. He still had his width and lenfrg, but no strength... I thought I was being slick by grabbing her clone a dick I got her last year because the other dildos were way to big and I would never pass for a 10 incher lol, so I grabbed my cock ring, threw it on the dildo and shoved it in. After probably the 3rd time she orgasmed, she asked me if I felt her moving the toy and when i said yes, she grabbed my "dick" and realized it wasn't me, I was passing her spare off as my own.  

She didn't say anything but I could tell she thought it was be wise of het why I wasn't hard and I felt horrible because she's sooo damn sexy and she buys outfits that I love. 

The next day she's still horny and tells me she needs a quickie and I out our daughter in her crib and ran Into the room..... She grabbed nd and nope...... nothing. She ends up in tears because since our kids, her.body has changed and I think it's beautiful because that was were my children grew up. It's only a scare and a small  belly, but you would never know if you didn't see her naked. And her tits are triple D so they went south a little, but I tell her all the time I  find her sexy and o am obsessed with tits that are so big they can break a window when she rolls over at night.

I myself am feeling ashamed because I now can't get hard or cum to my beautiful wife but a dildo in my ass makes me cum??? So not right!!!

 

A week goes by and I've jerked off a few times and it's all been fine but I kept large stuff out of my ass but even tho i.can cum, I not solid like I was. But when i hopped in the shower with her and I got AROUSED not just horny but completely turned on I got soft.  When I'm just horny it was fine but when I'm turned on a d super aroused then it goes soft.

 

I'm used to being rock solid and when I put my toys In I would.go soft unless I kept jerking off. But now I'm disgusted with myself and she said it perfect. " you wait all these years for your fantasy, and wheb you finally have your women in lingerie, heels and have her whole pussy  vibrating and lighting up like a space shuttle you can't get going, I guess that you putting a dildo in your ass does.more for you than the women you married" 

 

I'm verrry sexually knowledgeable and know how to. Ake her body do anything we want but this is upsetting  me.  To go get a ED pill is giving up I think.  I'm 31!!!! 

Do you guys think I damaged my dick or something????

 

Please help....

[Erosattheback]

It sounds like it’s not your dick, but your head. Too anxious, too much self pressure, and too much forcing your will on your dick. Relax, Geiger yourself some time. All should return to normal.

[Crandell]

On 9/27/2018 at 4:02 PM, hardwood68 said:

Hey guys and girls,

Had a real problem and it's been a week and still seeing it.

Last week I got my wife of 4 years to join me in using some toys on me anally and het anally.  Shea still on the fence bout me using a dildo or toy that looks like a cock, or seeing me get off when I put a new plug in. She feels threatened and use less. So after tons of articles about anal and pegging with your husband she finally loosened up. So the next night I bought her a very thin vibrating plug and after 2 hours she let me put the tip in. She lovvvvvved it a d went crazy. So meanwhile I had my prety large plug in my ass and it took like 20 mins to get it in.  I felt amazing and cum started to drip.... 

   Once I saw her with her wand on her clit g spot probe deep in her and I was just about to get the whole plug in, nice and slow, coaching her  through it.  Once it was seated I slowly pulled my plug out and she now was turned on because when I pulled it out I had a stream of cum pour out.  

Here's the part that dosent turn me or her on.  

We were 69ing so I didn't have to jerk off to get hard and I didn't have to stop using the plug.on her.  After 10 mins she asked if I was ok because, even though I thioughr i was rock hard i was deff not hard. I could tell she was embarrassed because for 4 years I wanted to try her plug and now she had me in her mouth, 2 vibrators o. Her pussy and a vibrating plug in her ass. My fantasy from day one was being fulfilled and i couldnt do anything about it.   

   I stood up grabbed my cock pump and pumped until my cock was purple and i put cock.ring on and slide him out. I was huggge a did swollen  but when I went to put it I. Her it folded. He still had his width and lenfrg, but no strength... I thought I was being slick by grabbing her clone a dick I got her last year because the other dildos were way to big and I would never pass for a 10 incher lol, so I grabbed my cock ring, threw it on the dildo and shoved it in. After probably the 3rd time she orgasmed, she asked me if I felt her moving the toy and when i said yes, she grabbed my "dick" and realized it wasn't me, I was passing her spare off as my own.  

She didn't say anything but I could tell she thought it was be wise of het why I wasn't hard and I felt horrible because she's sooo damn sexy and she buys outfits that I love. 

The next day she's still horny and tells me she needs a quickie and I out our daughter in her crib and ran Into the room..... She grabbed nd and nope...... nothing. She ends up in tears because since our kids, her.body has changed and I think it's beautiful because that was were my children grew up. It's only a scare and a small  belly, but you would never know if you didn't see her naked. And her tits are triple D so they went south a little, but I tell her all the time I  find her sexy and o am obsessed with tits that are so big they can break a window when she rolls over at night.

I myself am feeling ashamed because I now can't get hard or cum to my beautiful wife but a dildo in my ass makes me cum??? So not right!!!

 

A week goes by and I've jerked off a few times and it's all been fine but I kept large stuff out of my ass but even tho i.can cum, I not solid like I was. But when i hopped in the shower with her and I got AROUSED not just horny but completely turned on I got soft.  When I'm just horny it was fine but when I'm turned on a d super aroused then it goes soft.

 

I'm used to being rock solid and when I put my toys In I would.go soft unless I kept jerking off. But now I'm disgusted with myself and she said it perfect. " you wait all these years for your fantasy, and wheb you finally have your women in lingerie, heels and have her whole pussy  vibrating and lighting up like a space shuttle you can't get going, I guess that you putting a dildo in your ass does.more for you than the women you married" 

 

I'm verrry sexually knowledgeable and know how to. Ake her body do anything we want but this is upsetting  me.  To go get a ED pill is giving up I think.  I'm 31!!!! 

Do you guys think I damaged my dick or something????

 

Please help....

Hi, I Too have had issues and it could be in your head.  Haven’t used toys with her but I have for some reason struggled.  Good luck.