Newbie TLan387 Posted November 11, 2018 Newbie Report Share Posted November 11, 2018 the other day I went to visit the massage spa and decided to get another happy ending.I didn't get the whole thing this time, just oral and a handjob. nevertheless, my DE got the best out of me once again. luckily the masseuse was nice enough to not rush me, but boy did she had to work hard to make me ejaculate.something is telling me that this is all just anxiety, its very similar to the anxiety I feel when urinating in public but more intense. I'm guessing is this idea that I always had that women find men ejaculating in plain view very disgusting and repulsing and that only women in porn love to see and feel semen. therefore whenever i'm doing it with someone these thoughts creep into my head so my anxiety prevents me from easily ejaculating. sometimes I feel so anxious that I even feel a slight pain and discomfort when I finally cum and have difficulty getting an erection hours after the event.anyways I think the only way I can fix this is by having someone convince me that women in porn aren't the only ones that crave for semen. if I can just convince myself I can get over this anxiety. if not then oh well, at least it serves me as a build in stamina-booster. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members lis Posted November 11, 2018 Members Report Share Posted November 11, 2018 I love watching a guy masturbate & cum! Love it! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members 12GAUGE Posted November 11, 2018 Members Report Share Posted November 11, 2018 That makes us even then as most of the time when I'm horny and at home I LOVE to jack off while watching lesbians getting it on. I love to watch 3 or more hot girls as they finger each other eat each other out French and use strap ons and take an aggressive posture as they lay pipe so to speak. Anyone here that likes/loves to watch or partake of hot lesbians or just women curious about other women that way know what I mean. Two gals I really enjoy watching are Lilly Cade and Nina Hartley. Lily Cade is a young aggressive short haired queer-Butch Dyke that really tears up gals of the same age as well as seducing older women. She often has her strap on under her jeans and she wastes no time fucking her most recent conquest. Lily has a fingering technique quite intense and could be construed as rough as she throws her prey around and fucks her latest conquest as an Alpha male would jump a Hot Skinny Babeliscious and fuck her brains out. Nina Hartley is an older gal in her mid 50s with big tits who has been after teen aged snatch for I'd say the last 20+ years. She also will jump well built teen boys or men wasting no time deep throating their thick long cocks. The way I enjoy Nina the most is when she wears a Dominatrix outfit and takes turns spanking cropping flogging and laying into asses with a cane or switch. She's also quite skilled with electric toys like e stim and I'd Love to watch her use a Violet Wand. In 2007 I attended a sex positive workshop out in the woods. Not knowing at the time what a Violet Wand was I sat mesmerized as I watched a voluptuous Amazon woman in a tight floor length gown with slits up her sides as she used a Violet Wand on a well built man on his most sensitive places. Touching lightly his balls and shaft she always got quite the rise out of him. She was quite wicked to him and one could easily tell she was enjoying his discomfort. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Ryan Posted July 2, 2019 Members Report Share Posted July 2, 2019 On 11/11/2018 at 7:46 AM, lis said: I love watching a guy masturbate & cum! Love it! Hot! Hehe Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members DewMan@1961 Posted August 18, 2021 Members Report Share Posted August 18, 2021 1 hour ago, Jennifer01 said: I've never met a man that had an anxiety that kept him from ejaculating in front of me, so I'm not all that certain about a fix. However, I think it might just take the right girl to get your fluids flowing. So I'm not sure what I could possibly tell you to do, but if I could talk to your girlfriend I could give her some tips on helping your situation. If you can somehow forward the following message to her, that might work. I think a nice cum facial is in order. If I were in her position, I would surprise you, maybe one evening in the bathroom or the kitchen, by kneeling down in front of you completely naked or at least with nothing on but a bra and panties. My first goal is to make sure that you know I'm dying to have your big cock in my mouth. I would slowly pull down your pants and begin stroking your cock until it was nice and firm. Then while keeping eye contact, I would take him inside my mouth, and while squeezing down with my lips, move it in and out so I can feel it growing and hardening between my lips. Then right before you are about to explode, I would take the beast out of my mouth, and while using my hand to try to coax the yummy treat out of the rod, look you in the eye and ask that you PLEASE ejaculate all over my face. Just continue squeezing and stroking the rod between your fingers until you feel the warm spurts across your face. If she does all that, at that point it's up to you to perform. Good luck! OMG WOW what a wonderful woman you are Jennifer mmmmmm Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members DewMan@1961 Posted August 18, 2021 Members Report Share Posted August 18, 2021 On 5/1/2021 at 5:07 PM, Dannyk said: Just do it. I felt really weird the first time I did it . I began playing with my cock in front of my wife and she told me that it’s ok. I got super hard quickly with my wife watching and had a massive eruption. I do it now regularly as well as my wife and we enjoy cumming in front of each other! Would your beautiful wife like to watch me bring myself to a massive eruptions over and over? Mmmmmm Dewey C Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Jizzlobber77 Posted August 19, 2021 Members Report Share Posted August 19, 2021 20 hours ago, Jennifer01 said: I've never met a man that had an anxiety that kept him from ejaculating in front of me, so I'm not all that certain about a fix. However, I think it might just take the right girl to get your fluids flowing. So I'm not sure what I could possibly tell you to do, but if I could talk to your girlfriend I could give her some tips on helping your situation. If you can somehow forward the following message to her, that might work. I think a nice cum facial is in order. If I were in her position, I would surprise you, maybe one evening in the bathroom or the kitchen, by kneeling down in front of you completely naked or at least with nothing on but a bra and panties. My first goal is to make sure that you know I'm dying to have your big cock in my mouth. I would slowly pull down your pants and begin stroking your cock until it was nice and firm. Then while keeping eye contact, I would take him inside my mouth, and while squeezing down with my lips, move it in and out so I can feel it growing and hardening between my lips. Then right before you are about to explode, I would take the beast out of my mouth, and while using my hand to try to coax the yummy treat out of the rod, look you in the eye and ask that you PLEASE ejaculate all over my face. Just continue squeezing and stroking the rod between your fingers until you feel the warm spurts across your face. If she does all that, at that point it's up to you to perform. Good luck! This got me hard x Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members michelleddd Posted September 22, 2021 Members Report Share Posted September 22, 2021 I enjoy watching a man jerk off for me, huge turn on! Why don’t you try mutual masturbation and the focus won’t be so much on you. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Dancer Posted September 23, 2023 Members Report Share Posted September 23, 2023 Maybe let her get you going, and once your in the neighborhood, take the wheel and begin driving the rest of the rest of the way home. Now that I think of it, that's a great idea for a facial. I'm giving that a try as soon as the opportunity rises. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Dan the man Posted September 23, 2023 Members Report Share Posted September 23, 2023 54 minutes ago, Dancer said: Maybe let her get you going, and once your in the neighborhood, take the wheel and begin driving the rest of the rest of the way home. Now that I think of it, that's a great idea for a facial. I'm giving that a try as soon as the opportunity rises. You can get me going anytime 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Dancer Posted September 23, 2023 Members Report Share Posted September 23, 2023 2 minutes ago, Dan the man said: You can get me going anytime I have no doubt? 😉 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members tiptaste Posted November 23, 2023 Members Report Share Posted November 23, 2023 Maybe when you go to a spa and get a good release, try to visit that same girl every time if she's still there. Being with someone you're used to may help. And as mentioned, if you don't mind just jerking off in front of her, take the blowjob or handjob to the near finish and then take over. No one knows you better than yourself. Finally, if she'll finger herself while you masturbate in front of her I would go for it. It'll be more like a mutual masturbation session than a service. Those girls are awesome and they've seen it all so they'll be fine with it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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