Members Jrock Posted January 3, 2019 Members Report Share Posted January 3, 2019 Hello, I am new to this and just wanted to get some advice. Yesterday my wife and I were putting away groceries. I picked up a cucumber and jokingly said “do you think you could take this?” To which she replied “ been there done that”. To which I responded “no way” . She smirked and said maybe not the length but half of it and certintly the girth.” She smiled and looked at me and said “what can I say, the guy was hung”. I wanted to ask so many questions and I got oddly turned on by the thought of a guy with a giant meat stick putting it to my wife. I was wondering is it odd to be turned on by such things ? Should I ask her more questions about her past sex experiences or will she think I’m a weirdo. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members saltybear Posted January 3, 2019 Members Report Share Posted January 3, 2019 32 minutes ago, Jrock said: Hello, I am new to this and just wanted to get some advice. Yesterday my wife and I were putting away groceries. I picked up a cucumber and jokingly said “do you think you could take this?” To which she replied “ been there done that”. To which I responded “no way” . She smirked and said maybe not the length but half of it and certintly the girth.” She smiled and looked at me and said “what can I say, the guy was hung”. I wanted to ask so many questions and I got oddly turned on by the thought of a guy with a giant meat stick putting it to my wife. I was wondering is it odd to be turned on by such things ? Should I ask her more questions about her past sex experiences or will she think I’m a weirdo. got the pump primed and I would keep the conv going Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tyger Posted January 3, 2019 Report Share Posted January 3, 2019 It's natural to be curious of some of your SO's past lovers. It's not weird to be turned on by such things. In fact, this is where sex toys can help fill that curiosity and you be one on one with the action. Get a thick dildo, and have your way with her. Or play out a fantasy with her that turns you on. Should you ask her about her past experiences? Well, how's your self-esteem? How long have you been married? Do you think you will want to divulge some of YOUR past experiences to HER? Because, if she's going to tell you, she will probably ask you questions about your past as well. Fair's fair! Asking those kinds of questions, you may find out things about your wife that can turn you on, or possibly make you jealous, insecure, or wondering if she compares you to other guys at the most inopportune times. My first husband found out that my ex before him was very well endowed. He brought it up frequently that, since he was only 6", and my ex was at least 9", how he compared, did I even feel him, did he satisfy me, or did I think of my ex and want that big cock back. It was very frustrating. Be careful what you wish/ask for! 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Jrock Posted January 4, 2019 Author Members Report Share Posted January 4, 2019 Thank you tyger for the suggestion. I’m going to buy a thick dildo to use on her. Any suggestions on what kind? I really want to see what she can handle. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Thomas Biddle Posted January 6, 2019 Members Report Share Posted January 6, 2019 On 1/3/2019 at 4:14 PM, saltybear said: got the pump primed and I would keep the conv going Tell her you want to see her take a big cock while she sucks you off nothing wrong with that I used to watch my girlfriend take a great big dildo turn me on filled her up she said Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Jrock Posted January 6, 2019 Author Members Report Share Posted January 6, 2019 We had sex yesterday and I got 2 fingers in.. I think I could have gotten 3 in if she was more wet. I’m now just looking for a good dildo that’s not too big. I was thinking about buying to Tommy Gunn mold. And suggestions? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members User21 Posted January 8, 2019 Members Report Share Posted January 8, 2019 It’s normal to be turned on by the thought of it, I have that problem myself. but, me being a germ o phobe I can’t think about it much at all. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Jrock Posted January 11, 2019 Author Members Report Share Posted January 11, 2019 *update* so I went on amazon and bought a dildo replica of porn star ‘Tommy Gunns’ cock. It came in the mail a few days ago. My wife knows I have it and asked I told her I think it’s too big. I asked her if she wanted to see it and she said no. I will see it when we have sex next (Saturday morning). I think it’s on ! I’ll let you guys know what happens . Thanks for the words of advice . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Jrock Posted January 13, 2019 Author Members Report Share Posted January 13, 2019 Fucked her with it.. she came multiple times. Now I want to see the real thing Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members guf555 Posted January 30, 2019 Members Report Share Posted January 30, 2019 Thank for useful tips, because i also have the same problem Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Juan Posted January 30, 2019 Members Report Share Posted January 30, 2019 Jrock: remember the first "huge" double dildo i first bought for the wife. When i first showed it to her she said no way.. after pleading did get to buy it AND after lots of time (movies, smoke, and foreplay got 10 inches buried in her.. just watching her pussy grip that dildo as i worked it in and out was awesome. I placed my hand below her belly button and felt the head of it in her! Read the post under "introduce yourself" did get to see the real thing! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members guf555 Posted February 13, 2019 Members Report Share Posted February 13, 2019 Very nice Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tyger Posted February 17, 2019 Report Share Posted February 17, 2019 The American Whopper is a great one too!!! There are many different versions of it. I've tried this one, and enjoyed it! All American 8" Whopper Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Juan Posted February 17, 2019 Members Report Share Posted February 17, 2019 😛 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Ryan Posted June 1, 2019 Members Report Share Posted June 1, 2019 I find women like thick dildo’s and bigger then average cocks. However when presented with a dildo that is much much bigger then the real penis she has available the instant reaction once seeing it is omg too thick too big ect when in reality deep down they wanna try it. I think its just to keep us secure ect. My gf is a classic example of this. We have several dildo’s and she uses the bigger ones here and their alone masterbating and enjoys them just fine. 😝 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members horny farm gal Posted June 4, 2019 Members Report Share Posted June 4, 2019 I would love for my husband to use a big dildo on me while he fucks me in the ass. 1 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Haywood25 Posted June 4, 2019 Members Report Share Posted June 4, 2019 10 hours ago, horny farm gal said: I would love for my husband to use a big dildo on me while he fucks me in the ass. I need my wife to turn a page and be this freaky Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Ryan Posted June 5, 2019 Members Report Share Posted June 5, 2019 I agree that does sound like fun. My gf does not want dp. Idk why if i was a woman i would 😬 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Jeeptj2001.Private Posted September 22, 2021 Members Report Share Posted September 22, 2021 Hello Jrock .... I was stranded out of country for a while and when I got back, I found out my wife was cheating with online sexting. I finally came to the conclusion that she is going to do it whether I approve or not. I have now found myself encouraging other men to have sex with her and sometimes I join in. I found that watching her with other men turns me on and I find that after she is with someone, our sex life is a lot more exciting. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members michelleddd Posted September 22, 2021 Members Report Share Posted September 22, 2021 I’d say, be careful what you wish for. If you can handle talk about her previous partners and it turns you on, have fun with it. If she wanted cucumber guy she still be with him. ps. At first I thought you meant she used a cucumber 🥒 as a sex toy. But that’s a story for another day. 💦😉🥒 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Rio Posted May 30, 2022 Members Report Share Posted May 30, 2022 1 hour ago, Jennifer01 said: Cucumbers are a great sex toy. Inexpensive, no batteries, and they can get BIG! And I'd like to see you using one 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members khorse Posted May 30, 2022 Members Report Share Posted May 30, 2022 i like to use a big strapon on the wife. 1st time she was no not interested but then she let me and had multi o's 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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