Members Juls Posted March 11, 2019 Members Report Share Posted March 11, 2019 IDK what to do maybe someone can offer advice. What do you do when your significant other makes you feel unwanted? And do you discuss it find out what's going on with him or do you just say fuck this I'm out Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Juls Posted March 11, 2019 Author Members Report Share Posted March 11, 2019 I give up Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members David Eugene Posted March 11, 2019 Members Report Share Posted March 11, 2019 I am not Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Juan Posted March 11, 2019 Members Report Share Posted March 11, 2019 Try talking 1st... than give up Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members rb3_67 Posted March 11, 2019 Members Report Share Posted March 11, 2019 Have you told him how he makes you feel? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Juls Posted March 11, 2019 Author Members Report Share Posted March 11, 2019 Over and over and over again 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Juls Posted March 11, 2019 Author Members Report Share Posted March 11, 2019 He just told me he's been talking to someone else since January. No wonder things seemed funny. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members rb3_67 Posted March 11, 2019 Members Report Share Posted March 11, 2019 Sorry to hear it. May be time to just ask him flat out whether he wants you around or not. If he says he does, make it clear there have to be some changes. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Juls Posted March 11, 2019 Author Members Report Share Posted March 11, 2019 He's made it clear he doesn't Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Juls Posted March 11, 2019 Author Members Report Share Posted March 11, 2019 He gave me my answer.... I'm out 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members rb3_67 Posted March 11, 2019 Members Report Share Posted March 11, 2019 Maybe not what you were hoping for, but at least now you know and can move on. 😕 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Juls Posted March 11, 2019 Author Members Report Share Posted March 11, 2019 It's not what I want Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members rb3_67 Posted March 11, 2019 Members Report Share Posted March 11, 2019 I'm sorry. Feel free to message me if you want to chat. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Juls Posted March 11, 2019 Author Members Report Share Posted March 11, 2019 It is what it is I'll b fine tho but thanks Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Juan Posted March 11, 2019 Members Report Share Posted March 11, 2019 Its not worth trying to love someone who doesn't love ya back... move on life's to short...you'll regret staying trust me. wtf are you wasting your time he sounds like a complete asshole. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Juls Posted March 11, 2019 Author Members Report Share Posted March 11, 2019 It ain't worth it. I regret the entire relationship and I feel like a fool Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Greg Besancon Posted March 11, 2019 Members Report Share Posted March 11, 2019 Don't feel like a fool. Sometimes shit happens. You will find somebody better. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Juls Posted March 11, 2019 Author Members Report Share Posted March 11, 2019 Eventually Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Juls Posted March 12, 2019 Author Members Report Share Posted March 12, 2019 It does but it'll get better Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tyger Posted March 15, 2019 Report Share Posted March 15, 2019 I'm sorry you went thru that. My ex husband, at the end of our relationship, made me feel unwanted. He was unemployed (claiming he couldn't find a job because everyone were assholes). And he was completely dependent on me. But also refused to help around the house, and bitched if it was messy. Though I was working 40+ hours a week, and taking our daughter to her karate lessons, he sat on his ass and played video games. I finally asked myself first, and then him, what was he doing there except eating food I bought and taking up space? Absolutely nothing. He knew I was alone in the bedroom a lot, and he played video games instead of spending time with his wife. So, when I say BTDT, I have. Anyone that makes you feel less-than is not worthy of your time. You can't force someone to feel things they don't, nor can you control what they do or whom they speak to. It's up to them to be loyal and true to their significant other. I'm sorry you're going thru this, but, you will learn from this, become stronger, and be a better person in your next relationship.....on YOUR terms!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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