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How to tell the wife I'm possibly bi or gay?


Andrew

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First off, I just want to say I love coming on this site. I get to talk about my deepest fantasies without judgement and get to read the wild stories and fantasies of people going through similar situations. I've been seeing my woman for almost 12 years now and been married for six. One thing though that I've never shared with any of my friends and family including my wife is my fantasies about men and enjoyment of all-male porn. I don't watch porn or look at nude magazines often but when I do it's of men. Hot young men with huge hard dicks. Don't get me wrong, I still find women attractive and still enjoy being with my wife but if I want to watch porn, it's now almost always gay porn. As I've said on this site many times, I have intense fantasies about not only being with men but being the woman with a man. I also love to wear women's lingerie which I know doesn't necessarily go with being interested in guys but it helps tap into another side of myself that I normally don't reveal to my friends and family. My wife and I grew up in more conservative, religious environments. How do I talk with her about this and what are ways to broach the topic with her? 

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I recently started wearing panties around my wife, not all the time just sometimes.  She bought me one pair.  It took her a little time to kinda get use to it that i wanted to wear panties.  I have asked her to peg me but as yet she is not into the idea.  I guess be slow and honest.  I also would like to try a man in only a sexual way but don't think I could ever tell her.  

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Thank you for your response. I'm scared to ask my wife to peg me. We think a lot of the same men are cute. I would love to think she is open minded enough to respond well to that, but I don't know. It will be a slow process.

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