Just Need To Vent

[Juzjon]

Hello to all. I am taking this chance just to vent a little. FIRST, It just isn't fair that my wife can have ten orgasms to my one period! (I want that too) SECOND, Each time I go to the department store 7/8ths of the goods sold there are for women (agh) THIRD, We get an average of 15 catalogs a week, one is for men (steaming). Now, the big one FOURTH, Every sex toy site has nine hundred and thirty fun toys for the ladies and girls and only a dozen for us guys (most of which are designed for gay men or look absolutely stupid). No, I'm not running a bunch of pearl beads up my butthole. What would be wrong if one of these inventors took a serious look at the male products that could be used as a part of foreplay? Something like a velcro vibrating sleeve that fits any size and drives a man crazy...... I think the ladies would love to see that happen. Ok, thats off my chest and I feel better. You all have a nice day.

Juz

[Mikayla1]

OK, I understand your frustration. However, I have to say THIS:

First, any toy that makes your SO happy is a GOOD TOY For you too! Reason: if we are horny and worked up, we want to fuck you more. If you are secure enough to help us use our toys, that turns us on too. ALSO, if you have never watched your SO use a sex toy - try it - it is most certainly for YOU - the view anyway!

Second, there are a lot of toys for boys here. Masturbators, realistic pussies, cock rings and pretty much any bullet or simple vibe can be used to enhance a blowjob or a handjob! Which also brings me to all the lotions, penis massage creams and such that are sold here! Yes, it is a lot less than for "women" you do have options.

Third, let your SO put something up your ass - you will LOVE it. Anal play is NOT only for gay guys - it is for any guy who wants an oustanding orgasm!

So, there I go, I got to vent too!

Mikayla

[Juzjon]

OK, I understand your frustration. However, I have to say THIS:

First, any toy that makes your SO happy is a GOOD TOY For you too! Reason: if we are horny and worked up, we want to fuck you more. If you are secure enough to help us use our toys, that turns us on too. ALSO, if you have never watched your SO use a sex toy - try it - it is most certainly for YOU - the view anyway!

Second, there are a lot of toys for boys here. Masturbators, realistic pussies, cock rings and pretty much any bullet or simple vibe can be used to enhance a blowjob or a handjob! Which also brings me to all the lotions, penis massage creams and such that are sold here! Yes, it is a lot less than for "women" you do have options.

Third, let your SO put something up your ass - you will LOVE it. Anal play is NOT only for gay guys - it is for any guy who wants an oustanding orgasm!

So, there I go, I got to vent too!

Mikayla

Mikayla, First, I totally agree with you about the toys and watching... watch her all the time and it is a total turn on for me, and that is why we've purchased so many goodies from Too Timid. Secondly, I don't agree about the realistic pussy thing, but then again, everyone has a right for opionons right? If she saw my laying next to her with a simulated pussy, I think she'd feel like I was screwing someone else. As far as number three goes, if you've ever had hemorrhoids, I don't think the anal thing would be a turn on for you either.

Thank you for your honest feedback (vent). This is a wonderful site to help people of all walks.

p.s. I meant no disrespect when I mentioned gays.

[nosleepnmesa]

Hi Juzjon, Just needed to add my two cents to this. I agree with Mikayla on her views. I have to say though here there are quit a few products for men and couples. I just wrote a review on a cock ring that vibrates it drove my hubby nuts. The clit stimulator on it drove me nuts. So there are many different options here.

Also my hubby gets hemorroids every now and then when they aren't flared up anal doesn't bother him in the least. I have also used one of my bullets on him, vibrated his sack and penis and all. I believe that there are plenty of toys not only for women but also for men. Alot of them are really for couples I know that my hubby LOVES and I mean LOVES to watch me and help me play. My husband also loves the clit buddy. Here is a link to it, in fact he put it at the top of our toy box. http://shop.tootimid.com/index.asp?PageAct...ROD&ProdID=5033

Sorry just had to put in my two cents worth here.

[Juzjon]

Katprr, There goes another nickle. (or maybe that was a dime). We spend a ton on sex goodies and we are both very open minded sensual people. Some things work as advertised, while others are a waste of plastic and laytex. Since you gave me a suggested site, here's a favor returned.... http://www.eroscillator.com pricey, but then again..."What price glory?" ....especillay when levitation is a result.

Thanks,

Juz

[Juzjon]

Mr. Teacher Howard,

I have tried just about everything sexual imaginable. I am not in need of advice. I was just making my statement from my own personal point of view. I would never in a gazillion years not want a woman to have as many orgasms as she wants until she either falls fast asleep or faints. I have read and experimented with tantra...I have worked on ropes, but here once more... this is a natural thing for the ladies and I simply envy them. If I were God (which I am not) I would have encircled the vagina with a dozen clits right at the vaginal opening but that is a wild unimaginable fantasy. Carry on good Sir, and good luck

Juz

[Juzjon]

No Sir, I am the lucky one. I had spent more than half of my life living with a sexually dysfunctional highly opinionated male basher until I met and fell deeply in love with my new wife of five years. Sure, I was able to teach her a few tricks, but until her, I never realized how precious and fragile the female really is. If you have love, understanding and patience, the rest will follow. Especially with an open mind and the art of being able to listen not just with ears, but with heart.

Wonderful site you have here... keep it up.

Juz

[blewits]

Awww Ju, I think I love you!

Anywho, It sounds as though you and your wife are on the same playing field as my husband and I. I know that if a vibrating pussy excited my husband, I wouldn't think twice about him using it. Afterall, look at all the stuff I get to play with. If it's one more toy for him that gets him off, I am happy to see him use it and more than happy to participate in playing with him.

I would like to know if the breathing techniques and touching after orgasms that Howard talks about will work for men. Maybe he could address that here. I am currently working on that and I would love, love, love it if my husband could explore that with me. Whats good for the gander is good for the goose. I have not yet read up on tantric as Howard mentioned. But the tips Howard gave on breathing, etc to help a woman become multi orgasmic are helping me already.

I'll be writing a big fat thank you and semi-success story on the "Everything Else" board later.

A vagina surrounded by clit's? WOW!

Delicious!

[Mikayla1]

Clearly, Ju is a wonderful hubby - and that is wonderful for him and his wife!

Also, if you are interested in having multiples, look for my article on the subject coming soon! If you haven't already, read the one on orgasms and the G-Spot article - they are both on the front page.

As far as male multiple orgasm, I practice Tantric sex regularly, and I can say that it is possible for a MAN to have multiples, but it takes a lot of practice (for us it was over a year) and the orgasms you have are not always ejaculatory! So, if you have "tried" Tantra, I beg you to try it harder, longer and have more patience, because my hubby swears by our Tantric sessions!

That eroscillator lookes similiar to the Synergy Pleasure System that we sell here. Wonderful for stimulation of women - designed by an institute of women!

As far as the realistic pussy goes - that is personal preference! I would not at all mind if my hubby wanted to use one - doesn't bother me a bit. However, different strokes.....

Glad you like the site,

Mikayla

[smariette]

I agree that there aren't enough sex toys out there for men. I was looking one for my boyfriend and there is a very lack of interesting things, but like others have said, most vibrators and the such can also be used on the man.. and ALSO, I feel like the toys are better for both sexes. I know nothing is more sexy to my boyfrined when I'm playing with myself (and having him play with me as well) with a lot of toys, especially for men who can't last long enough for the woman to acheive orgasm.

[blewits]

Thanks Howard,

I will look into the Tantric experience. I must say however 10 to 20 minutes does not bother me. Personally, I enjoy the talking and touching time after climax. It's a good time to gently stroke my husbands back, neck, etc. and for us to talk to one another. Lately our lovemaking has lasted one to two hours so waiting to play again is not an issue.

I was unclear about how long it usually takes for a male to be able to become hard again so that he can have another orgasm. It has been our experience that he will hold off until the end to come. I just hate that he has to wait but if he can regain in twenty mins. or so, we'll just start again. I'm in training anyhow so the extra "practice" won't kill me!

[Tyger]

Please don't resent the fact that women can have so many orgasms. Think of it as God's compensation for all that cramping, bleeding, swelling, sweating, and misery women go through once a month with their menstrual cycles.

Howard

I love you for that!!!!

Some men's toys are kind of silly looking, I will agree with you on that. But if your GF can use a dildo or vibrator, some of which look very much like a real penis, what is the big deal of a SIMULATED pussy? What's good for the goose....and all that jazz!

If you look around, you can definitely find some interesting male sex toys.

Oh, and BTW, most porns are geared for men, and there are more male geared "adult" mags out there. So maybe it just evens out in the end? *No pun intended there*.