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Anyone around here?? Post a bedroom "myth" below that you feel is simply not true. We will run this contest this week and on Tues 6/11/19, I will message a winner at random who leaves their thoughts. You are allowed to post multiple times, but it doesn't increase your chance of winning. Although, I genuinely will enjoy reading responses so leave as many as you'd like!

Mine is that women need aggressive clit stimulation to orgasm. (Damn you, mainstream porn!)

Slower and gentle is my preference!

P.S. If you spam this thread with advertisements or nudes, you won't qualify to win and you'll be deleted.

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Here's my personal pet peeve: most sex scenes in movies, shows and even literature show hetero couples cumming at the same time... Not to say that couples can't or don't, but I just think it really puts male pleasure first and makes it seem as though most/all women can cum from a few minutes of PIV sex only. Again, I'm talking the old hump and slump– the guy gives a few good pumps while the woman moans wildly, and then they cut to a scene of both partners falling back onto the bed panting and satisfied. 

I've heard too many stories IRL of men that asked their partners "DiD u CuM bAbE?" after a few minutes of lack luster sex. 

If you had to ask, she didn't cum 😛 

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Biggest myth thanks to porn is pounding your partners anus straight from the get go, and her loving every second of it

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I think the biggest myth is that everyone thinks Bigger is Better. Maybe true for some but not all.

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Masturbation is bad for you

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6 hours ago, Emily said:

Here's my personal pet peeve: most sex scenes in movies, shows and even literature show hetero couples cumming at the same time... Not to say that couples can't or don't, but I just think it really puts male pleasure first and makes it seem as though most/all women can cum from a few minutes of PIV sex only. Again, I'm talking the old hump and slump– the guy gives a few good pumps while the woman moans wildly, and then they cut to a scene of both partners falling back onto the bed panting and satisfied. 

I've heard too many stories IRL of men that asked their partners "DiD u CuM bAbE?" after a few minutes of lack luster sex. 

If you had to ask, she didn't cum 😛 

Yes so true. And if you don't make your woman cum first, have you really even been there? Make her cum and when you cum it will be more pleasurable because you know that she got hers and then helped you reach maximum pleasure. Just my thoughts. But the female she always get hers first.

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Have you ever heard the myth, that if you put a bean in a jar every time you had sex the first year of marriage, then removed one every time you had sex after that first year you would never empty the jar.  It seems to get better every year, and although we slow down as we age, there is still a lot of love to be made.

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I have a few actually!!!

But, due to this being a contest, I will choose just one each post:

If a woman is really turned on, they shouldn't NEED lube, no matter what.

HUGE MYTH!!!

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All women just LOOOOOVE giving blowjobs. In fact, when giving a blowjob, they should act like a porn star!!! 

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Another myth:

All men love aggressive/rough sex.

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And, my final thought:

All women just get sooooo turned on by breast/nipple play and will cum just because of that.

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Myth, just because she’s reserved outside of the bedroom, she wouldn’t be open to experimenting in the bedroom.

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On 6/7/2019 at 8:44 PM, Tyger said:

Another myth:

All men love aggressive/rough sex.

Very true, I have been trying to encourage my wife to be a little kore aggressive, tried to express to her that I wouldn’t mind a rimjob while performing oral and even a finger to prob my prostate, but so far nothing. 

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That women are the ones that are slow and take there time in sex and men just want to cum and get it over with. 

I am the one in our relationship that usually slows things down.

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On 6/4/2019 at 3:17 PM, Emily said:

Here's my personal pet peeve: most sex scenes in movies, shows and even literature show hetero couples cumming at the same time... Not to say that couples can't or don't, but I just think it really puts male pleasure first and makes it seem as though most/all women can cum from a few minutes of PIV sex only. Again, I'm talking the old hump and slump– the guy gives a few good pumps while the woman moans wildly, and then they cut to a scene of both partners falling back onto the bed panting and satisfied. 

I've heard too many stories IRL of men that asked their partners "DiD u CuM bAbE?" after a few minutes of lack luster sex. 

If you had to ask, she didn't cum 😛 

@Emily so glad I came across your response. I totally agree as you stated. Current day porno is all the sexual pleasure of the man. If I want to look at a guys penis I would watch man porno. I've evaluated that a 90 minute film is made of 20 minute episodes. Your shown the guy had his orgasms ussauly on the ladies face. Again if I wanted to see a guys penis and orgasms, I would watch men porn. Never see the ladies orgasmic juice flow all over the guy,you hear her fake moaning.. 

Ok I feel better!

 

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The biggest myth had to be that sex is just like the pornos! These young kids with all the available porn. Can you imagine what they are trying thinking it's average or "normal", line  just slamming it in her butt right from the beginning? Etc..

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This has to be the strangest and most naive thing I've been asked, bc I'm I'm Asian does my slit slant?? He was a full grown man! (30 year old virgin kind, but nonetheless...) back before the internet was a big thing. 

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Guest Katie

You know, I used to aspire to porn like sex like so many of you are mentioning above. Sometimes when all the planets are aligned I would get a good time out of it. But not usually. Watch the movie Love on Netflix...it’s hot sex like many couples have. They actually are really having sex and enjoying it in the movie. The very first second of the movie starts out with sex. I love to watch that scene, then fast forward through the plot to the next sex scene, and the next. It is such a hot movie because it is real. It’s what really feels good...at least for me. 

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