Why Won't You Try Anal?

[thurisas]

Maybe this is just me, but in my mind I have always been the giver, not the receiver. It wasn't until I started reading TooTimid forums that I got the nerve to try anything anal. I have to say the first time wierded me out, not because something was up my ass, but because something was entering me and I certainly wasn't used to that emotionally. I got over it in fairly quick order, though, because I want to eventually be able to see what pleasure can be derived from the experience. I'm still making myself used to the penetration right now and will eventually work my way around to the rest.

Randy.

[jj53]

All that I can say is a man who doesn't try anal sex, and I mean him getting penetrated, doesn't know what he's missing. Some of the greatest orgasms I've ever had were with Di using a vibe, dildo, or finger on my ass. Besides having great orgasms the part Di loves is it's one of the few ways we have sex where I can have orgasms without cumming and if I don't cum I just keep going like the Energizer Bunny having orgasm after orgasm until I explode in one huge cum shooting orgasm. Di loves being able to give me multiple orgasms just like I do for her. I have quite a collection of anal toys including four Aneros prostrate massagers, numerous anal vibes, and Di lets me use her G-spot vibes as long as I put a condom on them. Theres nothing gay about anal sex just some great feelings.

[Bugs0825]

I even have a few friends that are this way and not to stero type but most of them are or were jocks.

Now this I don't get. A "jock" can walk around naked in a locker room with a bunch of guys. Even get 10 slaps on the ass for a touchdown. But, cannot get kinky with his girl?

Some dude slaps my ass and hes getting stuck in the jaw. My wife wants to get kinky and i'm all game.

bugs

[Kinky Twinkie]

Now this I don't get. A "jock" can walk around naked in a locker room with a bunch of guys. Even get 10 slaps on the ass for a touchdown. But, cannot get kinky with his girl?

Some dude slaps my ass and hes getting stuck in the jaw. My wife wants to get kinky and i'm all game.

bugs

I dont get that either but I gettinge excited because my wife said she would stap on the strap on and fuck me with it after the baby goes to bed.The bed gonna be drenched in pre cum you just know it. yummy. 5 hours and counting.

Glenn

[toohotcatmom]

My hubby and I had the anal discussion - he's totally turned off by giving and receiving - and I haven't told him yet that I LIKE anal penetration - something I'll keep to myself for a while.

His main turn-off....the messiness and the thought of what comes out of there. He's not good with bodily excretions anyway (probably why he doesn't do oral sex on me - although he's thinking about it). It's a good thing we never had children!

We may get there yet though...when he's more confident in his sexuality.

[mensaphiliac]

I would try it, but the Wyf isn't too keen on it. Or, that's my impression at least. I've asked her to a couple times, but she always gives up prematurely.

She's also said she would like to try anal, but very little effort is made. Maybe someday.

[Kinky Twinkie]

I dont get that either but I gettinge excited because my wife said she would stap on the strap on and fuck me with it after the baby goes to bed.The bed gonna be drenched in pre cum you just know it. yummy. 5 hours and counting.

Glenn

She came, I came and it was awsome. Ya'll gotta try it

Glenn

[zakdad]

This is one of the best orgasms you can have!! That is where our (male) G-Spot is and it's called the prostrate!! I didn't want to try it at first, but after reading about the prostrate gland, I was willing to try! Now I am addicted to my wife anally penatrating my ass as long as it's not something huge! If it has a vibration, all the better! It is great with a huge orgasm to boot!

I do understand why most men don't want to go there! Most have that gay thing or exit only thoughts, but they just don't know what they are missing!!

Peace,

M

[wombat62]

This is one of the best orgasms you can have!! That is where our (male) G-Spot is and it's called the prostrate!! I didn't want to try it at first, but after reading about the prostrate gland, I was willing to try! Now I am addicted to my wife anally penatrating my ass as long as it's not something huge! If it has a vibration, all the better! It is great with a huge orgasm to boot!

I do understand why most men don't want to go there! Most have that gay thing or exit only thoughts, but they just don't know what they are missing!!

Peace,

M

i love when my wife put on her strap on . boy she knows how to use toy cock. i was worried a first , but after a few times it feels great.

[Shoop]

EXCELLENT question!

My ex-husband denied HUGELY that he wanted anything up his ass. For some reason I FELT in my being that this was a lie but I refused to do it to him anyways since he wasn't giving ME any foreplay at all. I ended up finding out when we were splitting up that he indeed masterbated with a hairbrush handle up his ass. WHY OH WHY didn't he just tell me he liked that when I questioned him????

My current boyfriend was MUCH more open and he openly admits to liking a finger.

[spanky]

My wife does not want to do it, we tried it a couple of times and she said it hurt. may not enough lube. I enjoy it for me I have asked her to use a strap on on me but she kind of blew it off. I wish she would try it again now that I have read more on it, or even try it on me.

[Orlando]

Now, I have quite a few male friends and all but 2 of them says "No way is anything going up MY ass!" In my estimation, there has to be some kind of irrational fear here. If they are with loving partners - why not try it?

Thanks,

Mikayla

Easy to answer for me. Hemorrhoids. Blood and pain - not sexy, not fun. No thanks .

[bgechloe]

You dont get hemorrhoids if you do it slow there is no blood or pain and it feels great. there is no diff in a guy or a girl doing anal and I must say that none of the above will happen if you start small and work up to the whole thing. Trust me Try doing it on your own use one hand to use a butt plug and one to masterbate with and stay relaxed it is good times Most of all be open minded!!!

[Tyger]

Bubbles is right. If you go slow, and start off small, anal sex can be very pleasurable. In fact, my hubby (a MAN'S man type of guy), admits to being totally shocked but totally loving anal sex! I'm still awed by the fact that he was willing to try it. But, again, if you have an open mind, as she said, anything's possible!

[hot4hubby]

Easy to answer for me. Hemorrhoids. Blood and pain - not sexy, not fun. No thanks .

I so agree. Hubby and I tried it and i burned like fire. Took me awhile to relax after that. Don't think we will try it again.

[12GAUGE]

i ask hubby and i got a very quick and firm "NO WAY" , i asked him "why do you think it makes you "gay" ?" he said "no, i just dont want ANYTHING in my ass, not even your finger, it does nothing for me AT ALL ."

which is funny, because hes all about getting up into my ass any way he can.

You should get him good and drunk and then jump his bones....while you are screwing him "every which way you can" you should diddle his ass with a WELL lubed finger or finger like toy (they are available). Someone mentioned giving him an amazing hummer and as he's about to unload slide a WELL lubed three inch finger up his ass...after he drowns you with his cum he may change his tune. Peace

[12GAUGE]

You should get him good and drunk and then jump his bones....while you are screwing him "every which way you can" you should diddle his ass with a WELL lubed finger or finger like toy (they are available). Someone mentioned giving him an amazing hummer and as he's about to unload slide a WELL lubed three inch finger up his ass...after he drowns you with his cum he may change his tune. Peace

YAY !! YAY!! YAY!! I AM NO LONGER A VIRGIN ! ! ! So now I am an INTERN huh? Perhaps I should change my handle to DR DAN? Or DR FEELGOOD? I have MANY thoughts on anal play 4 us dudes and it is NOT typical and I am NOT gay......... Just ask Mykayla1 or Howard 45.70 they'll tell ya.........Peace kids 12G

[Amylynn920]

Hey 12guage.. where ya been? I haven't seen you around for awhile. And no we know you're not gay. The problem is that the stigma of "gay" surrounds all anal play for men. Which is silly, the prostate does it's job as effectively as our Gspot. It has nothing to do with sexual orientation.

I do have to say though that I disagree with getting anyone drunk to try something new. New things should be talked about beforehand. Just my .02 cents.

[12GAUGE]

Hey guys, I have a question for you. After trying religiously to get my hubby to enjoy and relax during anal penetration - he finally has and LOVED it!

Now, I have quite a few male friends and all but 2 of them says "No way is anything going up MY ass!" In my estimation, there has to be some kind of irrational fear here. If they are with loving partners - why not try it?

So, I was wondering for you guys here who say "no way" - why not? What is your rational for not trying something that is becoming almost mainstream among heterosexual couples now?

Thanks,

Mikayla

HOWDY ALL!! Well I was away the last coupla years...had my own sweetie and everything that THAT ENTAILS. Back to square one these days....but its cool. Before I went away to the land of milk and nooky I was here alot. I saw Mikayla1 shell out ALOT of excellent advice. And Howard 45.70 too. A couple of real smart cookies these two. Some of that advice even worked for me a few times cuz my lady was/is a serious drama queen. Thats not why I am here on Anal Avenue tonite. All this time I figured that Mikayla being the sexual pioneer she is would someday prove to Her Man what He was missing. Congratulations Sir...you are now one of THE ENLIGHTENED ONES. I too grew up with the notion that my ass was an EXIT ONLY. Not true not true. Every single buddy I've ever had was a str8te cat like me. Some of us fucked our ladies in the ass (when they would let us...) I've only done it once and that was over 14 years ago. The 1st hummer I ever got I was 18 or 19 +or- . It was the most infuckincredible state of sheer bliss I had ever known. She had me right on the edge of my cum. I was about to shoot but I couldn't and she wasn't gonna let me when all of a sudden she started to rim me like A MANIAC!!! Now I didn't blow my nut but I think it was one continous ASSGASM she was giving me as she swirled her tongue and tongue fucked me and she had me thrashin' around in that van like a fish outta the water!!! But it wasn't pain...I was delirious with PLEASURE!!! Fact is I completely forgot about my dick. Seems like the rimming lasted 10 minutes. But I couldn't be sure then or now. I just knew DON'T STOP!! DON'T STOP!!!! DON'T STOP!!!!!!!!!!!! But she planted an idea in my head that night and I will love her forever for that. If someone can give you sexual pleasure so fucking intense that you could pass out or hallucinate wouldn't YOU WANNA DO THAT AGIN?!?!?!?!?? IT AIN'T ROCKET SCIENCE KIDS!!! OF COURSE YOU WOULD!!!!! All of a sudden she just stopped doin' me. I collected myself as best I could (I was a mess). We got out and went in and smoked a BIG J of really fine weed and then sat in the 2nd roll UP FRONT so close to the band KRAFTWERK they were hittin us with sweat and spit!!! KRAFTWERK ROCKED MY WORLD!!! My ass was humming and all was fine with the planet and Dans' world. Now since about 2000 or so I have been fucking myself in the ass with various dongs,vibes and such. About 3 years ago I was 8 hours or so into a session when it was KRAFTWERK ALL OVER AGIN!!!!! I was really getting it on and was SUPER TURNED ON when I hit my sweet spot just rightttttttttt!!!!!!!!! It was pretty freakin' scary at first! My ass muscles seized up around Mr Big and my ass and legs were jumpin like I was having an epileptic seizure I SHIT YOU NOT!!! Near as I can tell my assgasm lasted about 2 minutes. I DID NOT have a hardon. This had NOTHIN" to do with my dick. My body was so absolutely spent I just laid there for about 10 minutes. My ass muscles FINALLY LET GO and Mr Big slid out on his own. I was so completely fucked out I fell asleep. Later I halfass tried for a repeat but I was out of gas. To this day that has only happened just the one time. And it has not been for a lack of trying I can assure all of you. The male prostate is as ELUSIVE as a womans G-spot...perhaps more so. All of you guys that are saying no to this whole new realm of sexual fun and enlightenment GET OUT OF THE DARK AGES!!!! THE CIVIL WAR IS OVER!!! THE IRON CURTAIN HAS FALLEN!!!! WAKE UP AND SMELL THE ROSES!!! And to Mikaylas' Hubby....GOOD ON YA SIR ! I TAKE MY HAT OFF TO YOU SIR!! peace in our lifetime/BRING OUR TROOPS HOME NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[COUNTRYBOY]

Hey guys, I have a question for you. After trying religiously to get my hubby to enjoy and relax during anal penetration - he finally has and LOVED it!

Now, I have quite a few male friends and all but 2 of them says "No way is anything going up MY ass!" In my estimation, there has to be some kind of irrational fear here. If they are with loving partners - why not try it?

So, I was wondering for you guys here who say "no way" - why not? What is your rational for not trying something that is becoming almost mainstream among heterosexual couples now?

Thanks,

Mikayla

[COUNTRYBOY]

Hey guys, I have a question for you. After trying religiously to get my hubby to enjoy and relax during anal penetration - he finally has and LOVED it!

Now, I have quite a few male friends and all but 2 of them says "No way is anything going up MY ass!" In my estimation, there has to be some kind of irrational fear here. If they are with loving partners - why not try it?

So, I was wondering for you guys here who say "no way" - why not? What is your rational for not trying something that is becoming almost mainstream among heterosexual couples now?

Thanks,

Mikayla

IWOULD LOVE TO TRY IT BUT MY WIFE WONT TRY ANYTHING NEW AND SHE ALSO THINKS ITS DIRTY

[COUNTRYBOY]

I WOULD LOVE TO TRY IT BUT MY WIFE DONT WANT NO PART OF IT SHE NEVER WANTS TO TRY ANY THING NEW

[12GAUGE]

I WOULD LOVE TO TRY IT BUT MY WIFE DONT WANT NO PART OF IT SHE NEVER WANTS TO TRY ANY THING NEW

HEY C'MON BARNBOY thats really a big crock of she y t!!! All you other guys that are wanting to bend over for your wives to do you w/the strapon aren't foolin' me a bit!! 1) 1st time my gf "pegged" me. We were in a 69 and WITH NO WARNING SHE SUNK HER FINGER INTO MY ASS. She began to turn her finger while she pushed in and out. I froze up like a deer in headlights!!! I immediately forgot about the incredible hummer she was giving me because her finger was DRIVING ME OVER THE EDGE. BASICALLY I JUST COLLAPSED on top of her and continued to howl and squirm in the sheer delight she was giving me. After awhile she stopped but I was spent. Thinking back on that day it must have been a continous orgasm from the time she fingered me till she stopped. I would have done anything for her at that time if there was to be more anal fun for me. 2) After getting fingered I had to get her to fuck me. After alot of pleading and near begging she agreed. She was afraid she would hurt me. Granted she was a bit clumsy at first and I needed more lube than usual. I was coaching her move by move but after maybe 5 or 10 minutes she was dialed in....and then it started to get incredible. She wouldn't use the harness like I wanted her to. Even still for about 20 minutes I was in bottom boy HEAVEN ! ! ! Now as I've just said my gf did me twice. Where do you all think I was getting it the last 5 to 7 years??? My sweetie is the 1st lady I EVER TOLD........C'MON GUYS....IF YOUR WIVES AND OLD LADIES WON'T DO YOU GO SOOOLLLLLLLOOOOOOO!!!!!!!! ITS NOT ROCKET SCIENCE!!! 1) TAKE A LONG HOT SHOWER AND HAVE AN ENEMA IF NEEDED 2) SET THE SCENE W/CANDLES-INCENSE-HAVE A COCKTAIL-SMOKE A BOWL PUT IN A PORN DVD-PULL OUT SOME STROKE BOOKS-PUT DOWN SOME TOWELS OR USE RUBBER SHEETS (THATS WHAT I DO NOW) LAY OUT YOUR TOYS AND LUBE ON THEIR OWN TOWEL. 3) TIME TO GET DOWN TO IT...4) SOME OF YOU LUCKY guys with open minded wives or SO or GF might get home early and CATCH YOU AT IT and get so dog gone HORNY they'll join you and DO YOU ! ! ! 5) THATS ALL THERE IS TO IT!! SERIOUSLY!! BE HONEST HERE FOR CRYING OUT LOUD!!! B4 you had a wife or SO or gf or fwb we all went solo. He did-You did-That old guy by the tree did it too!! ME TOO ! ! ! TAKE SOME PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY 4 YOUR OWN ORGASMS C'MON NOW!! GET IT TOGETHER!!!

[12GAUGE]

IWOULD LOVE TO TRY IT BUT MY WIFE WONT TRY ANYTHING NEW AND SHE ALSO THINKS ITS DIRTY

TAKE A SHOWER W/YOUR WIFE-HAVE HER GIVE YOU AN ENEMA!! TRY WATERSPORTS IN THE SHOWER!! BEND HER OVER/GIVE HER A REACH AROUND WHILE YOU'RE SHOWERING....GET YOURSELF READY W/A BULLET VIBE IN THE ASS B4 JUMPIN IN THE SHOWER B ) W/HER. DRIVE YOUR TONGUE INTO HER STARFISH AND YOU'LL HAVE HER BEGGIN FO MO!!! USE YO FREAKIN IMAGINATION BOY!!! GIT SUM ! ! !

[oldkinky]

All that I can say is a man who doesn't try anal sex, and I mean him getting penetrated, doesn't know what he's missing. Some of the greatest orgasms I've ever had were with Di using a vibe, dildo, or finger on my ass. Besides having great orgasms the part Di loves is it's one of the few ways we have sex where I can have orgasms without cumming and if I don't cum I just keep going like the Energizer Bunny having orgasm after orgasm until I explode in one huge cum shooting orgasm. Di loves being able to give me multiple orgasms just like I do for her. I have quite a collection of anal toys including four Aneros prostrate massagers, numerous anal vibes, and Di lets me use her G-spot vibes as long as I put a condom on them. Theres nothing gay about anal sex just some great feelings.

DW always uses a vibrating anal toy to massage my prostate while she gives me a BJ. Really intensifies my orgasms. DW loves to do this to me.

We also use a strap on. She loves to do me with the strap on. Our favorite strap on is called Bend Over Beginner Kit. It has a harness, two small silicone dildos and a vibrator that fits in the harness to stimulate her clitoris while she does me. It is so erotic to see her wearing the strap on. She loves it too and she gets so hot and talks dirty about her dick and how much she likes to fuck me in the ass. We usually cum at the same time. She had wanted to do this for some time, but never mentioned it until I did.

Many years ago I never dreamed that I would like doing this. Then as I began to understand my prostate, I purchased a vibrating anal toy and asked DW to use it on me while she gave me a BJ. She did and what an orgasm-WOW i was hooked. Then we proceeded to a strap on.

From what I read gay guys do mostly oral and not anal. Does that mean that oral sex is gay? Of course not. Neither is anal between a man and a woman.

Couples you don't know what you are missing if you don't do strap on sex. Guys get to know your prostate for the best orgasms of your life.