Members Confused 22 Posted August 12, 2019 Members Report Share Posted August 12, 2019 Hello I'm a 22 year old female student that's very confused over the way iv been thinking and acting. I really have no one to ask or talk about this this just seems like a logical place to ask questions of this sort. Maby get some opinions or advice or even guidance. Ok I guess I have to put it out there. I have noticed my sexual fantasies have been changing to very much darker places. Also some of the things I do or the way I act. It's been slow but gradual. One of those things you dont really realize until something happens that makes you realize it. Now I noticed I'm watching very hardcore porn and hentai subjects that I know I probably shouldn't and in short I loose myself in the fantasies of it. Here is the deal though. Normally I'm very reserved for the most part. I'm not a slut lol but I'm not a nun either. But a normal sexual encounter just doesn't work for me anymore. Well that's enough for now. If anyone wants to give me their insight or guidance I would love to hear from you. I'm just woundering if the pressure from work and school is making me crack up and what I should do about it. Thanks 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members InLikeFlynn Posted August 13, 2019 Members Report Share Posted August 13, 2019 You sound pretty normal to me. Just have fun with it and stay safe. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members saltybear Posted August 13, 2019 Members Report Share Posted August 13, 2019 Sounds normal healthy sexual exploring. Be safe which I find this site good place to learn new pleasures. I'm old and learn something all the time Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members saltybear Posted August 16, 2019 Members Report Share Posted August 16, 2019 On 8/12/2019 at 1:46 PM, Confused 22 said: Hello I'm a 22 year old female student that's very confused over the way iv been thinking and acting. I really have no one to ask or talk about this this just seems like a logical place to ask questions of this sort. Maby get some opinions or advice or even guidance. Ok I guess I have to put it out there. I have noticed my sexual fantasies have been changing to very much darker places. Also some of the things I do or the way I act. It's been slow but gradual. One of those things you dont really realize until something happens that makes you realize it. Now I noticed I'm watching very hardcore porn and hentai subjects that I know I probably shouldn't and in short I loose myself in the fantasies of it. Here is the deal though. Normally I'm very reserved for the most part. I'm not a slut lol but I'm not a nun either. But a normal sexual encounter just doesn't work for me anymore. Well that's enough for now. If anyone wants to give me their insight or guidance I would love to hear from you. I'm just woundering if the pressure from work and school is making me crack up and what I should do about it. Thanks Fantasy all the time 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Confused 22 Posted August 20, 2019 Author Members Report Share Posted August 20, 2019 For the few replies I have received thanks. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members saltybear Posted August 20, 2019 Members Report Share Posted August 20, 2019 @Confused 22 your very welcome. If you have more questions feel free to message back. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Suzaniam Posted August 20, 2019 Members Report Share Posted August 20, 2019 I know the feeling, I also have some fantasies that are disturbing sometimes... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Confused 22 Posted August 20, 2019 Author Members Report Share Posted August 20, 2019 15 minutes ago, Suzaniam said: I know the feeling, I also have some fantasies that are disturbing sometimes... So do you just keep them to your self. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Suzaniam Posted August 20, 2019 Members Report Share Posted August 20, 2019 Yes. One person knows. He was supposed to fulfill my darkest one. But I broke it off, and I probably won't tell anyone else. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Confused 22 Posted August 20, 2019 Author Members Report Share Posted August 20, 2019 7 minutes ago, Suzaniam said: Yes. One person knows. He was supposed to fulfill my darkest one. But I broke it off, and I probably won't tell anyone else. 7 minutes ago, Suzaniam said: Yes. One person knows. He was supposed to fulfill my darkest one. But I broke it off, and I probably won't tell anyone else. Well thank you for saying something. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Suzaniam Posted August 20, 2019 Members Report Share Posted August 20, 2019 I know what it's like to feel alone and confused... I'm old, but surprisingly, still haven't figured out much. 💙 Life's a trip... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Confused 22 Posted August 20, 2019 Author Members Report Share Posted August 20, 2019 4 minutes ago, Suzaniam said: I know what it's like to feel alone and confused... I'm old, but surprisingly, still haven't figured out much. 💙 Life's a trip... Well I'm only 22 and I just really dont have anyone to ask that's why I took a chance and posted here. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Suzaniam Posted August 20, 2019 Members Report Share Posted August 20, 2019 I have found this site to be full of great people. I think you came to the right place, as did I! Have a great time while you're young, make lots of memories you can look back on when you get to be 57. 💙 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Confused 22 Posted August 20, 2019 Author Members Report Share Posted August 20, 2019 1 minute ago, Suzaniam said: I have found this site to be full of great people. I think you came to the right place, as did I! Have a great time while you're young, make lots of memories you can look back on when you get to be 57. 💙 Thanks. I'm more afraid of having regrets. Doing something then being judged for it or something later. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Suzaniam Posted August 20, 2019 Members Report Share Posted August 20, 2019 I didn't do a lot of things for that exact reason. But. I did all the right things. When my late husband died 2 years ago, however, my inlaws took the chance every time I was out of the hospital room to criticize and gossip about me. Not one single friend I thought I had made in 33 years ever came to see me. Do what makes YOU happy. Unless you want to be a politician, nothing will come back to haunt you, and by the time you're my age, you won't care! 😁😁😁 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Confused 22 Posted August 20, 2019 Author Members Report Share Posted August 20, 2019 10 minutes ago, Suzaniam said: I didn't do a lot of things for that exact reason. But. I did all the right things. When my late husband died 2 years ago, however, my inlaws took the chance every time I was out of the hospital room to criticize and gossip about me. Not one single friend I thought I had made in 33 years ever came to see me. Do what makes YOU happy. Unless you want to be a politician, nothing will come back to haunt you, and by the time you're my age, you won't care! 😁😁😁 Thanks and I'm sorry for your loss. I'm still in school and have been single for around a year. Allot of people (not so much here) have told me to get into a relationship with someone that's into this or that to teach me. Problem is I dont want to be in a relationship until I'm at least out of college. So sex right now is just for sex and I just feel guilty I guess because I was told it was wrong. Throw in the weird stuff I fantasize about I guess it would be way past wrong. But I still fantasize about it. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members saltybear Posted August 20, 2019 Members Report Share Posted August 20, 2019 @Confused 22 keep going on as Suzan said this is a safe fun way to explore sexual side of life., The women on here will give awesome advice. I'm 64 and they have taught me more about how to be a gentleman or they don't open up. @Suzaniam is very cool 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Suzaniam Posted August 20, 2019 Members Report Share Posted August 20, 2019 Yeah.... Whoever says to get into a relationship to get experience is high, lol. Women have always been told it's bad to be sexual, while telling men it's great. We have needs too. Just bc some men and older women say it's bad doesn't mean they're correct. We are all human. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members saltybear Posted August 20, 2019 Members Report Share Posted August 20, 2019 5 minutes ago, Suzaniam said: Yeah.... Whoever says to get into a relationship to get experience is high, lol. Women have always been told it's bad to be sexual, while telling men it's great. We have needs too. Just bc some men and older women say it's bad doesn't mean they're correct. We are all human. Great attitude be open but be careful. Like I said the women on have given me a new respect. Hopefully other men change because they can be harsh. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Suzaniam Posted August 20, 2019 Members Report Share Posted August 20, 2019 The harshest critics are usually the most twisted... And religious.... Having social phobia, I tend to know everything bf I hook up w anyone, and I don't drink, so no loss of judgement, lol. I'm a safe sex kitty 😽 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members saltybear Posted August 20, 2019 Members Report Share Posted August 20, 2019 1 minute ago, Suzaniam said: The harshest critics are usually the most twisted... And religious.... Having social phobia, I tend to know everything bf I hook up w anyone, and I don't drink, so no loss of judgement, lol. I'm a safe sex kitty 😽 Sweet you got a plan 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Confused 22 Posted August 21, 2019 Author Members Report Share Posted August 21, 2019 21 hours ago, saltybear said: Sweet you got a plan It does seem that way. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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