Newbie Tak Posted March 26, 2020 Newbie Report Share Posted March 26, 2020 Sexual life is not what I wish it was. I wish it was much more fun. I have a hard time getting off by myself or with my husband. Does anybody have any ideas as to what I could try. 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Not large enough Posted March 28, 2020 Members Report Share Posted March 28, 2020 Have you tried anal Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members kanga grey Posted March 29, 2020 Members Report Share Posted March 29, 2020 have you tried watching porn together? or masturbate in front of each other? we find that is pretty hot i love masturbating the wife and she loves me using her bullet vibe we used to use her rabbit vibe but loves my tongue and fingers Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Bigirlhaggen Posted May 10, 2020 Members Report Share Posted May 10, 2020 On 3/26/2020 at 2:16 PM, Tak said: Sexual life is not what I wish it was. I wish it was much more fun. I have a hard time getting off by myself or with my husband. Does anybody have any ideas as to what I could try. Omg yes I have plenty of ideas but first tell me what you fantasize abou? Seriously? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Bigirlhaggen Posted May 10, 2020 Members Report Share Posted May 10, 2020 On 3/26/2020 at 2:16 PM, Tak said: Sexual life is not what I wish it was. I wish it was much more fun. I have a hard time getting off by myself or with my husband. Does anybody have any ideas as to what I could try. Are you turned on by men? Women? Bisexual? Gay? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members SexMaster Posted July 5, 2020 Members Report Share Posted July 5, 2020 DM me. We can chat. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Bigirlhaggen Posted July 25, 2020 Members Report Share Posted July 25, 2020 I have a couple of great ideas girlfriend like try letting him catch you masturbating and don't let him know you see him and watch how he gets extremely aroused by watching you playing with yourself and give him a really erotic show seriously 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Tyger Posted July 28, 2020 Report Share Posted July 28, 2020 On 3/26/2020 at 1:16 PM, Tak said: Sexual life is not what I wish it was. I wish it was much more fun. I have a hard time getting off by myself or with my husband. Does anybody have any ideas as to what I could try. I'm sorry that you're having problems like this. Husband means you've most likely been together a while now....and I see from your profile, you're 31, so still young. There can be many factors......being married, you should have done a lot of exploring with each other, finding likes and dislikes. Hopefully, you were honest about those from the start, and not faking it to make him happy. I say that, not as an insult, but because I was guilty of doing that when I was younger, until I learned that sex is for both of you, and both should be having fun. Are you a mother? Being a parent, you can feel less of a sexual being, and more of a parental role, which has a stigma of non-sexual. This is a rut many parents fall into (guilty again here), but it can be overcome. Are you on any medications? Some can kill your sex drive. If you are, talk with your doctor to see if there are options to get that back. Are you in decent health? Health issues, stress, lack of sleep, all can factor in not being able to really satisfy yourself sexually. Do you know what you like sexually? Have you ever been able to get off? Do you play with your clit? You have to be able to know how to please yourself, before someone else can really do so. And, for most women, that comes with clit play. It's like, if you don't clit play, asking a guy to get off JUST by playing with his balls......Most likely NOT going to happen. Does your husband take the time with you to get you warmed up, and not just go for his goal? If he is all about himself, he needs to be retaught. Are you happy? Are you sexually attracted to your husband? All of these questions need to be delved into, thought about, and answered HONESTLY. Then, we can give you some better tips. I hope that helps a bit. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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