Members sylvina Posted October 18, 2006 Members Report Share Posted October 18, 2006 You all give the best advice I have ever read, anywhere. I couldn't learn these type of techniques in books or from watching videos. Taking all the tips and advice that was given here, has spiced up mine and my husbands marriage. I now swollow, and do many different things, then just go up and down with my mouth. Its wonderful. Thanks so much. Keep those tips and new ideas coming in, if I find a new tip, I will sure share it as soon as the orgasms are over. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members sylvina Posted October 18, 2006 Author Members Report Share Posted October 18, 2006 We are extremely happy now. Our sex life was dwiddling down to once or twice a month, due to the fact I had never had an orgasm, and sex was just a big chore. And when we did do the deed it was a "hurry up, I have other things to do" kinda thing. But all that has changed since I found this site about 5 months ago. Ive been one of those shadow lurkers, just waiting for my time to start talking. I am proud to say, I have finally had that big O a couple weeks ago, and many more since then. Now that I can actually bring my husband to orgasm from just oral, it has given me a new sense of, power I suppose. And I have been given many many "treats" back. We feel like newly weds again, and its wonderful. We're slowly expanding our toy and DVD selection, and I do read all of Mikayla's reviews, as other posters reviews, it helps greatly as to what I will purchase. So, Thanks again. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members telecom69 Posted October 18, 2006 Members Report Share Posted October 18, 2006 We are extremely happy now. Our sex life was dwiddling down to once or twice a month, due to the fact I had never had an orgasm, and sex was just a big chore. And when we did do the deed it was a "hurry up, I have other things to do" kinda thing. But all that has changed since I found this site about 5 months ago. Ive been one of those shadow lurkers, just waiting for my time to start talking. I am proud to say, I have finally had that big O a couple weeks ago, and many more since then. Now that I can actually bring my husband to orgasm from just oral, it has given me a new sense of, power I suppose. And I have been given many many "treats" back. We feel like newly weds again, and its wonderful. We're slowly expanding our toy and DVD selection, and I do read all of Mikayla's reviews, as other posters reviews, it helps greatly as to what I will purchase. So, Thanks again. Sylvina,What was preventing you from having orgasms, and how did you start finally having them? Was it a mental or physical issue, or both?Telecom Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members sylvina Posted October 18, 2006 Author Members Report Share Posted October 18, 2006 I'm not too sure what was causing me not too, but maybe from past lovers just being "wham bam thank you ma'am" type guys. I had never had anyone spend time trying to make me orgasm. And I did ever masterbate, didnt see a point in it, since I wasnt ever having orgasms. Just thought that was how sex was, didnt know it could be so pleasurable for the woman. With that, getting with my husband I had never really let him go down on me, once in a while he would but I wouldnt let him stay down there, I just wanted to get it over with and have him "do me" until he had his fulfilled his own pleasures. I had contacted Mikayla in a PM and talked to her, and read her articles about them, over and over, and finally just relaxed and enjoy myself. Let my husband take me for the ride of my life. I was very very shy about sex, did not want to try new things, and I did think the only positions was missionary, since that was what I did most often. Now its an all new ball game. We've been trying EVERYTHING now that I realize how great sex is! I've been missing out. Next thing on the list, since we've now explored anal, is a little bondage, nothing major, just some handcuffs or restraints, and a blindfold. Wish me luck! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Mikayla1 Posted October 19, 2006 Members Report Share Posted October 19, 2006 I am so glad that my advice (and others) has helped you! It is a true testament that there is a reason for this site and all that we do to hear that someone has benefitted and turned their sex life around! I am sooooo happy for you - please keep us posted and NEVER be afraid to ask me or anyone else for advice!Mikayla Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members telecom69 Posted October 19, 2006 Members Report Share Posted October 19, 2006 I'm not too sure what was causing me not too, but maybe from past lovers just being "wham bam thank you ma'am" type guys. I had never had anyone spend time trying to make me orgasm. And I did ever masterbate, didnt see a point in it, since I wasnt ever having orgasms. Just thought that was how sex was, didnt know it could be so pleasurable for the woman. With that, getting with my husband I had never really let him go down on me, once in a while he would but I wouldnt let him stay down there, I just wanted to get it over with and have him "do me" until he had his fulfilled his own pleasures. I had contacted Mikayla in a PM and talked to her, and read her articles about them, over and over, and finally just relaxed and enjoy myself. Let my husband take me for the ride of my life. I was very very shy about sex, did not want to try new things, and I did think the only positions was missionary, since that was what I did most often. Now its an all new ball game. We've been trying EVERYTHING now that I realize how great sex is! I've been missing out. Next thing on the list, since we've now explored anal, is a little bondage, nothing major, just some handcuffs or restraints, and a blindfold. Wish me luck! Sylvina,You are only 21 and very fortunate to start having these experiences so young. Some women go most of their lives (if not all) not being able to experience sexual freedom and pleasure. My current gf (45 yrs old)sounds VERY much like you and just can't ever really seem to relax, though I am patient with her sexually and would do pretty much anything she wanted me to. I hate the "wham-bam" stuff... that isn't any fun. She is getting better depending on her mood. Her past sexual experiences were EXACTLY like yours. She will finally be moving in with me soon, so maybe me showing the added commitment that she wondered about will let her relax. Good luck to you and have fun!Telecom Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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