Newbie mathew Posted November 7, 2006 Newbie Report Share Posted November 7, 2006 Hi, this is my first topic here and better to say this my first forum of this kind. I have gone through few discussion and thought this is the right place where I can place my queries. I have so many questions in my mand and will be asking one by one .. day by day.. would appreciate if someone can help me.I am married and having sex with my partner since almost 6 years. But I have noticed that since last one year, I am getting turn on while thinking of my wife having sex with other person. My question is .. is this kind of thinkins are not correct? perversion? Pls advise. Now a days, I am almost sick of thinking that I am not holding a healthy mentality. If it is not correct then please advise how do I come out from this Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members tdriskel Posted November 7, 2006 Members Report Share Posted November 7, 2006 Hi, this is my first topic here and better to say this my first forum of this kind. I have gone through few discussion and thought this is the right place where I can place my queries. I have so many questions in my mand and will be asking one by one .. day by day.. would appreciate if someone can help me.I am married and having sex with my partner since almost 6 years. But I have noticed that since last one year, I am getting turn on while thinking of my wife having sex with other person. My question is .. is this kind of thinkins are not correct? perversion? Pls advise. Now a days, I am almost sick of thinking that I am not holding a healthy mentality. If it is not correct then please advise how do I come out from thisGosh, James, first off, welcome. Second, you are not a weirdo. There are several areas of this site that will discuss that fantasy and, in fact, one article by Mikayla to help you decide if a threesome is for you. I think that wondering about something is not wrong. If you and your partner want to try something, it is not wrong. If you push an idea on your partner that she does not want to do... in my opinion, that is wrong. I am certain that there are many others who will reply and help you more, but I think I saw your post first and I didn't want you to wonder any longer. Healthy sexuality isn't always just the missionary position on Saturday nights only-- even if that is what you learned as a kid. In fact, when you begin to share your fantasies with your partner and you both have more fun (Howard says that is why it is called "sex play"), now THAT is healthy sexuality. The cool thing is that everyone's fantasies are different.I hope this helps and that someone way better at this will also reply soon.Good luck! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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