The Threesome And Marriage

[tjdehya]

So hi everyone, I found this site while searching for better techniques for cunnilingus as well as other questions. I found most of my answers and I did some shopping but I still have one question. Ok so we all know that most (if not all) men for some reason want to be with two women. I would just like to know how can I make this work, i.e. How can I bring it up to here without, pissing her off, making her think that I don’t love her, making her think that want to be with someone else other than her, have her think that because I was with another woman then she should either sleep with other men or ask me to invite another guy into the bedroom.

It’s not a "I want to sleep with another woman" thing. I love my wife and if there was a way to turn her into two women for one night then that would be all that I would want and nothing more.

She looked at me once and said that she would do absolutely anything that I want; even though she said that I am not sure if this is included so I never asked for it. How would this affect our marriage if I ask and she says no and how would it affect our marriage if I asked and she said yes. Any suggestions or personal experiences will be greatly appreciated, Thanks!

[tjdehya]

Thanks for the info.

The main reason I have never attempted to bring up the subject is the fear of her asking me to return the favor and bring another guy in our bedroom. So I don’t think I will ever have the courage to ever ask because even if she told me that she was thinking about it then that alone would upset me. Its not that I am selfish because the truth is I would be just as happy if she agreed to be with another girl and only let me watch or maybe partake in the threesome but have no sexual contact with the other girl. I will try all your suggestions though but I will leave the ménage-a-talk out of our discussion. Thanks again.