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Hi,
I'd love to get some advice on this tricky situation!

I am a male in my mid 30s who's been having a long-distance relationship with a girl in her younger 20s for almost 2 years now. We live in two different countries but we've seen each other IRL a couple of times. Our relationship is not formally a serious relationship but instead mostly based on sex (we both love sex, especially the more kinky kind with eg stepdad/stepdaughter role-playing and her being really submissive etc), both when we chat and have videocalls, but she is also a very sweet and fun girl and I am actually quite fond of her generally speaking, and not only as a "porn substitute". I can say that she comes from a bit poorer background and lives in a relatively small aparment with her parents and her biological brother, who's some 8 years older than her. I myself live alone since many years back, and my family consists of my parents and a brother.

I can right away admit that for several years I've had taboo fantasies, both dad/daughter but especially brother/sister, including biological about having sexual relationships with a biological sister. I've admitted this to the girl in question and as I've said she is also into taboo fantasies and she is fine with my fantasies as long as it is step family; according to her, only the step family kind of fantasy is acceptable (and exclusively stepdad/stepdaughter when it comes to the immediate family). She's been very firm in her opinion that she finds biological incest disgusting, unthinkable etc. I guess I haven't known what to respond to this as I don't have a sister of my own (and my mother is not an attractive woman so that too has been out of the question for me, and for the record I am 100% straight as well).

As I said we have often had virtual sex during our videocalls (during which she likes to call me daddy etc, that is a bit kinky and not only plain vanilla sex) but the thing is her bedroom is right besides the bedroom of her brother, and her bed even shares the same wall as her brother's bedroom. She's also admitted that their walls are quite thin. Due to me having fantasies of brother/sister incest, this has caused me to be jealous of her brother, but when I've mentioned this to her (e.g. asking if she's not afraid ot the risk her brother might hear her) she's gotten angry and categorically denied anything of the kind, that the very thought has never occurred to her and that she and her brother has a completely normal sibling relationship etc. Well, even if I still harbored some suspicions I more or less accepted her denials, especially since she obviously hasn't herself chosen where her room is located and since she has still talked in kind of a low voice when we've had virtual sex, not made any direct loud moans etc.

However, a while back she confessed to me that she has started "working" as a virtual sex model, that is, she gets paid by other men for masturbating in front of the camera. She says she does this only as a way to get money, but as I know her quite well by now and know she is a horny girl that gets turned on by exhibisionist things of this nature, I am 100% sure she gets a lot of pleasure out of it a well. Of course, this fact in itself has made me very jealous as well, but that is not really what this thread is about.

I've asked her some things about this with regards to her brother being in the adjacent room, and she has admitted that her "shows" do include her moaning and coming and talking dirty talk with her clients, and also that she is "forced" to do it also sometimes when her brother is indeed in his room on the other side of the wall. However, as before when I have confronted her about this and when I admit that I am now actually very jealous of her brother due to him being able to listen in on her "working", she immediately gets very defensive and angry, says that I am disgusting (and I don't deny that I do have a dirty and sick mind in this regard), that she doesn't think anything at all of this kind and neither does her brother, that their relationship is exactly as it was before and that her brother hasn't indicated at all that he's found out what she's doing or that he's started to behave in any way different than before etc. But there is still something that bugs my mind when it comes her responses, sometimes I just get the impression that she simply wants to steer away from the topic rather than actually convince me that my jealousy is unfounded, if you know what I mean?

Either way, no matter what she says I am still very jealous of her brother, as I want to be in his shoes so to speak (indeed, exactly this type of scenario is one of my hottest fantasies, being able to listen in my little sister pleasuring herself in the adjacent room and maybe even walk in on her "by accident" or start to jokingly blackmail her about it etc). And this whole situation is obviously enhanced by the fact that I know that the girl is into kinky roleplaying and generally speaking has a rather dirty mind and (naturally, by the line of her "work") has a very open sexuality. Still, with this being said I definitely do not want anything to actually happen between them in real life, as that would obviously just confirm my jealousy and make me feel helpless before the situation that her brother is living out my own fantasy so to speak. I don't harbour any cuckold fantasy at all, I am just simply jealous of her brother (especially as I know that even if incest is the exception not the rule, it is still not that uncommon, and if her brother is particularly horny one night and suddenly starts hearing extremely erotic sounds and talk from his sister's room, would't it be only natural that he gets horny by that, even if he may never before have harbored any sexual thoughts about his sister whatsoever?)

So I guess what it really boils down to is, is there a basis here for my jealousy of my girlfriend's brother (even it only may be that my girl indeed does get horny by the fact that her brother can hear her I still get very jealous of that) or does it rather sound unfounded? Due to the fantasies of sibling incest that I harbour for me this situation is like for "normal" couples (that are not into incest) if this sort of situation would occur but instead of it being her brother in the adjacent room it was her male friend, if you know what I mean?
 
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