Newbie nyc718 Posted June 27, 2005 Newbie Report Share Posted June 27, 2005 I'm just curious, how do guys really feel about one night stands? I had an AMAZING night with this guy I'm kind of friends with. He gave me his number when I left his place, but I'm not sure if I should persue this or forget it happened. Can a one night stand turn into something more or do men already have this preconcieved idea about you because you slept with them? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Chris4u Posted June 28, 2005 Members Report Share Posted June 28, 2005 Well it all depends on whether he thought that night was a stand. A guy giving his number doesn't mean he wants to see you again for something other than sex. I've had far too many one nighters and the exchange of numbers never was meant to imply that I'd or she'd like to meet up for drinks or coffee. It's an easier means of getting sex, instead of going to bars or using internet sites.I think he gave you his number because he enjoyed the sex so much that he wouldn't mind getting back together for seconds. Either that or he can't get sex easily or often and you look as easy action. I could be wrong though...maybe it could be that he really likes you.Take it from me, a semi-retired one-nighter who has had well over 40-50 stands, he isn't looking for a relationship with you. There's less than a 1% chance that he does. I know it sounds kind of aweful, but those nights are for no-stings-attached sex. You can call him and see if he's into the dating thing, but I don't want you to have false hopes.I know this wasn't the answer you probably wanted to hear, but it's best you take it so you aren't harmed later on. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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