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This is my first post, so bear with me. My husband and I have been married for almost 11 years and have a 7 year old son and one due in Oct. Even with a child we have kept our sex lives at a healthy level. Just recently my hubby became determined to give me multiples (i'm pregnant and got the horny hormone) and read the article from Mikayla for multiples. He has put the info to good use :D He was also asking me about sex toys, which is something neither of us have ever used, didn't feel the need. I still don't feel the need, but it is something that he wants to try and make things better for me. I told him I wasn't sure and left it at that, but unknown to him I have an order that should be arriving soon and it is his anniversary gift ;) I got a couples stimulator as well as a cock ring, other stuff too, but those are the ones specifically for him. Anyway, getting back to the point...he is doing this amazing stuff for me and I'm going multiple times, but he only goes once. Now I know he enjoys what he does to me and what my reactions are and that is all part of it for him, but I would like to know if there is any method to be employed that will allow him to go a couple times in one night. Usually he can't go again until the next day. He's never had a problem with ED or performance, just once he goes, he's done. Any tips on this subject or is it just a physical make-up thing?

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That's in his head, IMHO. Any man who is in good health, not drunk, and not fatigued or tired from a long day at work or play is good for several orgasms a day or night. What are you doing to get him erect again, or are you just accepting that nonsense from him? Most of my lovers have no trouble at all taking matters in hand, or mouth, and getting me erect again in record time. The second erection lasts much longer than the first. The third longer than the second. Obviously, if you want a long love making session, don't start this on a week night at 11 P.M. when he has to go to work at 8 A.M. In fact, having sex just before bedtime is almost always wrong for both partners. Don't let either of you use sex as a SLEEP AID. Sex is about playing with each other, and you both deserve more than 10 minutes of doing that before you pass out for the night.

There is a website that teaches how men can have multiple " dry " orgasms, but I don't think your husband is ready for that quite yet. Use that new vibrator on his testicles and cock to get him erect again. If that is going to be shock for him, do it sooner than later, so he can get over it.

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Remember we have a 7 year old son, before bedtime is when we usually get the chance. We use to be able to do movie time, but as he got older he just doesn't like to be alone and gets nosy (things are not going to improve after the new baby). We do get shower time and make great use of the massaging shower head, but not condusive for long bouts. I didn't use to let him give me multiples, it used to be too much for me, but it seems the older I get the easier it has gotten for me. So I guess the fault lies with me also, because I didn't push the subject with him. I don't want or need to do this because I am unsatisfied, far from it, but I want to make it as good for him (more then once) as he is making it for me. I will just test out the new toys (got cinnamon BJ lube too :D ) and see what kind of reactions I can produce.

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I'll also throw something in here as well. My DH is 45 and in constant fear of his ability to get it up and keep it up not working properly. When he starts this it is like a challenge to me to prove him "fit". I have found that if I get him off quickly the first time, i.e. blow job or hand job, then he can really sustain for a while. Usually he can go for a third if I keep at him. Remember too, it is as much the build up for guys as it is the getting off. Let him get you off, then take him to the brink and back off. You go again, and then him back to the brink, etc. We have found movies (porn) helps tremendously in helping him get hard again. Start one when you start playing and keep it going the entire time. On the first wind down, between me and the porn, we can usually keep him from ever really getting soft. Now, admittedly, this doesn't work everytime. Once, sometimes, is all either of us can manage. The coming toys should also help with this mission. Nothing can get me going again faster than a bullet or a g-spot toy. (I can hit a g-spot in record time now with the "g-spot vibe" sold here on tootimid.) I know, I know, this is supposed to be about him! Keep at it (and him) and it will amaze you what you are capable of. I don't think my DH has ever gone more than three at one session. Wow, maybe this will be my own personal challenge!

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Thanks for the imput. The box came today, but I have to hide it until the 27th since this is one of his anniversary gifts (have to give him something else that the family can see :o ). It is going to drive me insane knowing it is there. But that doesn't mean I can't employ non-toy methods in the mean time :D .

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Congrats on your first purchase! I hope you let us know how he reacted and if everything worked for you (detailed or not, we just like to hear happy success stories :) ).

As for the getting him another gift to give in front of the family... I kinda giggled at that and suggest you don't! ;) If anyone asks what your gift to him is/was, just gain a wicked grin and wave them off, telling them it's something fun for the two of you. That's all they need to know. They'll either get the hint that you two are in love and sexual (Oh no! A married couple with kids is in LOVE and SEXUAL! ;) ) or they won't. If they press the issue, tell them you got SEX TOYS and watch them turn four shades of red. That'll teach them to be nosey. *giggle*

Have fun!

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ROFL!!!! I'm too chicken for that, but it gave me a good laugh picturing it. I just went shopping with my mom last night and got him the other stuff already. It is neatly wrapped and bugging the crap out of him knowing it is there and not knowing what it is and that he won't get it for a while yet. A small toy chest is being delivered from Target (should be today) and then I will pile all the TooTimid goodies in there and wrap that also. Driving him crazy is the best part of gift buying :P .

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Ok, I didn't hide the box until the 27th :P . He has been a little stressed about work and kinda down, so I asked last night if he wanted one of his gifts early. He waffled for a little while and then said yes. I drug the box out from under the bed and watched his eyes get huge!! None of it was wrapped and pretty the way I planned, but it was great watching his expression. So we rifled thru everything, some of it was itimidating, so we started out with the smaller stuff. A dual bullet and the amazing wireless cock ring. The bullet was great, although the bumps on the bigger one got uncomfortable when I O'd. He liked the ring, but it didn't hit me quit right, even when just doing the grinding instead of up an down. We will just have to keep trying....darn :D . There is still an assortment to go through, it will keep us busy for a while. As far as the multi's for him go, the last couple times our sessions have ended at 12:30 am and he has to be up @ 6:00. I haven't pushed it yet, but the next time we get an earlier start, I'm all over it :P .

Also, I was wondering what the baby hears or feels with the vibrations going on. I know sex is perfectly safe and I have read plenty of things saying that toys are safe, but the baby has to hear the vibes. I wonder if it shakes in there at all.

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