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Thanks for having this forum. I need a place to ask this question and this place looks like the right one!! :)

I am a 35 year old woman who is happily married to a wonderful man. We will celebrate our 7th anniversary tomorrow. I have 3 biological children and have had a problem for quite some time now. Any and all advice will be welcomed!! :)

How can I put this?? I have a hard time achieving orgasm and get very discouraged with it. I love my husband and love being with him. I just have the hardest time reaching the big "O".

We have toys and love to play. We both enjoy that very much. However, I have found that it gets frustrating for both of us b/c it takes almost an hour for me to achieve orgasm no matter what the means (toys, intercourse, clit stimulation, and any combination of the above and more). The only way I'm able to reach an orgasm quicker is to go on a sexual hiatus. I have to go without sex for WEEKS at a time. This greatly frustrates my husband but it's the only way I can physically get "in the mood".

Ok...so, what's wrong with me? I've tried everything I can think of and nothing seems to work.

Here's a bit of background so any of you with ideas don't cover ground I've already covered...I am not on any medications, I do not take hormonal BC (I'm using an IUD), there is no risk (or very low risk) of getting pregnant (therefore, I don't think apprehension about pregnancy is the issue).

Any thoughts that I haven't covered???

Thanks in advance!! :)

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