Members happy_man_69 Posted August 1, 2007 Members Report Share Posted August 1, 2007 Good evening from Chicago! It's late so I'll be brief but I did want to introduce myself (and my wife). Happily married for over 15 years and sex life has been good and getting hotter and more kinky over the last month or so. My wife has really gotten into it lately for some reason. She's always been great with oral both ways but never much into porn but she's now wanting to view porn, even the more hard core stuff. And the other night we fantasized about a 3-some (MMF). Perhaps I'm weird but the thought of another man, or woman, being with my wife and I is HOT! And she really liked using her toy as a 2nd guy. She hasn't had so many orgasms for a very long time...if ever. So I think she really enjoyed the fantasy as did I.My question is am I crazy for having a fantasy about my wife and I with another man or woman? We both joked that it isn't personal; it's just sex.Thanks for your feedback. And ladies, if you have any suggestions on videos that would be erotic yet not over the top please let me know. We rented an "instructional video" last week and my wife got bored with it saying that it wasn't hard core enough which I agreed with. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ToyQueen Posted August 1, 2007 Members Report Share Posted August 1, 2007 I would suggest that you check out the DVD review thread on the forum. Those who review the DVDs are very candid in telling us all what they think. They give us a pretty good idea of whether it is something that appeals to our own taste. Check it out! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members krisleightate Posted August 1, 2007 Members Report Share Posted August 1, 2007 Welcome and have fun Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Mikayla1 Posted August 1, 2007 Members Report Share Posted August 1, 2007 You are definitely NOT weird for wanting to fantasize about your wife with another person - it is one of THE most prevalent fantasies out there! Using the toy to effect the fantasy is a wonderful idea! Keeping it between yourselves is a great way to add spice but not jepardize your relationship in any way. If you want to try the FFM threesome, get one of the realistic pussies. Then you both can "have"her and it is a great way to have that fantasy as well!As for videos, instructionals can be great, but I am a hard core porn gal at heart. I just reviewed one called "The Prisoner" which was really cool, had a great story line in between the great sex. Check out my full review and the other movies reviewed in the DVD review section!Good luck and keep having fun! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members happy_man_69 Posted August 2, 2007 Author Members Report Share Posted August 2, 2007 You are definitely NOT weird for wanting to fantasize about your wife with another person - it is one of THE most prevalent fantasies out there! Using the toy to effect the fantasy is a wonderful idea! Keeping it between yourselves is a great way to add spice but not jepardize your relationship in any way. If you want to try the FFM threesome, get one of the realistic pussies. Then you both can "have"her and it is a great way to have that fantasy as well!As for videos, instructionals can be great, but I am a hard core porn gal at heart. I just reviewed one called "The Prisoner" which was really cool, had a great story line in between the great sex. Check out my full review and the other movies reviewed in the DVD review section!Good luck and keep having fun!Thanks Mikayla. I checked out your DVD review. Sounds like a great flik. I'll try and find it in the video store for this weekend. All the kids will be gone and my lovely bride has already planned a night of sex and entertainment and asked me to pick out the video. I'm getting excited just thinking about it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members dazzleme Posted August 4, 2007 Members Report Share Posted August 4, 2007 I'm still new here to the forums but wanted to add my two cents in as far as 3somes go I agree with Howard, a fantasy is exactly that and should be a fantasy. I have participated in a 3 some (FFM) one time back in my mid 20's. I was young and green and a little tipsy at the time when my best friend and her husband asked me to join them. It was exciting (especially for someone who was a greenhorn with any kind of sex anything) and I agreed, it not only ruined my relationship with my best friend and her husband but it almost tore their marriage apart. Thankfully they were able to work through their issues and problems but our friendship was certainly ruined although we tried for a time to be friends again...it was just wasn't the same and eventually we ended up just drifting apart. I only say this because it was heartbreaking to lose not only a friend but to see the struggles they went through as a married couple simply because we all wanted to fill a fantasy that should have remained a fantasy. I would proceed with extreme caution, sometimes what we all fantasize in our minds isn't the way it works out in real life. Good luck with the Porn Video's! I love watching porn, especially with my guy and it always tends to heat him up to see me so into it! I have no advice about the movies and I think I'll mosey on over to the reviews and see if I can find something nice to buy for our enjoyment as well! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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