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For the last year or so I've been wanting badly to eat my own sperm out of my wife after sex. It's a dsire that has been pulling me like mad, so I finally wrote her a note explaining what I wanted and we then discussed it and she was game, even excited to try it. The only problem is I'll be excited as hell but as soon as I cum I feel disgusted and can't bring myself to do it. I know she want me to do it bad because she gets very hot when we talk about doing it, I've told her to force me but she's not dominate enough to try. God knows I wish she was because I'd let her try anything she wanted...even anal. She's not though.

What the heck is wrong with me, I know I'd love it if I could get past the first couple times, I know because I had a past girlfriend who I had ate after she had been with another guy (didn't know it then) and knew what it was when it passed my lips, it disgusted me and totally excited me too. Am I sick or just wierd?

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This is a common fantasy, and no, you are not weird! Hey, women eat their own cum when they go down or kiss a guy after he has been in them, what is the difference with this? Sure, it is "your cum" but it is all natural, comes from you and isn't going to hurt you!

I know the stigma you are thinking .....I must be crazy to want to eat my own sperm..ick! But, the truth is, it is not disgusting at all. You want to have that sensation....that experience....you are totally turned on by your wife, your evidence of that "union" is what you want to taste. It is more than just wanting to 'eat sperm' if it was only that, you would ejaculate in a cup!

There is nothing we can say to help you get over this mental hump - you basically just have to dive in a do it! Just think about how hot you are for her and how much you want to just lick her up after you have been together! Think of it as her cum with a little extra...bonus!

You can do this if you want to...give it a try...

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Hello!

I would like to suggest that you talk to your wife about having her give you a blow job and when you cum, have her not to swallow. Have her kiss and lick you as you are cumming so that it gets all over her tongue and lips. (Also a great opportunity for your viewing pleasure!) Then after you've finished and can't take anymore have her french kiss you. Allowing your tongue to feel and taste the gift you've given her. It's a huge turn on for me & SO and might just be for you all as well.

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Hello!

I would like to suggest that you talk to your wife about having her give you a blow job and when you cum, have her not to swallow. Have her kiss and lick you as you are cumming so that it gets all over her tongue and lips. (Also a great opportunity for your viewing pleasure!) Then after you've finished and can't take anymore have her french kiss you. Allowing your tongue to feel and taste the gift you've given her. It's a huge turn on for me & SO and might just be for you all as well.

I struggled with this too and here what I find helps, first try tasting just the precum. It taste really good. It just a tiny bit at a time. Later on after you have gotten used to the texture of your sperm abit, make up your mind your gonna do it and have her beg you to do it if possible. Then instead of sticking your tongue all the way in her, just stick the tip of your tongue to her clit. You'll get abit of taste and smell without it being alot. She'll go crazy maybe to the point of sqeezing your head between her thighs where you will be forced to taste her regardless.

One thing that worked for me when I was younger was I got turned on watching girls get cummed on and swallowing in porn flicts, I wanted to experince it to see what it was like. So I would masterbate and when I got ready to come, I would roll backwards so that my legs went up and over so that I was staring at my dick dangling above my face. I wasnt able to reach it and suck so I masterbated it knowing there was no turning back and ended up shooting cum all over my face, lips, and in my mouth. Then I was forced to swallow it and experince it like the gals do.

My wife loves when I go down on her, I did get her to kiss me after blow jobs and she has no problem with it but like anal sex it starts when a few crawling steps before you take off and run

Glenn

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I'm lucky that I have a very orgasmic wife. Many times I've ended but she just hasn't had that 25th orgasm yet. Sometimes she finishes herself off, but on a not too infrequent occasion I will pull out and go down on her to bring her over the edge. The combined taste of her and me aren't bad tasting at all and the reaction I get from her when I go down after ejaculating is...well...lets just say it is VERY worth it.

Thurisas.

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I just wanted to thank everybody for their replies, haven't gotten over the discomfort yet but am working on it. Have done the finger bit, taste is different but not bad. Still can't bring myself to dive in, but will make the effort. Thanks.

Philip

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I. too, have been struggling with the exact same situation. It's like I am two different people. One during the excitement prior to orgasm and the other that is immediately turned off by the idea as soon as I've had an orgasm.

My wife, also, isn't that dominant. For some time, she would ask me to clean her up (knowing that is was my fantasy) and I would half-heartedly lick a little here and there. Then we'd be done. Since she's sort of self conscious about receiving oral sex, she doesn't get a great deal out of it. We went about a year before she finally learned that I hadn't ever really "eaten" any - just licked it some. Since it is "my" fantasy, not hers, she never really pushes me into it.

One of my most erotic memories is when I shot on her stomache and she had me eat a big glob off her belly. She watched me do it - and it was the first time I actually ate some. To this day, that memory still arouses me even though I have since eaten other loads.

I can't figure out why I am so schizophrenic about this! When we are making love, the idea drives me crazy with desire. As soon as I start to orgasm, I turn off completely to the idea. I have no idea how to get over this hump. Once the switch occurs, I am not interested at all until I get excited again. Since I am usually so focused on pleasing my wife first, she is ready to be finished as soon as I orgasm. We often joke that we wish we could actually have a quickie. I just grew up thinking it was always better to give pleasure, so we go for an hour or so until I know she's had enough. Since intimate moments are at a premium, there's always something pulling at us - kids, sleep, work, etc. Once I've had an orgasm, we are both ready to be done so going for "round two" is rarely an option.

Anyway, to the original poster, I completely understand. To everyone else, I agree with you all, too! I just can't get my post-orgasmic self to think like that. Like the original poster, I thought that just a couple of times of doing it would get me over it. That hasn't happened. I've done it much more than a few times and I'm still facing the same issue. I enjoy the memory but am not into the action at the time.

I'd be interested to hear from others who felt similarly but are further down the road than I am. Heck, it's just a little reassuring to know I'm not the only one feeling this way.

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You've gotten farther than I have Creammiester, with the off the belly lick. That's full concentration, the rest ought to easier. It's funny how fast the mindset changes, from a screaming desire to total disgust in micro seconds! I think my biggest hang up is what people would think of me if it was public knowledge, THAT is what I have to dismiss. Easier said than done though. What Howard and others have wrote has helped though. I'm going to ask her to climb on to then slide up to my face, sort of 'force' me the first time. I've wanted this too much to keep 'chickening' out.

Philip

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I also had my wife slide up me and force me like you suggest. Too many times, my body language would let her know I was truly "done" and she wouldn't push me. Later on, when we would talk about it, I let her know I want the memory, but I am just not interested in doing it at the time. This is the problem for us. It's not a turn-on to her, so she's not really motivated to do it. I'm only interested in it when I'm excited. Neither of us pushes hard enough when the moment comes (so to speak).

She has done it a few times. I've heard how so many women find it really hot to have this done. She just doesn't find it exciting and would rather be finished. If she was into it more, I'd be more willing to please her. Since it's my fantasy, I can't get beyond what you describe as "what would others think of me". It's more about what >I< think about me - when I'm not in a sexual mood. If my wife wanted it, I could justify it by telling myself it is something I do for her. Since she's not into it, I have to figure out how to either release this fantasy, or overcome my inhibitions. It's been about four years now - and neither has happened. In that time, I've probably licked her a dozen or more times. Usually, it's when she has some wine or something that will give her the extra push to cater to my fantasy.

We've tried stories, pictures, video, discussions. Nothing seems to get her interested in this - although all of the above makes me that much more excited about the idea - until the moment I orgasm. It's maddening!

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You've gotten farther than I have Creammiester, with the off the belly lick. That's full concentration, the rest ought to easier. It's funny how fast the mindset changes, from a screaming desire to total disgust in micro seconds! I think my biggest hang up is what people would think of me if it was public knowledge, THAT is what I have to dismiss. Easier said than done though. What Howard and others have wrote has helped though. I'm going to ask her to climb on to then slide up to my face, sort of 'force' me the first time. I've wanted this too much to keep 'chickening' out.

Philip

I told some of the gals in my office, they thought it was normal - then they borrowed by porn movie "Pirates". It good to have support but frankly I don't think many people are really gonna think much about it unless they really young. Most women say the same thing "why not, it yours"

Glenn

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Glennbaker, the movie Pirates, is it related to my act of desire?...Haven't heard of it before and your review doesn't say.

Creamiester, fortunatly my wife desires this as much or more than I do, when we discuss it she becomes VERY wet, but she doesn't push me. It's something that I'm going to have to get over if I'm truly going to satify her. It's obvious that she will come like mad, as hot as she gets. It's just a matter of pushing myself over the post ejaclation 'jitters'. I need to do it, for the both of us. Thanks again, folks.

Philip

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Glennbaker, the movie Pirates, is it related to my act of desire?...Haven't heard of it before and your review doesn't say.

Creamiester, fortunatly my wife desires this as much or more than I do, when we discuss it she becomes VERY wet, but she doesn't push me. It's something that I'm going to have to get over if I'm truly going to satify her. It's obvious that she will come like mad, as hot as she gets. It's just a matter of pushing myself over the post ejaclation 'jitters'. I need to do it, for the both of us. Thanks again, folks.

Philip

No I was just being wordy in my comment, there isn't a scene in the movie that I can recall that relates to your desire.

Glenn

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Read your topic and it really reminded me of the same problem. This turned us both on like mad, but after I came I lost my nerve. But after reading the replys to your post, I just made myself really determined and after I shot my cum into the other night I just rolled her over and went down there and started eating her. It was definitely a great experience for both of us and one I am sure will happen again. I guess like most things you just have to be determined and as the NIKE add says "JUST DO IT"

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I read somewhere that within seconds of ejaculation, most men are done. Something in their chemistry just more or less has them ready to roll over and go to sleep or watch the tube. Did you notice how many males on here said almost the same thing. I believe there must be something to it. I have the same problem.

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I think you should try to break your personal best then. There's no reason why that should be happening unless you're only having sex at night just before bed. It's been said this is a bad time to have sex if you can avoid it because oft times one or both people are already tired and at times sex can become a sleep aid. I say it's not the best time to do it because you're right, you're so relaxed after sex that the inclination is to sleep. I like our midday sexcapades the best because not only are we connecting before but we're also connecting afterward and you don't have to be too tired for rounds 2-5.

Thurisas.

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I think you should try to break your personal best then. There's no reason why that should be happening unless you're only having sex at night just before bed. It's been said this is a bad time to have sex if you can avoid it because oft times one or both people are already tired and at times sex can become a sleep aid. I say it's not the best time to do it because you're right, you're so relaxed after sex that the inclination is to sleep. I like our midday sexcapades the best because not only are we connecting before but we're also connecting afterward and you don't have to be too tired for rounds 2-5.

Thurisas.

I have to second this, I hate sex at night. afternoon is best for me. It the time for the quality and quantity to become one at the same time

Glenn

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All the suggestions about "Just do it", and not have her orgasm, and different times of day are very good indeed. In fact, I have tried all of them! The issue I am trying to resolve is "WHY?" Why do I get so excited with the thought and even the memory of previous times I at her creampie, but I can't feel ANY excitement at the idea immediately after I cum? It's maddening!

I've rolled my wife over and "just did it" a couple of times - mostly so I wouldn't lose my self-respect. The idea of an afternoon creampie is extremely appealing because I get to see it! It sure beats any pictures online! I've even had my wife postpone her own pleasure so she would really want me to finish her off. All these ideas are great. While eating her, I have no enthusiasm and no interest. Later, while recalling the action, I am extremely aroused by the memory.

I just can't get myself past whatever block happens as soon as I cum. I can be all ready and willing to dive right in while I'm inside my wife. Once I cum, it's the last thing in the world I want. It's not just about being "done". I just lose all interest. It's bizarre because it's my most favorite fantasy, too. I just don't understand it - and that's what's driving me crazy.

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I guess the biggest question is are you usually done as soon as you release or do you continue to play in other ways even when you're not thinking about going down on her? It's possible you've trained yourself to think that ejaculate means finished. Could it also be that there is a hitch as you're getting ready to do it as to whether or not this is a turn on for her? Is it outside of your comfort zone? Why? These, of course, are questions only you could answer but I'm sure if you do a little digging and ask a few why's you can find your answer.

Thurisas.

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Thanks for the replies. Thurias, yes and no...generally when we are done, were done. But if she hasn't came yet I'll kiss her or suck her nipples while I bring her off manually. Freaking weird, I want this but even feeling it on my hand (in her) is kind of disgusting, but will do it for her satisfaction.

I had a Gentleman send me a PM saying that I am Homophobic, that very well may be, somewhat. But I think the whole deal goes back to previous women....I had a couple girls (years ago) who toward the end of the relationship had started going out on me (as I, them) but as we were still living together and having sex had me eat them, I didn't know they had been out with their boyfriends, but it didn;t take long to find out. Cum when it passes from a womans Vagina to your lips is kind of clumpy. This experience was both disgusting and totally hot at the same time...I think, those previous experiences are what is driving this desire. I think, what I really want is for her to sort of force me to do it....we have done light bondage and I have brought it up a few times...my wife isn't super dominate, actually barely at all, but is getting there. She knows that I want it, and she would like it she says. But she doesn't force me as she knows how I feel afterwards...good woman, Catch-22 though, huh?

This deal has my head all screwed up, I want it yet I don't. Best wishes, all.

Philip

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I get really hot thinking about the idea... but my guy although not squemish around the idea, has tasted his cum and has accidentally tasted himself off my body- really had no intrest or desire to do so..Once or twice he has gone down on me after coming in me but focouses only on the clit... I wish he was into it though I think it would make me really hot!

something about tasting me&him together...i dunno seems really umm hot lol :P

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Last Saturday night the kids were gone and the wife and I made love, as I come quicker than she does, usually I move up kiss her, or suck on her nipples while I bring her off. This time as I came she told me to lick her...I slid down between her thighs and ran my tongue up into her. She was a mess(!) and I actually shuddered as I have been wanting to do this to her for sooo long! The taste actually suprised me, she tasted, for lack of a better word...buttery. Maybe I am a little kinky, but I loved it! More I think than I do without my cum mixed in....she sure loved it too!. Told me afterward that she was tired of hearing me talk about it, then chicken out. I am damn glad that I have a wife who loves me enough to help me realize my fantasy with her. She had a doctors appointment Thursday morning and took off work...after making love Wednseday she didn't have to ask me that night, I knew what we both wanted and didn't hesitate! She said later that it's good that I enjoy it so much, because it makes her hornier as I do it and she feels somewhat nasty,and that I will be doing it a lot more. YEAHH!!

I feel pretty stupid for not trying sooner and appreciate all the help and advice that I have received here.

Thanks, Philip

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Last Saturday night the kids were gone and the wife and I made love, as I come quicker than she does, usually I move up kiss her, or suck on her nipples while I bring her off. This time as I came she told me to lick her...I slid down between her thighs and ran my tongue up into her. She was a mess(!) and I actually shuddered as I have been wanting to do this to her for sooo long! The taste actually suprised me, she tasted, for lack of a better word...buttery. Maybe I am a little kinky, but I loved it! More I think than I do without my cum mixed in....she sure loved it too!. Told me afterward that she was tired of hearing me talk about it, then chicken out. I am damn glad that I have a wife who loves me enough to help me realize my fantasy with her. She had a doctors appointment Thursday morning and took off work...after making love Wednseday she didn't have to ask me that night, I knew what we both wanted and didn't hesitate! She said later that it's good that I enjoy it so much, because it makes her hornier as I do it and she feels somewhat nasty,and that I will be doing it a lot more. YEAHH!!

I feel pretty stupid for not trying sooner and appreciate all the help and advice that I have received here.

Thanks, Philip

It takes time but the encouragment from someone else at the moment you need it is what helps get you there. Maybe she wanted it bad too after fantasies that never happened that she just pulled the femdom out of her

Congradulations,

Glenn

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I had never thought of doing this before, but reading your post really made me want my husband to do it! I asked last night and he did not hesitate. I was amazed at how much BOTH of us enjoyed it. I feel like we just went to another level - thank you for the suggestion!

Satisfied!

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I've been eating Di's pussy full of my cum for years and I know what everyones talking about. The Chinese, Toaists to be exact, believe when a man cums he releases all his sexual and body energy out the end of his cock, hence thats why guys roll over and go to sleep after cumming. If you have no sexual energy left it only stands to reason your not going to feel like eating pussy. Di got me use to my own cum by sucking my cock and then kissing me with a mouth full of cum. We then moved on to me cumming on her fabulous tits and she would pull my face in to them and tell me to lick them clean. It wasn't long and I started having a stronger then ever desire for my own cum which eventually over took my loss of energy after cumming. Now there Di doesn't have to ask or tell me to eat her as soon as I cum I give her a taste of my cum covered cock and then dive between her legs and pig out. The loss of sexual enegry is hard to over come but it's neccassary to have your partner work with you on this. They have to keep you interested so you can keep going. So talk to your partner, alot, and hopefully with time you'll be enjoying wonderful cream filled pussy too. :P

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We talked about this, and my husband says it's the one thing he will absolutely not do. He says it grosses him out. I'm not sure how I feel about it.

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