Toys For Husband?

[military_wife]

I have been married for alittle over 3 months, my husband and I have been together for almost 4 years and we have a daughter that is almost three. So we know each other in and out. He likes foreplay, as do I. My question is, he is preparing to go to Iraq, he has been gone for 2 months and is going to be home in a couple of weeks for 10 days, then ship out. I am not usually the type to dress up or buy/ use toys. But with the deployment, I had decided to buy him some coming home presents so to speak. I bought the clone a penis and pussy kits, a sexy outfit, and a game that has 1,000 sex games in it. I want to buy a sleeve for him because I will have a copy of his penis, but he will just have the outer part of my vagina. I figured that he could rub on it and use the sleeve and think of me. But a friend of mine told me that was lame to buy him the pocket pussy. I feel wierd buying another woman's stuff ( the pocket pussy ) for him because it isn't mine. He will be gone for 6 months, so would he like a sleeve, or should I suck up my pride and buy the pocket pussy?

[Mikayla1]

Well first off, I do not think that the soldiers are allowed to bring things like that to Iraq. I would definitely find that out first!

As for it not 'being yours' - honey, I do not want to sound...um....judgemental but....it isn't REAL! Just because it isn't a replica of YOUR pussy doesn't mean it is like he is with another woman. Also, you can not be so naive as to think that your man only fantasizes about you. Men (and women) have a multitude of fantasies - some involve us and some don't. That is what makes them a fantasy. Your man is going to serve in this God-forsaken war. He will miss you - he will need you - and he has memories and thoughts of you. Whether you buy him a sleeve or not he will fantasize about whatever he normally does during his masturbation time anyway.

My suggestion: give him the best send off you can so that he will fantasize about it over and over and over again while he is away. If he can bring a masturbation sleeve - then buy one of the non-descript ones that he can use with your pussy. The regular sleeves. Or, give him a nice masturbation lubricant to use his hand with.

Whichever road you go, rest assured that giving him someone to come home to is the best thing you can do for him while he is away. That and supporting him!

[Kinky Twinkie]

Well first off, I do not think that the soldiers are allowed to bring things like that to Iraq. I would definitely find that out first!

As for it not 'being yours' - honey, I do not want to sound...um....judgemental but....it isn't REAL! Just because it isn't a replica of YOUR pussy doesn't mean it is like he is with another woman. Also, you can not be so naive as to think that your man only fantasizes about you. Men (and women) have a multitude of fantasies - some involve us and some don't. That is what makes them a fantasy. Your man is going to serve in this God-forsaken war. He will miss you - he will need you - and he has memories and thoughts of you. Whether you buy him a sleeve or not he will fantasize about whatever he normally does during his masturbation time anyway.

My suggestion: give him the best send off you can so that he will fantasize about it over and over and over again while he is away. If he can bring a masturbation sleeve - then buy one of the non-descript ones that he can use with your pussy. The regular sleeves. Or, give him a nice masturbation lubricant to use his hand with.

Whichever road you go, rest assured that giving him someone to come home to is the best thing you can do for him while he is away. That and supporting him!

honestly having been deployed to a war zone I not sure there gonna be many places he can do it in private. Most of my masturbating was done with a hand under the sheets at night rubbing myself through my underwear as a bunch of guys slept around me. No one would want to be caught with one of those things because they would never stop getting teased about it when discovered. There not much private, not even pictures you bring with you. It kind of like, everything becomes community property.

I remember the latrine didn't even allow you to sit and crap with any privacy. We'll that was tent living.

I know I not the only guy that did it, guys dont often admit these things but I think I would enjoy the toys when he home and let him know they be waiting on him when he gets back. Now a bottle of lube, thats a maybe depending on where he going and what he does. I used to masterbate in my bunkers I sat in all day but take it out I didn't dare, you never knew who would visit and when. Didnt want to be caught but it was easy to rub myself through my pocket if you get my drift

Glenn

But trust me, not much he gonna be able to do locally with locals so i wouldn't worry about him straying unless he decids to get it on with another solder and I doubt that would happen.